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Cancerian718
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posted March 26, 2003 08:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi everyone,

Can someone pls tell me when i will meet the love of my life? I am 22 yrs old and have yet to meet a guy that i can fall in love with! And for some reason i tend to meet all these great guys over the internet!! And because of the obvious fact that its over the net and the distance between us and other factors, its not possible. But noone in reality Can anyone pls tell me when and if i will meet the right guy? I'm feeling really depressed.

Here the position of my planets:
Asc - Aquarius
Venus - 4th house
Mercury - 5th house
Sun - 6th house
Jupiter and Saturn(not in conjunction) - 7th
Moon & Mars(in conjunction) and Pluto - 8th
Uranus - 9th
Neptune - 10th

Thank you!

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RubyRedRam
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posted March 26, 2003 08:39 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are so young!! Love should be the last thing on your mind!!

I think the best time to 'find' love is when you stop 'looking' for it. Start focusing on other things in your life and make sure you are happy within yoursElf. What you feel on the inside usually shows on the outside and you don't want to appear unhappy and depressed to a future mate.

Brighten up girl! Let the godess within you flow! Live life to the full!

You are a bright and shining Star! So why don't you start acting like it?

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Cancerian718
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posted March 26, 2003 12:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Thanks RubyRed. You're right i'm gonna try my best!

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RubyRedRam
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posted March 26, 2003 03:35 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do better than your best!! Kick goals girl!


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proxieme
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posted March 26, 2003 03:50 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Said the Ram to the Crab.
(Really - didn't that sound like an exchange Linda could've written up between an Aries and a Cancer gal?)

Don't get me wrong - I agree w/ RRR on this one; I'm 23 ('round about your age), and I've got to say that right now is the time when a person focuses on developing themselves if at all possible. Heck, your whole wide life is, but now especially. We're still so unformed, most of us standing on the threshold between adolescence and adulthood (despite how much we each respectively may think we know)...although I have the feeling that if you do it right, that state never quite evaporates.
If the love thing happens, it happens - it'll be a wonderful improvement to your life if and when it pops up, but don't let it be the "be all and end all" of your search. There're so many other wonders out there (and in you) waiting to be experienced and cherished.

(Said the Fish to the Crab.)

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moth
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posted March 26, 2003 07:24 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmmm. At 22, I was in my second marriage.

I think one should follow their heart because life it too short and also because otherwise there are too many regrets and unfinished things (I shoulda done this, I shoulda done that). If I fail at something, then at least I had that life's experience, and always gain something, even if it is just knowledge.

Regrets, I've had a few, but then again, too few to mention...(*grin*)

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theFajita3
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posted March 27, 2003 12:37 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
don't worry as soon as you turn your head and stop looking many will be there to choose from!

You know how it is, when it rains it pours.

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Nebel
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posted March 27, 2003 01:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hiya Cancerian718
Ruby is dead right - once you stop looking for love, its passage into your life will be easier
I guess i'm in the same boat - i've always looked and looked for love - and havn't seemed to have found it anywhere. What we both should be doing is looking for comfort within ourselves, enjoying life, and getting a dog!!!!!

Take care of yourself - tonight i'm going to eat dohnuts on the couch to cheer myself up-i'll save one for ya!
LOL
Nebel

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donmcbroom
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posted March 27, 2003 10:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If I'm correct in assuming that you have Saturn and Jupiter both in Virgo in the 7th, you may vacillate dramatically between pessimism and optimism regarding your potential relationships and may tend to over-analyze them. Polar opposites in many ways, Saturn & Jupiter tend to keep each other in check between necessary controls and uncontrolled enthusiasm. This Planetary interaction may be the source of worry or excessive concern (Virgo nature) for you.

Also, do you have a Grand Trine connecting Pluto or Moon, with Venus and the Ascendant? If so, this often exhibits itself as a very efficient protective closed-circuit of self-sufficiency (often developed very early on in life) that tends to make others feel as though they're being held at arms length (i.e. you're unapproachable). This is normally not a conscious behavior on your part, but can present challenges as you search for friends or especially an intimate partner. Being in Air signs, this Grand Trine would show itself as an intellectual/social superiority (as perceived by others) that may make them feel that you're too smart for them or beyond their social class. Although this is something you probably don't try to project, you may be a bit embarrased by your level of intelligence and indeed may try not to let anyone know how smart you really are. Regardless, if you do have this grand trine, I'd suggest that when you are first communicating with someone you'd like to get to know better, that you work into the conversation that sometimes people may perceive you to be unapproachable, but that's not really the case.

Finally, Uranus, the ruler of your Ascendant is most likely Retrograde, suggesting that you may exhibit the need to express your individuality and uniqueness and this may cause a bit of inner conflict at you try to please everyone (with Moon, Pluto, and Mars in Libra in the 8th House of other people's expectations of you) and figure out who you really are and who you want to become.

I'm happy that you're interested in the metaphysical, as this may help to provide a sense of "grounding" for this Uranian energy.

I hope that this post helps to explain things a bit for you.

A fellow (but MUCH older) Cancerian,

Don

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proxieme
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posted March 27, 2003 12:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You rock Don.

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Cancerian718
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posted March 28, 2003 06:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You guys are wonderful!- all of you! Thank you soo much!!

Says the Crab to the Fish:
You are absolutely right! There is still so much in me thats undeveloped. First i need to discover and develop myself, then only can i look without for someone else.

Nebel: Hope its a chocolate one!

Don: First of all, i really appreciate this

My Jupiter and Saturn are both in my 7th house of Leo (but Saturn does conjunct the 8th). Also, Moon, Mars, and Pluto are all in the 8th house of Virgo. Yet I think you are right about ppl perceiving me as being unapproachable and above their level

And no there is not a Grand Trine of Moon/Pluto/Venus/Asc. But there is one with Pluto/Neptune/Venus. And you are right abt Uranus being retrograde.


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Cancerian718
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posted March 28, 2003 10:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
On the previous post i said the Pluto/Venus/Nepture form a Grand Trine...thats a lie! Pluto and Neptune sextile to each other, only Venus and Pluto trine.

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