posted November 01, 2014 06:08 PM            

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posted November 02, 2014 08:39 AM            

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posted November 02, 2014 09:00 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
What's the nature of your relationship? Are you guys casually dating, serious relationship, friends?

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What a question.
In short, we dated and then broken up. Dated again and now we are broken up. So, we are "friends" right now, but we both know that it could/will probably never be just that.

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posted November 02, 2014 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Ok will I needed more info to try and assign the right sigs. In this case, I would you the sun and him Saturn. The sun is not aspecting Saturn so we can look to the moon, your co-sig. Moon is making an applying square to Saturn, which indicates the relationship you have is still going but obviously with struggles/complications. You're currently sitting in his 2nd house and he is not receiving you by essential or accidental dignity. He is in your 5th house of romantic interests but is in your fall. Are you mad at him or do you hold some sort of resentment toward him? If we stick to your sit as the sun, we see it is sitting in his 10th house, so he holds you in very high regard (he think's a lot of you) but currently the sun is in his detriment which means he's upset as well. As of right now he's sitting in his own 11th house so I think he's in "friendship" mode currently but as you can see moon is conjunct Neptune. This means you two are deluded about something and mid-understandings are abundant. I think once you can clear the air with each other and really talk things out (NN conjunct Mercury- ruler of your 3rd house of communication) you two will get back together again as moon makes an applying trine to Venus. I believe you guys will get back together

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You really are a gem!

So many aspects of your analysis were right. I am very upset with him. I know that he is upset with me too. He is definitely in 'friendship mode' at present, but at the same time I do believe that he cares for me. The mercury retrograde was an important period in attempting to clear the air, but we have not had sufficient time apart to think. That is promising and makes me happy to know. I guess I have to leave the rest out there. Will give you an update as soon as there is one - thank you very much x

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posted November 09, 2014 11:17 AM            

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posted November 09, 2014 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
Well synastry is synastry and is different than horary. I do believe you will get back together, but the synastry might indicate you guys decide to stay in "friendship" mode.

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I like the way you said "friendship" mode lol. That made me laugh. I would love to be back with him, but you know when it's just complicated lol - booooo!!!!

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posted November 17, 2014 03:41 PM            

I have learned over this last year to take things one day at a time because thinking so far ahead into the future a) robs today of its joy and b) anything can happen; but it was still sad to see him "bonding" with someone else. Especially as we haven't spoken for nearly a month.

I'm trying to get to a stage where I accept that he made mistakes in our relationship and that you can never really go forward in any way (with someone else or with the said person) unless you let the past go. It's hard though, the situation that really put a knife in my heart meant a lot to me. So much and for the fact that I don't think he really understands the depth of my brokenness in that respect, makes it difficult to let bygones be bygones.

posted December 05, 2014 01:37 PM            

We ended up engaging in some text exchanges today and they ended with him flirting/seeing if he still had it and me playing hard to get.