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Playing pisces
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posted February 05, 2003 04:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a composite chart for my ex-boyfriend and I:

His sun (gemini)in my 7th house
His sun opposite my ascendent
His moon in scorpio in my 1st house(end of 12th house)
His moon conjunct my pluto
His moon conjunct my ascendent
His venus in gemini in my 7th house
His Pluto conjunct my Ascendent

Him and I broke off a relationship not long ago and he is acting pretty distant and cold,I don't know how to stay friends with him,he seems to get angry when I try to be nice to him,I had to move away and he stayed behind(we werent living together)Any advice in keeping this person my friend?

His sun-gemini,moon-scorpio,merc-taurus,venus-gemini,mars-leo,jupiter-cancer,
Saturn-leo,Uranus-scorpio,neptune-Sagittarius,Pluto-Libra,True node-Libra,Ascendent-Leo

I just miss him and really want to remain friends with him,I know that is what he wants too,but only when I am near him physically,it's like he puts up a wall when I am not in the same place as him.I just don't understand!

Love and Light!From,Ann

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Swerve
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posted February 05, 2003 04:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You might be better off bringing this discussion into the Lunar Scorpions thread.

My advice would be to act like you have everything else on your mind but him without being rude to draw him in. He is only acting cold to protect himself, then when you have him accusing you of not caring, surprise him by saying this was the only way you could get him to reveal what was going on inside of his head and that it did actually trouble you. Be honest and sincere, but make sure you don't make any false promises as that would only intensify and complicate the situation. I am a Lunar Scorp and my Ascendant is also Scorp. So I know what I am talking about. Just be careful when he eventually responds because you are inviting a volcano to erupt.

On the other hand...if he doesn't respond or stays cold without seeming to care (beyond reason) he has already moved on and written you off or he's nuts. Unfortunately neither of those situations may change this lifetime.

Hope this helps.

Swerve

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alkmi
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posted February 05, 2003 05:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
his venus in gemini? like mine?


i am the only venus in gemini guy i know, playing pisces. is his venus squaring your sun? or your mars?

it's ruff. we're intellectuals us venus in gemini types. it is really important though...

best of fortune to you.


he may have written you off! but he has that gemini venus..meaning intellectual appeals can work. it might take a time of not being up in his face....

like even a year....


and then appeal to that intellect, and --

you know, no one is wrong. this karma stuff people get into blaming...

good luck!

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Alena
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posted February 05, 2003 06:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He may still be upset/angry about the breakup. He probably needs some time to get over it. I say leave him be for awhile and then if he still hasn't come around then let it go. (easier said than done, right?)

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