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Topic: help, please, and opinions, too
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starryeyeddreamer
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Richfield, NC, USA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted October 23, 2003 04:48 PM
 
recently I, a cancerian with scorpio on the horizon and leo holding the moon, have been in a relationship with a wonderful pisces male. however, a bunch of life and crap got thrown at us and now he wants to end things because of a severe inferiority complex. our hearts and souls are so happy together, but I'm unsure what to do. I fight and try and hope and KNOW he and I are meant for each other on some level, but I don't know how to get him to stand up for what he feels, be it different or the same. Love is too shallow a word for what I believe he and I share, for what we both feel and see and taste and- any suggestions, aside from patience is a virtue?IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Knowflake Posts: 4992
From:
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted October 23, 2003 05:09 PM
Here's a story:There was once an Aries girl and Pisces boy who loved each other very much. They were in a relationship for 3 years. During that time, the Pisces boy had many opportunities to advance himself both career wise and spiritually. He choose not to take them, and wallowed in the shallow end of the pool taking mistreatment and being over worked. The Aries girl held onto hope that he would turn around and hold himself high and walk the paths that made him happy. As days went on, the Aries girl became very sad because the Pisces boy began living in another world comforted with addictions. He stopped caring for the Aries girl and spent all the money that came in. He fought a lot with the Aries girl and sometimes hit her. Then one day, a Pisces girl became friends with the Aries girl. The Pisces girl was kind, gentle, and very wise. The Aries girl told the Pisces girl the things that were happening with the Pisces boy. The Pisces girl said that all Pisceans know they are taken care of in the Universe and that they are the strongest signs in the Zodiac. They are in tune, and have the mythical knowledge of how to make it in this world, and including their fortune. If they truly want something, they will do it and achieve whatever they want. The Pisces girl also told the Aries girl that it was time to leave the Pisces boy, because if he hadn't done the things he needed to do by now, he will never do them. She also said that he would not fight with the Aries girl about keeping the relationship, because it would be too much work and energy for a Pisces. Weeks later, the Aries girl said her goodbye to the Pisces boy. And soon thereafter, the Pisces girl gently walked out of the Aries girl's life, knowing that she had done her job from a soul memory from long ago. The Pisces girl also knew the Aries girl would live a much happier life from now on. It took a Pisces to tell the Aries girl to leave her Pisces. Love, Aphrodite IP: Logged |
NikiSpeedy
Knowflake Posts: 345
From: NC
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted October 23, 2003 05:27 PM
As a Pisces girl -- this really touched me.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 25287
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted October 24, 2003 01:56 AM
Welcome!  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
pearly
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: Neptune, Milky Way, Universe
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted October 24, 2003 04:22 AM
...and then, the strangest thing occurred. The Aries girl (herself obviously acting on an ancient, subconscious soul memory) wrote a story about her encounter with the Pisces girl at a most curious moment in the Pisces girl's life. A time that she needed to be guided with the exact same knowledge that she had previously shared with the Aries girl, but had forgotten (as Pisces are not the best at sharing insight with themselves... it's a Neptune thing.) Timing could not have been more perfect for the deliverance of this message from the Aries girl to the Pisces girl...
 Perhaps this is a good reminder that life is more than I think... and wisdom is more than just words spoken, it the unexplainable 'knowing' of when to speak them (usually subconsciously). Aphrodite, truly this is the Universe at work!  Thank you for reminding me of this! I miss you and btw-I never walk away... first of all, I swim and second of all, I like you too much! Hopefully I'll see you soon... I'll email you :-)
Ps- I know I haven't posted in a long while... but I do love everyone here at Lindaland and am so happy and thankful for all that I've received along the way in my journey here so far. Much love and light to everyone 
oh, and Hi Juniperb! 
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CancerianMoon
Knowflake Posts: 1082
From: Sydney, Australia. Cancer Sun.....Gemini Moon.....Aqua Rising
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted October 24, 2003 05:28 AM
I'm a cancerian too  ...and my last relationship was with a pisces...off and on for 5 years..3 children later..and a broken heart...we r now seperated(well for nearly 2 years)..he had so many good qualities...but really could never lift himself up(taking the road of least resistance and submitting himself to gambeling and alcohol)...not to say this is true with your pisces...but the old...if they havent found thier niche by 25...they never will....is very true..
wishing u all the best my fellow cancer  ------------------
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The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.
Carl Jung IP: Logged |
trillian
Knowflake Posts: 4050
From: The Boundless
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted October 24, 2003 09:51 AM
Aphrodite...you gave this Aries girl chills.
Truly. IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Knowflake Posts: 4992
From:
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted October 24, 2003 12:24 PM
Pearly  IP: Logged |
starryeyeddreamer
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Richfield, NC, USA
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted October 29, 2003 06:01 PM
Aphrodite... my heart cries to hear a story so similiar and different to mine. The neglect in my case is largely emotional, I have been a (UN)willing third fiddle to a job and a selfish mother. At this point, I am living in the land "between promise and memory" with him, loved and unloved, needed and wanted, sought and ran from. He says he feels nothing when I stand before him, my pain pouring out from my eyes. This pain inside is prodded and manipulated by something I can't argue with, something I can't dissuade. There's something bigger inside telling me not to stop believing, not to give up on this. Sometimes I feel it's the look in his eyes, even when he says he feels nothing for anything anymore. I'm well aware that for now, but maybe not forever, he and I are in need to be apart. So as truly painful as this is for me, I am doing my best to grant it. But what will ease the pain? Time, in it's great illusion, is only bringing me reminders of yesterday and sparks of encouragment to dreams that seem to be dying. Dying in lonlieness, in absence of the warmth of his smile and his touch. My heart and soul ache and cry... what can I do? How can I make this passing from feeling the sun on both sides to darkness fought off by my candle of hope?IP: Logged |
jennafer
Knowflake Posts: 56
From: sydney Australia
Registered: Jun 2003
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posted October 29, 2003 07:12 PM
Hi Everyone...Speaking as a Pisces, all I can say "Life is so complicated as one" sometimes you have to let them swim away..for them to work through all those emotions, when they find a bit of dry land to rest there washed out minds...they have the oppertunity to find some time to think, instead of feel. Trust me...this is sometimes hard to do...and can take a while! best wishes and love to all! IP: Logged | |
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