posted October 29, 2002 03:27 AM              

I have a question for whoever wants to answer (the more the merrier).
What would be considered being the best position of the planets (aspects/houses) to start a new relationship? To have this 'vibe' around you and wanting to ....hit it off!?
I have read that the long term aspects (Pluto and his friends) should also indicate this and then when another planets (or more) hits another the changes are bigger. And then as well when either the zero point is reached or when the aspect decreases the changes are biggest.
I am wondering this of course because I am planning something.... I am on fire as much as you can imagine!!!
If only I wouldn't be so incredibly restless and impatient. I am jumping the walls and want to MOVE!
Thanks a lot and more than one answer is very welcome! I know I am greedy

posted October 29, 2002 01:31 PM              

Did you answer Lost Leo's post, by any chance?

Nice meeting you!

posted October 29, 2002 02:54 PM              

Yes Bissie is right that I meant transits. And Bissie, me naughty? Who told you this?

Well it is still the same guy I was talking about in the other post and yes he is also not originally from the country I live as you said I would probably end up with a foreigner.
There has been this incredibly intuitive/psychic, emotional/intelectual and sexual (boy oh boy) link between us from the start and yes I have fallen (I knew it )! Only thing is that I work in a school and he is a student so meeting each other is difficult and always goes quick but when we do meet we always seem to meet magically!
We are both very passionate and flirtatious to each other (obviously) but I try to be subtle and let him know I really care (like we don't know this from each other ). It also feels I know him for ages, his eyes...aaah and the world disappeares when I see him. Sorry, I could go on like this but you get the picture.
Bissie you make me laugh! Hooked?! Yes indeed, here you bugger, come into my arms! Hehe.
Cate thank you so much for your sweet and helpful insightful reply. And yes I did answer Lost Leo's post. Wonderful, seems at the right time for me, a post like that makes me wanna....explode?! No, instead I'll stick around a little longer!

posted October 29, 2002 05:31 PM              

Yep, just as i was walking home i started smiling for...no apparent reason (??)

As for mentally active...well, stuffed full of forward kinematics solvers would explain the state of my head at the moment!

posted October 29, 2002 10:40 PM              

Yes, I misunderstood your question. Head in the clouds over here. But Biss covers my ass, bless her Moon in Gemini.

Give me a few days and I'll get back to ya!
Good luck with your honey, honey.

posted October 30, 2002 06:32 AM              

Oh and the North Node in Gemini at this moment is conjuncting my MC (and his Moon and trines mine). Does this have anything fantastic to do with a careeropportunity because I am about to start with something new inside this school. Something which will be the most wonderful and exciting job in the world to me. Like yeah, this is what I was meant to do! Plus Saturn moves it's way through my 10th as well.
Whhiiiiii! I want him...NOW! Oooow!

posted November 07, 2002 03:40 PM              

His chart: He has a kite configuration involving his 9th house Aries Mercury, his Leo ASC, his 4th house Scorpio Uranus, and his 3rd house Jupiter-Saturn conj. The Jup-Saturn conj is at the apex and so is the focal point of this kite. 3rd house themes of communication/ideas are colored strongly by the combined themes of expansion and restriction. Because Jup-Saturn are generally well-connected to other planets and an angle, it should be a relatively easy energy for him to deal with.

However, this same Jup-Saturn conj. is part of an out-of-sign T-square also involving his 9th Merc and 5th Neptune. Hence his Neptune, at the apex, has a rough ride. Because it is in the 5th house it involves issues of creativity,children, etc. BUT, its largest issue is the fact that it is a singleton TWICE(only planet in a social house; only planet in a transpersonal sign). Though I introduced Bissie to singletons a little while back and she has since begun a thread on these, I suggest you go to www.astrologyclub.org to read up on his singleton Neptune. It is a VERY important part of his chart and may even guide it to a large extent, though perhaps subversively. It would strongly affect his less serious romances as well (5th house)- all the more reason. Themes/planets that would help balance out his T-square are in the late Gemini, early Cancer range and themes of the 11th house. I will get into how you might help balance this out (if he doesn't do so on his own) in my next post.

In order to better understand his (and your) planets in signs and houses I would check out astrology-numerology.com: Michael does a good job at interpretation. You can also check synastry aspects and certain planets in each other's houses. I think your moon in his 7th is worth looking at, in my opinion.

All of his personal planets (Sun-Mars)are in personal signs which are the children of the zodiac- very "me"-oriented; now his ASC is in Leo, which is a social sign and so he may not come across in such a way. However, once you enter into a relationship with him, this will become an issue. Relationships, as you know, are give-and-take, and he may have difficulty with the giving part after awhile. I also have a moon in Gemini and we may come across as being less selfish than we are- at first. However, we soon get tired of "the game". We very much like to do our own thing with little hindrance, even when aspects in our chart would indicate a love of challenge, as his Aries does.

Most of his planets are also Cardinal- leaderesque, in other words, particularly in the realms of ideas/philosophies I would think (3rd/9th house themes). His other singletons should be looked at as well. His Uranus is also a singleton THREE times(only planet in a water house; only water sign planet; only fixed sign planet) is in his 4th. Erratic/unusual issues at "home" are exacerbated with the singleton slant. What is the situation with his mother? His father?

He has no earth which actually implies that he has an inner stability to his nature- a hidden earth trine- that is virtually untouchable to anyone other than himself and works inside him in a very subconscious manner.

posted November 07, 2002 04:54 PM              

Thanx so much, you are too sweet (is that possible?)!
I am reading (and almost weeping )about Neptune singleton and have something to say on that very thing. I was always wondering about his dreamy look while being such an Aries. He has the most beautiful eyes and his look is just 'off' somewhere in space. A real Neptunic gaze. I guess that is the exact thing that attracts me the most.
One very wise teacher at work told me about how I am probably attracted to people with a strong Neptune placement in their horoscope (me having Descendant in Pisces). He said this after I mentioned to him that Pisces's never really meant anything 'that' special to me, just being Pisces. So now I guess the pieces are starting to fall !
Yes I know about his 'wanting to do his own thing' Moon in Gem thing. I am kind of always attracted to those people actually. Like I said, I 'know' him, I sense we have been together before. And I don't have that many expectations anymore after having had them so strongly many times before. I kind of just think:" babe anything you are is good if you are you I love you!" What I do fantasize about always is me and my lover lifting off and just being in a dream world together. Aaah, talk about Neptune!
Well just wanted to tell you about the dreamy look and oh his Neptune btw makes an opposition with his MC. And the way he walks and behaves is so relaxed, so under control and earthish. Take one look at me and you know the opposite! But how about his Chiron in Taurus, that's earth?
I am going to read on and let you know later about this and that!
God I am in LOVE! Any contact with him is so intense so if we are ever able to 'be' together for a longer while than a few minutes without exploding....?

posted November 07, 2002 11:16 PM              

I may throw some asteroids into the mix for flavor, but for the most part I'll stick to planets. If you find anything on your own that you want me to cover, I will check out.

posted November 09, 2002 04:24 PM              

I am just having too much fun with the smilies.