posted November 13, 2002 03:06 AM              

me and my boyfriend A.G. have been together for 5 years... although compatability in our charts is evident, we have always tug-o-wared with each other (taurus-scorpio relationship) recently he has said to me that i seem to be making a life for myself that doesnt include him ~i suppose by getting very serious about spiritual things, and growing (up) in a different way than he is~ and perhaps i am. however, ive never been one to worry too far into the future, and concerning myself with the NOW i have a growing desire to put our relationship on hiatus, give each other a rest. needless to say, he is less then for this, tho i have expressed this to him. all might be cut and dry but...

there's the issue of P.J. a very close mutual friend of ours. almost as long as we've known him (2 1/2 years) i have felt very lovingly toward him, and although it doesnt stand up to my love for A.G., he consumes my thoughts much much MUCH more frequently, and for the life of me i dont know why!! it makes me feel totally crazy, he still has a completely dizzying effect on me. A.G. has recently discovered through an e-mail to one of my friends about these feelings (damn snooping !) and, well, we haven't talked about it since, especially because we haven't seen P.J. since before this episode, and AG's more concerned with 'losing' me. i must KNOW why this is that i am sooo attracted to him! when i look at our charts, i'm amazed we even recognize each other as being from the same planet, as linda says of aquarians and tauruses in love signs. we do have a good relationship, although he's so damn airy! i feel comfortable talking to him about things i can't/don't/won't even talk to AG about

could this all be that wonderful, but sometimes pesky venus in pisces in the fifth, making me love to dream about love?!?!

any insight anyone? please?

posted November 13, 2002 03:25 PM              

Synastry is my favorite area, but it can take some time to calculate, if you have the patience. What I need to know is what kinds of chart you want me to look at:
Geocentric or heliocentric? Tropical, Draconic or Vedic (a.k.a. Jyotish/Sidereal)?
And do you want me to check out the Composite or Davidson chart in addition to the synastry- I would choose one or the other because they are similar.

I have always preferred options so take your pick.

posted December 02, 2002 08:17 PM              

ingeneral, what do you all think contributes to that spark of interest and attraction between two people, or more mysteriously, one-sidedly from only one of the people in any relationship? it is further mysterious when one is attracted to someone very different from their 'type' or the features and traits they ususally find attractive. it is these two mysterious events that make my attraction to PJ so confusing!

posted December 02, 2002 11:39 PM              

Well lots of luck to you