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Randall
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posted March 17, 2003 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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Lost Leo
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posted March 17, 2003 11:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would agree on the "doing too much" thing... would tend to smother a lady, Aries or not

You really think an Aries woman is that tough??? I find that hard to believe...

Out of the two I've known, one was the bestfriend of a girl I dated, the other one does my hair on occasion.

Both ladies knew much about me, I practically poured my heart out to the hairstylist because I had her do me right after the breakup.

Either way, both, after not seeing for a period of time, have come back around in a forward manner of flirting. Almost silently proposing we do something about this flirting... but neither were quite my style, they were both cute & had some wits, but just not my style.

Although I must say the verbal communication between myself and either of them was quite stimulating, I miss that in a woman, after my last girl I thought that type of communication isn't common... boy am I wrong!

The more & more I think about it, there's was very little myself & that Scorp agreed upon... I think because I'm so opinionated she felt it was her duty to argue the other side... lol, even when I was right!
(I would try to win almost all of our external arguments because she was so... so... SO just trying to p*ss me off! But I purposely was the loser in most internal relationship-type arguments, so hard for Scorps to express emotions, it's just better to sit & listen)

At the end she once said that she thought I used the fact I have a superior ability to speak & argue against her... I told my Virgo roommate and he was like... well duh!

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posted March 18, 2003 12:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Props to Alkmi for mentioning the Aqua chicks...hehehe (not that I'm biased or anything, nooooo....)

Aqua men are pretty amazing that way too (it's been a while though).

And as for Leos...I was with a Leo for a bit. We never let it get boring, that;s for sure.

I think I still stick by my Cancer and Scorp. votes though...with that Auqarius running a close second. 'Course, like I've said, I've been out of the race for a while.

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Sunmeadow Glades
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posted March 18, 2003 03:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My best lover has been and always will be my gorgeous husband who is a Virgo. He is very sensual, caring, touchingly protective and always ensures that my needs are just as important as his.

I am an Aries by the way!!

Love and Peace,
Sunmeadow Glades.

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posted March 18, 2003 04:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh how I miss my virgo hugs and gentle voice

Gotta love us aries girls My mum said the only advice she would ever give a potential lover of mine is: put on your runners!!

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Oxychick
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posted March 18, 2003 06:51 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted March 18, 2003 09:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hehehe pidaua, i do that to . . . that weirdo Uranus humor . . . i once said to a Scorpio date, "i've fallen in love with someone recently." his face went completely frozen and his eyes got intense. "with who?"

"Mozart."

hmm as to your question, depends on who does the smothering, and what kind of smothering . . . if i like it, i will bask in it!

i hear you lost leo on the forward characteristic of aries. i have an aries rising friend who had a crush on someone she saw on the bus everyday. she did whatever she thought she could to get his attention and a date. sitting closer, striking up conversations, invites to parties, phone calls . . . the guy didn't take it . . . and sat at the very back of the bus so she wouldn't be able to come near him . . .

aphrodite

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posted March 18, 2003 11:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had read somewhere that Gemini's weren't really sexual??!! What?! Every one of them that I've met have been a little sex crazed

One of the signs that I found the most difficult to "read" were virgos?? We always seemed to strike it off so well as friends that I always felt a little guilty to try and turn it into more?? Would like to go farther into it with one though

An aries is an incredible flirt! Though I think that where I'm a little less open with it that they tend to get confused or doubting... ??

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Lost Leo
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posted March 18, 2003 12:01 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I bet Aries & Virgo go well together, since Aries is always looking for that pure, innocent, 1st timer type thing...

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posted March 18, 2003 12:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yep, we Virgos are masterful at the art of seduction the Earth and Water girls get the nice blending and the slow burn, yet Fire girls usually draw the raging fire inside out of us.

I think because people think that Virgos are uptight or reserved or laid back or quiet that we are harmless...lol...it's like "Yes, of course I love you, sweet girl...now roll over." We lead them down the garden path to the sanctuary of eternal bliss, silently macking with a sublime and confident grace, subtle yet clear, certain yet vague, and we work the vibrations and harmonics of each moment and each sigh, then grab the ponytail real tight. We stay present and rooted in the romantic overtures, you see, we do not hit and run. I have had girls tell me that they tell their girlfriends that it's nice being with me because I am there in the moment. You'd be surprised, lots of folks aren't, they are elsewhere. We exploit that passive-aggressive expectation that we know people have about us...so we appear all sensitive, all sweet, and we are just waiting for the moment when the horns come out and her face gets stuffed into the pillow. I've shared laughs with my Virgo pals about this, yet the truth is we and Libras are the s*l*u*t*s of the zodiac, according to psychic Sylvia Browne, and true as far as I have known. Maybe it has something to do with Earth being sensual, since Taurus and Cappies incline toward sexual and seductive ability, I am not sure. Yet Aries girls are a ball, they cannot be stopped when they want you. At a drum circle at a gathering a few years ago, an Aries girl got drunk and came up to me and looked me right in the eyes as I stood there holding my drum between my knees, and she beat that thing while not breaking her gaze, for ten minutes straight, beat the drum like hell. Her boyfriend went out of his mind, while the bonfire roared and others danced naked around it. He had to literally drag her away and take her back to their tent. Of course, she found time to frolic off and see me for the next few days at the place. I did a page on Aries Virgo when I met a cute first year law student Aries chick at my friend's bar in Boston, Summer 2001, some of that fateful meeting is recounted here:

http://www.lovestarz.com/track.html

never hit it though, dog...

an Aries girl with Venus in Pisces, to me, is sooo fine...give 'em all Ve in Pi, I always say...

yeah, so we Virgos do nicely with Aries. Usually we have some Leo and Libra in us, and they have Pisces and Taurus, so there is that magnetic attraction too, the trines and the oppositions. And just ask any Aries girl about Virgos, they will tell you they know and love at least one. I mean Ruby, you're totally falling in love with me right babay??? lol

L&R,
Carlo

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Aphrodite
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posted March 18, 2003 12:58 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
looking at a whole chart is a good indication of what types of people we have a tendency to gravitate towards, which isn't necessarily sun sign specific in many occasions. just my experience from reading charts when i was on the soul unions panel. once we have that knowledge, it is eye opening the potential things we can choose to do to move above and beyond those habitual gravitations.

just saw your post carlo, LOL i have venus in pisces too. what does that combo mean to you? i am curious.

cheers,

amy

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Carlo
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posted March 18, 2003 01:22 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The sweetest of Aries girls are always the ones with Ve in Pi, which as we know is a fabulous place for Venus to be, better I think than even in Libra. And who wouldn't want their Fire girl to be so blessed?!

Only five Sun signs can have Venus in Pisces. So anyone, girls in particular, with Venus in Pisces has a special bonus side to their love nature, a prize from Aphrodite (the goddess!), yet Aries is the only Fire sign who can get it ahhh, sooo yummy, you and Ruby and the girl I mentioned, are truly blessed, in this astrologer's opinion, regarding Sun-Venus signs anyway. And you have a fantastic mind for imagery too, I love that, quite an imagination...the girl who beat my drum wrote this:

http://www.lovestarz.com/venusinpisces.html

I published it a few years ago. She is remarkable at astrology too, another inclination that you girls have. I have no experience with Aries guys with Ve in Pi, yet those girls who have it got lucky f*ucky, as far as I have always known

L&R,
Carlo


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Lost Leo
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posted March 18, 2003 01:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Right about the male Virgos being s*l*u*t*s!!!

God my rommate just told me last night he's sc**wing a stripper now, after last month he nailed some random foreigner in London. All this occurring while he's on his 3rd year of a committed monogamous relationship with this little Aquarius girl (head in clouds)...

Either I guess she isn't satisfying to him sexually, or he just doesn't give a sh*t and wants to screw the world. I mean he's cheated on her with AT LEAST 10-15 different women over the last 3 years.

His bestfriend another Virgo, is up in the 30+ range for bed notches...

Unfortunately both of these "studs" are condemned to one night stands & they both inform me, when away from the other, how the girls each other has slept w/ complain about the 5 minute factor...
And see they don't even try antyhing new! Just the same, wham bam, thankya maam

Personally it upsets me to see the prolonged disloyalty... I mean 3 years, jeez that's just SO betraying to your lover, you would think that after so long you'd care so much about her not to ever want to cheat. I really hope he doesn't catch something & give it to his girlfriend... THAT would be some explaining...

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posted March 18, 2003 01:41 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
1Scorp,

WHAT???? My gemini is the most sex-crazed I've had, so I agree with you on that one...

LL,

You're right on the money with the Aries/Virgo thing. I really find that "innocent" thing very attractive in Virgo men and with the whole 6-8 Vibration the sexual chemistry is a plus. However it's said that Aries are "innocent" but maybe that's confused with "blind faith" who knows?

Knowflakes,

I've slept with every sign except Sagg and Taurus, so I'll list the top 5 for an Aries:

1. Tied between Gemini & Leo
2. Scorpio
3. Virgo
4. Cancer
5. Libra

Guys and Gals list YOUR top 5...

-SR

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Lost Leo
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posted March 18, 2003 01:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wish I could, but I only knew the signs of my last 4 lovers...
Damn! Would have made a great comparison!

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pidaua
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posted March 18, 2003 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Carlo,

You've got that right about Fire girls being able to bring out the raging fire inside of a Virgo male.

Actually, I think it is because we won't settle for the BS that Virgo men are just so romantic, in the moment or any of that passive aggressive crap. You are male, maybe not as fiery as a Leo or wishy washy as a Cancer, but you are still a male and we don't think that there is much more than that....at first. Once we get that out of the way, we can move on to what makes you tick, if we are still interested after the lust is gone.

I have found that most Virgo men are unable to make up their minds in most things as their hyper-analytical abilities keep them lost in the details... then again most Virgo men get crapped on when it comes to large purchases or run in's with Authority figures. ( I work with 4 of them and was married to one).

Virgo men are sexy, brilliant, romantic (to a point) and will take care of you. BUT, make no mistake, it is not out of purity of heart nor is it due to some astrological predisposition. They want it back in return times 10. Virgo men want to be the center of your life almost more than a Leo man, but the Leo will tell you whereas the Virgo thinks you should just know. He will also critique you on every little thing, but only to make to you better...ya, whatever, only to make them feel superior.

Have you ever NOT given attention to a Virgo man in your life? Watch him regress to child like temper tantrums where he balls up his fists and yells "That's not fair....you are to love me!!!". IF his Venus or Mars is in Leo..watch out, he will want to have even more of your and everybody elses attention. He is also very possessive, but will give you freedom to have outside pursuits (to a point).

Which leads me to the other common false assumption about Virgo men. That they just want to serve. Hell no!! They want to be recognized, credited with something great / grand / brilliant. It is almost pathological.

Then there are the insanely intense, charismatic Virgo men.. the ones with Uranus or Pluto in their first house conjuncting their ascendant. Hmmm, now talk about sex appeal!!!!

But here's the secret, they are still so incredibly insecure. Inside is a little boy who really wants that love and attention. He just wants to do well...make a difference. In their minds they want to push you face down in the pillow and sometimes they even find those that they can do that to, but match them up with a stong woman and they can shut down. They are also very susceptible to any off hand remark that may be critical or if you make massive eye contact. Watch the dirty looks too, that can spin them.

They seem so utterly amazed that you really are independant. "Wasn't that just an act to find a strong man?" he says in his analytical manner. My usual saying upon meeting a Virgo man is "What drew you to me today, the things that you find so intriguing, you will hate with a passion later".

I am much more unfront with Virgo men that with other men (maybe Cancer men). Only because I find that they do get the wrong impression of me. They think that I am just playing the successful businesswoman that is independant. I truely admire Virgo men, even if it may not seem so in this post. I am still best friends with my Virgo ex-hubby.

This is also just one Fire girls take on the matter and being a Sag, I am also their Square.

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posted March 18, 2003 01:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well LL, it's all relative...you call them condemned, I call them happy as hell they'll have their great committed relationships someday, like everyone else. Yet in their youth, they are happily seeding away their oats, and why not? I was evil in college, a total wenchmaster, and that will give way for your dogs too. Virgos like things clean, so we have no problems with one-night stands, we see them as perfect in many ways! Relationships can get messy, and we like things to be in their virginal state. Also explains why you see Virgos with younger women all the time...

L&R,
Carlo

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posted March 18, 2003 02:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree Pidaua on "they're still men" remark. The virgo men in which I have been "somewhat" involved in seem to project that they are shy and quiet... when I'm sitting there thinking ... alright cut the B.S... Also, the younger women thing for a virgo... these 2 I know were quite a bit older than me.

I've had them tell me some wild sex tales and I look at them and think... yeah, I believe it... I know it's in there... now how do I get it out?!... Any tips Carlo?! As I do believe it's one of those challenges.. Also, is it not good to start off on such a friendly level with them? As it ALWAYS goes in that direction... sort of just happens.

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Shieldrocks
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posted March 18, 2003 02:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LL,

Did you know their names?????

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Lost Leo
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posted March 18, 2003 02:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HAHA S.R., Yes I knew their names

On the Virgo dude thing, yes, I have to give it to them, they know how to talk a woman to bed...
err... I mean... talk to a woman.

But unfortunately the result is ONE-NIGHT stands because even if he wants to continue things on: the girl chooses not to once sober; or he wakes up & sees the face of the woman next to him & asks the "What did I drink last night?" question... *slips out he back door*

But that's only my experience with my three Virgo bestfriends

Pidaua, the "to serve" thing, your are right on! I read that sh*t in Linda's book & don't see it anywhere w/ my friends, maybe in the beginning of our friendship, but no longer

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posted March 18, 2003 03:00 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi shieldrocks,

cool screen name! i think of ireland when i see it.

well, erm. i haven't got a top 5 list to share (as one would like to think with my screen name) . . . there's little that's uber fantasmic as of yet. it would be very cool to meet someone with a similar temperament. i have my hope, yet having 3 peregrine planets, two of which in sex-ruled signs, the other in carlo's slutty virgo ( just joking with you carlo, hehe) makes an awful lot for someone to live up to. :-|

wish me luck

amy

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posted March 18, 2003 03:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Shield: Yes. I knew it was true! I'm like look man... not now!!

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posted March 18, 2003 03:20 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You know I'm really glad i never married that Virgo.....

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posted March 18, 2003 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess my lack of experience is going to be obvious (pertaining to the number of actual partners...LOL).

My top 5?

Well I have only been with:

Leo
Virgo
Pisces
Sag


I have dated and made out with all of the dudes in the zodiac, but getting into bed with them, nope.

The best sexual partner: Leo! Even as just dating or making out, yep, the Leo. Not all Leo's though. There are some that I just find repulsive.(Sorry)
But if I had to rate the 4 it would go like this:

1. Leo:We really merge or melt into each other. The foreplay is intense and the sexual experience is more than I thought possible.


2. Sag: He was really experimental and we both got our experience from each other, and he was very well endowed.

3. Pisces: He was almost second because he was so smooth and sexy. He was someone that I really did melt into, but differently than the Leo. The problem was his libido was extremely low compared to mine and he didn't like experimenting.

4. Virgo: I make them nervous and I haven't been impressed sexually. The kissing is pretty good, but there doesn't seem to be much passion behind it. You can almost forget about foreplay.

As far as making out:

1. Leo (obviously...but not all are the best kissers)

2. Aquarius (I do find them to be very sexy and if they have full lips...oh baby, that Uranus playfulness comes out and just tickles my fancy).

3. Scorpio: totally intense, consuming, almost like playing something dangerous, but you can't stop yourself.

4. Sag: I like the way the males in my sign can playfully kiss and tease. I really like when we get the competition going and work ourselves up..LOL I would list Aries men here too. One thing though, they tend to just "Jump in" and make the move. But if they are Ariens like Heath Ledger or Russell Crowe...they can ravish me....LOL

5.Pisces / Cancer: They are very oral and do kiss nicely, but then Cancer gets too cuddly and I want to scream......

I have to add though, I have full lips and a pretty big mouth (but I am not a sloppy kisser..LOL) So I tend to be attracted to men that also have full lips. Trying to kiss a man with a small mouth or thin lips doesn't work as well for me.

Anyone else care to talk about their kissing experiences? I count that as sexual contact.

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posted March 18, 2003 05:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That is really interesting in how different each sign views one another! Wow..

Kissing... Wasn't aware of all signs.. will go down the list on the ones I know.

1. Aries... nice. Especially when in the mood for the rougher stuff...

2. Taurus... good. A toss between shy.. and aggressive.

3. Gemini.... Oh yeah! Start at the lips then go around the neck and .... One reason into why they are the only sign that I've had total experience with.

4. Cancer.... Don't know

5. Leo.... Don't know

6. Virgo... good. Though I had that little guilt feeling for some reason!! I need to break that as this guy was HOT!

7. Libra .... nice. Slow and took his time.

8. Scorpio... Don't know ... but is on my wish list

9. Sag... Don't know

10. Capricorn ... Don't know

11. Aquarius .... Don't know

12. Pisces... yum

That's all ......

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