posted March 27, 2003 09:06 PM              

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I've been waiting all week to get the time to tell you all of this...

THE VIRGO...the one at work that I'm pretty much in love with...but didn't date because we work together...is LEAVING the ocmpany to move down south...back home...and I am literally devastated.
When I found out on Monday...I had to close the door to my office and bawl my eyes out...2 times. Driving home form a date last night...I burst into tears and driving home tonight thinking aobut it..I burst into tears again.
I am so, so, so heartbroken.

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posted March 27, 2003 09:40 PM              

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oh financechick!

Love and light to you!
Jax

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posted March 27, 2003 09:43 PM              

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posted March 27, 2003 09:48 PM              

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Think positively! Ya just never know. Maybe he will miss you and keep in contact and then cos you don't work together anymore you can DATE him. I am a Sag and I am always (at least I try to be optimistic) and with a Scorp moon my intuition is pretty good so just maybe this will come to pass. Hugs. Love Flame
p.s. there are lots of long distance relationships that become a 'one'.

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posted March 27, 2003 09:50 PM              

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Know how you feel .... it's like someone is squeezing your heart...and you have all these feelings that you can't control...they're just there and you just have to bear it even if it's tearing you apart....for no logical reason!The feelings are just there.It's a connection you feel and even if nothing comes out of it doesn't take away the strength of what we feel. Really hate being able to understand what that is like! Cry the emotions have to express themselves ...it's a ***** !!

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posted March 27, 2003 10:01 PM              

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Financechick, I'm sorry to hear that. Like Purpleflame said, maybe you can keep in touch with him. My heart goes out to you. Sending you a hug from NJ.

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posted March 28, 2003 12:30 AM              

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hola financechica,

i am sorry to hear you are heartbroken. what are you going to do?

aphrodite

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posted March 28, 2003 01:01 AM              

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Hey- how far away is he moving? Why don't you two keep in touch. Maybe then since your not in the same company it will be less restrictive and you two can at least get to know each other from far away and then who knows you never know what could happen you could end up moving, or him, or not, but anyways you oughta keep in touch...I know it's hard...

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posted March 28, 2003 04:07 AM              

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Financechick!
I am sending you
The power of the mind rules your life and your being. If you really want something GO FOR IT! I just KNOW this to be true! You create your own reality luv!
Think positive, you'll be better off and the chances are huge when you are in a positive mind state! Don't cry baby, you'll be alright!
Tell him!!!!!!!!!! Kizz him!!!!! And laugh together!!!!!

Bless you!

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posted March 28, 2003 04:30 AM              

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I can say,
"Just tell him how you feel and that you'd love to keep in contact with him - that's the truth, innit?"

But, ya know, that's an easy thing to say being outside of the situation; do as your heart guides, and don't let a buncha fears get in your way.

Good luck.

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posted March 28, 2003 03:14 PM              

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FC~

Listen girl, I know the worst thing for me is to have that person I love go away without ever knowing. Then what you have left to do is think and wonder. Dont put yourSelf there ! Tell him!!
Sending lots of Light your way

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Melissa

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posted March 28, 2003 03:52 PM              

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Hi!
If you tell/ask him all you will loose is few words but if you don't you loose a LOVE of a lifetime

Choice is yours

may love find YOU
nikky

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posted March 28, 2003 06:29 PM            

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Hey Financechick,

I'm with Fajita on this one. Really, think of this as a "new possibility". You are now free to pursue him outside of the office and can take the time to get to know him, even though he is moving South. I have friends all over the US because of my business trips and the Leo I have been dating lives across the US. The distance is tough, but we see each other often (being a Sag, this is good for me....as it keeps me somewhat free).

Sometimes the distance can actually increase the intimacy. Since he is a Virgo it may be easier for him to open up in letters and on the phone (my ex was like that).

Then who knows, maybe you will move South too.

I know it hurts. You're heart feels heavy and you feel like you are being abandoned, but things will improve. If it is meant to be, then nothing will break you apart! I really believe that.

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posted March 28, 2003 11:39 PM              

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it's really odd because I was dating another Virgo...I wrote about on another thread...we stopped dating eachother and I was kind of upset.....but when I found out that the Virgo at work was leaving and moving back to Georgia...I was DEVASTATED...literally...had to cloase the door to my office and have a good cry over it....2 times....and I cried on my way home the other night and on my drive home today....I am going to miss him like you wouldn't believe.

I mean...it's the kind of cry where your chin gets all shaky and your lip quivers...kind of cry...he pathetic kind of cry....a grieving kind of cry. A kind of cry where you can't get a word out because you're so choked with emotion.

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posted March 29, 2003 12:21 AM            

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Oh Finance.....I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. Can you talk to him and maybe even suggest taking him out to dinner before he leaves? You are a beautiful Leo woman, don't let this bring you down. You have nothing to lose by just telling him how you feel about him. Maybe he feels the same way.

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posted March 29, 2003 04:41 PM              

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Ask for his e-mail address. Tell him you'd like to keep in touch and see how everything is going for him. This may be an opportunity to get to know him better, and you'll be able to decide if you really really like him or not. Afterall, you can learn alot about a person by what they write. (We all know that.)

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posted March 30, 2003 10:34 AM              

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I know this may sound cliche' but it's what someone just recently said to me, as I am currently dealing with the loss of my own Virgo man right now. Everything happens for a reason ... you never know who is waiting just around the corner. Someone/something may have much bigger and better things in store for you ... you never know what(or who)tomorrow may bring.

Try to smile ... I know it's hard right now.

Love and Light,

Heidi Beth

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posted March 30, 2003 11:24 AM              

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Good luck FC hope you are doing better.

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posted March 30, 2003 06:49 PM              

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I swear, Virgo men have a deep impact on women because I've never cried so hard as when I broke up with a virgo...and he wasn't even the one I loved the most. Something about their sweet natures...I don't know...but I remember the crying jags and quivering chin etc...

It passes....but look on the bright side...you can now e-mail eachother and flirt that way wooohooo!

-SR

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posted March 31, 2003 12:05 AM              

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Yes I was deeply affected by my first love whom I shall never forget *sigh*

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posted March 31, 2003 01:10 AM              

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I will NEVER be over my virgo relationship.

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posted March 31, 2003 02:14 AM              

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aaaaaaahhhh, a music for my ears - we, the Virgos, are un-forgettable...yeee

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