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proxieme unregistered
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posted April 14, 2003 05:22 PM
Why do girls hit on me? I mean, when my hair was shorter, it was about 50/50 girls/guys; I've grown it out since, and had expected that ratio to change.Well, I mean, it has really - but it's still lower than one might expect. I mean, this girl manning a "fair trade" booth in our main student center just followed me across and out of that same center to ask for me out. "Oh, I saw you before and you really caught my eye - and thought I'd never see you again, but I did and didn't want to pass this chance up. Do you want to go out for a drink or something sometime? I can give you my number..." ??? I don't know what to say when that happens; sometimes I muster up the strength to say, "Oh, no - I don't swing that way,", but most of the time, I'm just like, "Uh, uhm...der..." It catches me by surprise each and every time. Is there anything in my natal chart to indicate the fact that I seem to attract both sexes? (????????????????????????) (My Birth Info: 12 MAR 80 9:43 PM EST Fairfax, VA, USA) IP: Logged |
Distantdrummer unregistered
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posted April 14, 2003 06:10 PM
you are a pisces right! you are a dude, born into a feminine sign. That is why. Do you look like a girl?or do you have feminine characteristics?IP: Logged |
N_wEvil unregistered
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posted April 14, 2003 06:15 PM
its an interesting fact, from your previous posts, that you dont feel mutually attracted though.I got my bum pinched a few times in the club..although leather trousers really didnt help the matter (dont ask) Are there any aspects relating to your ascendant venus and mars? that could conceivably have a bearing on it (although im working of pure logic here, i dont really know!) IP: Logged |
Aphrodite unregistered
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posted April 14, 2003 06:30 PM
hi corri,i would highly recommend you to consult with a professional astrologer, as this is a sensitive topic and would not want the wrong information dissimated on a public website. if you are interested, let me know as i know a very good one (albeit with a nominal fee). aphrodite IP: Logged |
proxieme unregistered
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posted April 14, 2003 07:35 PM
DD - Yep, yep - I do look sort of like a girl (I'm a chick, too ) That's the thing - I don't get it.N_w - Hm. So you think I'd be attracted to gals, huh... Maybe I just give off that energy. I dunno. Re: the aspects: Moon Square Venus 5¡Æ20 (too large an arc?) Moon Square Ascendant 3¡Æ39 Moon Sextile Uranus 6¡Æ15 (although I think that that arc may be too large) Moon Square Ascendant 3¡Æ39 Mercury Sextile Venus 2¡Æ30 Venus Trine Jupiter 3¡Æ59 Venus Opposition Ascendant 1¡Æ41 Mars Square Uranus 4¡Æ07 Venus Trine Jupiter 3¡Æ59 Mars Conjunction Jupiter 3¡Æ28 Mars Square Uranus 4¡Æ07 Again, I dunno. I've been thinking: P'haps all that Venusian & Martian energy (coupled w/ their resp. positions being in the 7th & 10th Houses) - and maybe that Lunar and (1st House) Uranian mojo - is jumbling things up. Aph - That sounds terrific ...I'll have to get back to you (pending verification of my fiscal solvency) after I pay for my summer classes and secure a new job IP: Logged |
Harpyr Newflake Posts: 0 From: Alaska Registered: Jun 2010
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posted April 14, 2003 08:00 PM
At first glance, I noticed that the cusp of your 8th house (Placidus) is in Gemini. I've heard somewhere that the sign of the twins is more predisposed to bisexuality than other signs. (I've noticed this in a few of my close relations as well..) And then having Uranus in the first house could perhaps cause someone who has found themselves enraptured by a watery Piscean gaze to get the wrong idea, with that Uranian energy giving off a first impression of unconventionality. I don't know how much sense that might make, just some first thoughts. I think I remember reading somewhere that Uranus/Moon aspects may incline towards unusual sexuality. Or maybe that was Venus/Uranus? I did notice that you have a minor aspect between your Venus/Uranus..A sesquiquadrate? Whatever one has the symbol of the square with a little tail coming out of it... I have moon/venus/uranus conjoined in my chart and I too get approached by women..but then.. I think I may be a closet bisexual. IP: Logged |
Distantdrummer unregistered
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posted April 14, 2003 08:04 PM
the attraction with the ladies could be your piscean vibes of sentimentality. you love to lsten to people, do you know how valuble a person who listens is to others? especially to ladies. Your appearance and your auric vibes probably send out a nurturing air about you. Some ladies need a mother away from home, not necessarily an mate for love or anything like that. Fellas love a woman who is ultra feminine, trust me! proxiIP: Logged |
taj unregistered
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posted April 16, 2003 06:13 AM
can't say exactly why, myself.. but that magnetic scorpio rising of yours, kid, does make matters worse.hmn.. distantdrummer, how 'bout the other way around? corri's auric vibes probably send out an air that needs nurturing,..instead?
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theFajita3 unregistered
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posted April 16, 2003 06:56 PM
Are you a little masculine? Even just a bit. My supervisor is beautiful and has just a little bit of masculinity to her, maybe it's her stare or the way she walks, but all I know was I wanted to be with her and checked her out for a few years! And she gets hit on by lesbiens all the time. ------------------ food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
proxieme unregistered
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posted April 17, 2003 01:05 AM
Harpyr - Yeah, I've read those cook-book books, and half of my placements say, "May indicate bi- or fluidity in sexuality," but I never gave it much thought. I am receptive to a lot of currents, so maybe that's part of it; and I've found myself turned on on occasion by certain gals (but, to me - frankly - the human form itself can be alluring), but that's not...um...they're not what I think about, if you know what I mean. But I feel you on the "latent bisexuality" thing - hell, I've wondered myself sometimes, esp. since half the girls I know are.Distant Drummer & taj - You know, I think it may be a combo; it's like people see in me what they need to see. Some see this strong and assured face, others just'll stop at nothing to "take care" of me - and sometimes people manage to combine the two. But, yeah, that good ole' Scorp Rising...well, I try not to stare through others Alas, 'tis sometimes not enough. Fajita - You know, I'm kinda butchly feminine (or femininely butch), so maybe that's it. Either way, a goodly number of chicks check me out (I don't see it so much; whoever I'm around usu. points it out - unless they're incredibly direct like the above example - but then I never notice any flirting.) Bedtime's come. IP: Logged |
theFajita3 unregistered
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posted April 17, 2003 02:07 AM
I hear that..I'm about to fall asleep too..working on a darn paper for English, but I am sooo grateful to have an extension. Actually thanks to N_wEvil's good advice that day, I went straight to the teacher and told her I had no excuse but wasn't done with my paper. Oh and by the way Proxieme I think girls with a little masculinity rock ------------------ food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
Aphrodite unregistered
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posted May 06, 2003 06:11 PM
hi corri, feel free to let me know when you'd like that astrologer's information. cheers, aphroditeIP: Logged |
theFajita3 unregistered
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posted May 07, 2003 10:19 PM
Hey! What's your asc. Proxieme??------------------ food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
proxieme unregistered
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posted May 07, 2003 10:32 PM
Aph - Thanks I'll get back to you on that once I get good and settled into my new job.Fajita - Scorpio w/ a 1st House Uranus. How've you been? IP: Logged | |