posted January 10, 2003 07:20 AM              

I have had a few problems in relationships and am really apprehensive about any future relationships...especially marriage. Can anyone please tell me when i'll get married and what my marriage life/partner will be like?
Also, in the past relationships i've had difficulty mostly cuz of my unrealistic expecation of things, not being able to see the reality of situations and ppl and always taking an optimistic point of view(being blinded by love).

Here are the placement of planets in my chart:

ASC: Aquarius
4th house(Taurus): Venus
5th house(Gemini): Mercury
6th house(Cancer): Sun + North Node
7th house(Leo): Jupiter + Saturn
8th house(Virgo): Mars + Moon + PLuto
9th house(Libra): Uranus
10th house(Scorpio): Neptune

posted January 10, 2003 08:19 AM              

I'm the first one to respond on your question,i'm new here myself! there are more members here with a deeper understanding of astrology then i have, but here are my two cents:

traditional meaning of saturn in the seventh house( house af partnerships)could indicate a marriage at a older age, or with an older partner.

Jupiter in 7 is very optimistic about partnerships, maybe it's forming a disharmonious aspect with Neptune, so that you have an unrealistic view on your relationships? (anyone?)

venus reflects what kind of (female)partner you are attracted to if you are a man, so for venus in Taurus, look in the astro cookbooks for the quality's of such a female . (eartly,sensual, loyal/stubborn)

If you are a woman, look for more info about Mars in Virgo quality's

For relationships of the same sex, i dont know, but you can find pretty detailed info on that in astro lit.

finding a partner that has her/his ascendent in the same element as your aqauarius asc. could contribute to harmony between you two, so that could be a gemini or libra, there will be intelectual understanding. cause you're a sun sign Cancer, a scorpio or pisces would match you the best because they are just like you ruled by the waterelement

So how about a scorpio/libra partner? ;-)

I think that you have to be, want you want to attract. So build a loving relationship with your self first...

goodluck!

posted January 11, 2003 09:51 AM              

And thanks for welcoming me Randall