posted July 11, 2002 07:12 AM              

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In ALL the years that I have dated, I have never known a human being as fickle as this Libra that I have been seeing!!! It seems that he has so much trouble keeping his word. One minute he is going to do something and it is full steam ahead with the plans and the next minute he has changed his mind. This is the most maddening experience!!
His D.O.B. is Oct 4, 1958 (New Orleans, La) but no birth time available (he doesn't believe in horoscopes!!!Go figure!!!!)
Any insight would be greatly appreciated!!! This is too much for my little Aquarian mind!!!

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Hugs,LTD ~~The struggle keeps us young~~Daring to make mistakes and knowing there are none.~~DGM

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posted July 11, 2002 08:24 AM            

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Hi La-tee-da,
Coming from another Libra I don't know how much help I'll be but I do understand your
problem. We Libras have a terrible time
making decisions. We're so afraid of making a
mistake. Or doing something we can't undo. I
think if you just give him alot of space and
don't pressure him. He'll come around but it
has to be his choice and it can take a really
really long time. Hope you have the patience.
Good Luck

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posted July 11, 2002 08:48 AM              

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Thanks Buddy.....I am really trying to be patient....he's really a good person, deep down inside, but he makes me wanna bang my head against the wall sometimes from frustration!!!

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posted July 11, 2002 11:14 AM              

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Hey, I'm a Libra, but I'm also a Woman!
Libra men and women ARE different, but I think for alot of us, it is also about not being able to make a decision based on lack of choices we desire.
I find that I know exactly what I want, but if that choice is not availabe, I tend to vacillate or have decision-making problems because I don't like to have to make-do. We Libra's are cerebral and for alot of us, we have a certain image in mind.
Also, we tend to be on our OWN time. We will do it when we feel is the "Right" time to do it. Go figure! lol At times, we also need a nudge to get things going. Once we start, we FINISH!
If you want your guy to do something for you, try not to nag him. Instead, use a sweet, gentle approach... A little more sweetness! Us Libra's LOVE a little sugar on EVERYTHING!
If he's still unmotivated, hint about later rewards. He'll get it done in a flash!(Heehee)

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posted July 11, 2002 01:42 PM              

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La Tee-Da, he has a Gemini Moon! That is where his fickleness comes into play.

Just goes to show ya, we aren't just our Sun Sign, .

Of course, he has Sun, Mercury and Venus in Libra, oh decisions, decisions.

Donna

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posted July 11, 2002 04:47 PM              

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Right when I read your post I had a good feeling he had a Gemini Moon and when I checked I was right. Gemini and Libra are the most indecisive signs. I have a Gemini Moon and I'll never know what I want until I ask myself a thousand times Especially with my Pisces Sun, I'm constantly daydreaming. I'm usually at war with myself and so is this guy.

-This man needs someone who is very stable but not earth signs I'm sure they'll hate him He needs to date someone with lots of leadership qualities. Like he needs to date a Leo or definitly an Aries with a Gemini moon.
-StarLover

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posted July 11, 2002 06:07 PM              

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So, does this mean an Aquarius with an Aries moon is not the ticket? We get along beautifully, until he starts his fickleness, then I want to choke him. It's funny, when he asks where I want to have dinner, I say "Anywhere is okay with me. You pick." and he goes nuts...."NO! you have to have an opinion...say where you want to go!"

A reader I went to a couple of months ago said he was in his 9 year cycle and would be a horse's *ss all year long. She said he would be worse than usual about making decisions and told me to be patient with him.
Having just been thru my "9", I know how horrible they can be. All the awful things that have happened to me in my life have always been in those 9 cycles.
What do you guys think about this adding to his consternation?

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Hugs,LTD ~~The struggle keeps us young~~Daring to make mistakes and knowing there are none.~~DGM

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posted July 11, 2002 10:21 PM              

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As long as you have an Aries moon you can handle him nicely plus you have a lot of sextiles and trines. So I think it's good! Goodluck!

-Starlover

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posted July 12, 2002 03:25 AM              

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Hi La-tee-dah,
I am a libran with gemini moon. Its really tough for me to make decisions. Even if I finally take any decision on any matter, I still get the feeling that something may go wrong or may be this is not the right decision.
Although I am not fickle but I have a very short attention span.
But my saving grace is that I have many planets in earth sign (Virgo)so I stick to my decisions once it is made.
Just be a bit patient with him and the things will work out. Dont force him to take decisions quickly, as it might be very tough for him.
We Librans do take time to make decisions but once its made we stick to it.

sahana

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posted July 12, 2002 07:22 AM              

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Hee-hee-hee!!! I appreciate all your insight and I feel like such a DRAGON for wanting to choke him
He is a sweetheart, he is funny, he is gorgeous, BUT aye,aye he is wishy-washy!! He doesn't function well under stress either. When things get stressful, I have to jump in and hold him like a baby, till he gets back together!! We get along like we have known each other for a million years....very comfortable fit.
Thanks everyone for being so helpful!!
I will try not to be a

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posted July 13, 2002 07:00 AM              

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Okay.....another Libra related question:
Do Libras pout when upset? Do they brood when trying to decide what to do? Do they jokingly say things that may hurt another, then regret it and not know how to apologize?
I am still perplexed!!
Thanks everyone
a Aquarius

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posted September 13, 2002 08:56 PM              

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They don't like it when you say pout . . Or at least mine doesn't *snicker*
His words were I quote "But that makes me sound so childish" He doesn't like Sulk either.
I turned around and interrupted him in that mood once "Are you Quite Done with the Sulking? HMmmmm?" And bad as it was it was kinda nice to see him go off "I'M NOT SULKING".
The man never raises his voice or admits he's fighting with me.
He has a five planet stellium entirely in libra. Between the two of us including asc, dc, mc and nadir, we have 14 in Cardinals so you can just imagine what its like when either of us digs our heels in. Add in that my chart has more Libra than Cappy and you should see us try to pick something. And us when we're pretending we don't want to throttle the other. LOL
My Libra Jup/Saturn cnj. squares my Mercury (writing) so try not to throttle me for the seem's to's and the in parts.
Yes Libras Sulk. This is partially because they (I wanna say seem to) have a problem admitting when they are unhappy, because (in part) they want to see you happy. So they think they're sucking it up and being good little saints until you don't appreciate their massive sacrifice *Rolling eyes*. Then they want you to make it up to them but they don't want to ask because that wouldn't be nice and they would have to admit that they weren't happy to do what you wanted to do in the first place and anyone who was really in love wouldn't mind doing what the other person wanted to do would they?
So they just wait until you say no to them and have a good sulk.
The only option is to figure out what is wrong and some libras will not want to tell you.
Sometimes watch the offhand comments from your libra boy as well, I find mine voices his unhappiness as subtly as he can manage. He doesn't want ot make me unhappy, libras are usually (In my experience) a little overconcerned with the happiness of their partners and with getting along, even to the point sometimes of ignoring legitimate problems.
My best friend has Libra rising and some other Libra influence and she stayed in a relationship and did everythign possible to make her scorpio partner happy, including not talking to any of her friends (HE had no friends so she wasn't allowed friends either), changing the way she dressed, and putting up with endless put downs, and minor physical abuse. And then she tried to stay friends with him after. Oy.
Libras are very eager to please, you sometiems just need to remind them to take care of themselves to keep them happy. Good Luck.

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posted September 18, 2002 10:59 AM              

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My goodness did you guys hit it on the head about Libra men or what! I'm Aries/f Sag rising and My Libra/m has libra rising. Can be the sweetest thing on earth, but fickle as all get out! Sometimes..most times I feel I have to play the Gipetto role or whatever Pinocchio's so-called poppa's name was. Anyway...had to cast my vote on Foxxy's comment. Hard for me to believe we've been together 12-years now! On and off ofcourse.
To tell the truth, I think his venus in scorpio keeps me hanging on!

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posted September 18, 2002 05:21 PM              

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YOU WANNA CHOKE A LIBRA??????

can i join you?

pleeeeeeease!

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posted September 18, 2002 05:34 PM              

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Alright let me explain where that's coming from…

I had a libra friend who just could never ever make up her mind about anything! I would often find myself playing tweedily dee tweedily dumb, twirling my thumbs, boiling up every inner organ to the point of erruption, I often found myself in walk in cliniques asking the doctor why my this or my that was hurting… he said STRESS. Mmmmm, and when I let my stress out and burst into a screaming session out of frustration… well she just looked offended, frowned and refused to understand my position. It so happened I had a position! AT LEAST! While she just sat on a fence still deciding which position she should take! The friendship ended with a letter from her part, blaming me for everything gone wrong but HEY!!!!!!! How much can a hot blooded aries take? Either pour cold water on me to cool me down or hot water to shut me up! But for goodness sake, not lukewarm, yakkk!
Even that last letter had a frustrating tone of diplomacy, the T'ees were not crossed and the I 's undotted… but the stationary was a beautiful lavender tint and a faint flower patern in the background.…………………………………………………………………………………………… eventually, i burned it.

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posted September 19, 2002 06:48 AM              

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ramzel,

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posted September 26, 2002 03:59 PM              

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La-Tee-Da, I am sorry if I rewrite anything , but I was soooooo excited by what you wrote... You are female-Aquarius
He is male-Libra.

How unreal is this... I am Female-Aquarius
2/1/73 New Orleans

My Hubby Is Get this... Libra 10/3/69
New Orleans

Small world don't you think... Any way we have been Married for seven years we have a wonderful relationship. We have known each other since I was in jr high school.
We dated on and off for years ...
He couldn't make up his mind about anything...Did not believe in the stars.

I love him soooo much it hurts sometimes.
He still procrastinates on some stuff and can't make up his mind a lot of times ...
But if you love your Libra don't let him go.

He will be your best friend ,your secret keeper, your everything and a lot lot lot more.

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posted September 26, 2002 04:01 PM              

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PS Even when he messes up BIG TIME !!!!

Just read the thing about eating tell him where you want to go!!!!!

(LAUGHING SO HAR RIGHT NOW) I CAN'T SEE THE SCREEN I'M CRYING.....
I know I am younger but that sound just like me and my husband. And I have learned that we will NOT go out anywhere unless I say..." I want to go to ..."

My Libra will bend over back wards, stand on his head, do summer salts, to get what I want if I tell him I want It...
Not that I wouldn't do the same for him mind you....
But if I make him decide I will be disappointed, and he can tell when I am...
That does not make him feel good. He would rather see me very happy. My libra does make joke sometimes that do hurt I have learned not to take him seriously and to tell him when I don't like the joke... It makes it a lot easier, than trying to figure it out for myself ...

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posted October 01, 2002 11:07 AM              

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La-Tee-Da, are you still there?

I would truely love to chat about,

Libra/Aquarius relationships.

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posted October 02, 2002 10:46 PM              

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Hi,
I am a scorpio sun with a libra moon.Now i think i know where i get the indecision from .I always knew scorpio had nthng to do with indecision.I can take ages to decide 'this' or 'that'. I mean there are two cases...
1.I KNOW this is right...i dont even think twice...
2.but wherever I have apprehension

Anybody can make me think twice...but thanks to scorpio sun...when i put my foot down...u cant budge me .To top it all my capricorn ascedent makes me calculative ...
dont i sound pretty CHALLENGING

Scorpspice

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posted October 02, 2002 10:47 PM              

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Hi,
I am a scorpio sun with a libra moon.Now i think i know where i get the indecision from .I always knew scorpio had nthng to do with indecision.I can take ages to decide 'this' or 'that'. I mean there are two cases...
1.I KNOW this is right...i dont even think twice...
2.but wherever I have apprehension

Anybody can make me think twice...but thanks to scorpio sun...when i put my foot down...u cant budge me .To top it all my capricorn ascedent makes me calculative ...
dont i sound pretty CHALLENGING

Scorpspice

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posted October 03, 2002 03:37 AM              

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hey scorpspice,
you sound quite familiar!

i have scorp rising and a cappy moon, with a gemini sun. i never seem to be able to decide anything but when i do i'm impossible to budge!

any similarities between libra and gemini on the indecision issue?

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posted October 03, 2002 09:39 AM              

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Hi Delta,

Off the subject... by any chance do you know some-one by the name Mysterie, or Claire Gonzalas?
Just wondering because I know some-one named Delta...

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posted October 08, 2002 05:43 AM              

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HI, first of all forgive my English I'm from Spain and I know some of my expressions could not be right...
I want to CHOKE A LIBRA too, but only sometimes. I'm a Pisces, Scorpio Moon, Libra rising.
He's a Libra, Libra Moon, Saggitarius rising.
Our minds and tastes were sooo similar, we had great conversations about everything....unless feelings.
why is Libra people so afraid to show their feelings? Why everything seems to be so indifferent for them? I thought I was indecisive, becuase of my Libra rising, but MY GOD he is so NEUTRAL!!!! It seems he doesn't want to fight for anybody.
He sometimes says yes and sometimes says no, yes that I can understand, but WHERE IS PASSION IN LIBRA???

Thanks everybody

Wave

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