posted April 18, 2003 05:56 PM            

Ok....so starting today (18th April) the Moon is currently at 14 degrees Scorpio.

Currently transiting my 3rd house...guess that's why I'm "yacking" (English slang for talking)

posted April 18, 2003 06:25 PM              

Much Love,

posted April 18, 2003 11:32 PM              

Your ex is going to be a part of your life forever as you have a child together. I know you probaly can't bear the fact that he is with someone new but I was thinking if she is so winderful then why does he have to explain it to you? If she is so wonderful why does he have to tell you about it? In my experience a person who tries to show others how 'wonderful' someone is, usually is clutching at straws and is more likely trying to prove to themselves how 'wonderful' that person is. Does that make sense? He is more than likely a mixture of emotions as he comes to terms with being a daddy and some men cope with it (or not) in very strange ways.

Be patient but remember it will be best to keep on good terms with your ex for your bubs sake.

Also, you have something that no one can take from you. A beautiful little baby. This child is yours to help grow and nurture. This is something that some people will never have in their life and will by far surpass any love you have ever felt for another human being Cherish this wonderful time in your life and concentrate on this very special little person that is aprt of you. Make him/her smile and know that their mummy is happy and strong. You can do it and if you need a friend email me anytime

Much Love, Light and

posted April 19, 2003 01:15 AM              

Also today I had an excellent phonecall with an old Scorp Moon boyfriend who I didn't know was in town, (how 8th house! ), and had a special connection at dinner this evening with a best girlfriend, who is SunScorp.

All this in 48 hours... what a difference a Moon makes!

posted April 19, 2003 05:41 AM            

I'm sorry for saying that as I know you love him... I just don't like the "game" he's playing with you at the moment. It's very cruel, hurtful, childish and unnecessary. There can be only one reason for him to send you an email like that and that is to hurt you - so he obviously has issues that he needs to deal with.

I don't have your chart details, so I can only guess that as your natal Moon is in Taurus (your 4th house) that this Scorpio Moon has been transiting your 10th. Scorpio is opposite Taurus so may have just now been making an exact opposition to your Moon. The 4th house = our home and with your Moon there it will intensify your need for a secure home which obviously your current situation with your ex is not giving you that security

posted April 19, 2003 06:30 AM              

thank you so much for your reply.. and i've been meaning to get back to your post to me from a month and a half ago.. and yes, my moon is conjunct my IC, making scorpio in my 10th. interestingly there have been some deals (vocational, somewhat) going down for me.. not sure if that's what this moon transit would indicate..

posted April 19, 2003 07:02 AM            

Well as you know Mars is the ruling palnet of Aries. Mars can "rush" into things and sometimes without thinking.

In times of trouble we all have a tendency to to revert back to our south node (the past) as we feel comfortable there as we have brought those "learnt" lessons with us into this lifetime - so we feel safe. As opposed to moving forward in the direction of our North Node (our future/lessons to learn in this life time).
There's nothing wrong with temporarily hiding back in our South Node but doing that for too long will make our lives flat and unfulfilled.

For speed I'm copying and pasting some info for you from Bob Marks site re your ex and his Nodes.....

The Moon’s nodes are not planets. In fact, they are not even material objects! Just two points in space where the Moon’s orbit crosses the plane of the Earth’s orbit. But they are an important part of any horoscope interpretation because they show a “direction” in your life.
No, this is not some sort of mystical force directing your life. The North Node simply shows the general area that you have to develop. This is analogous to the “forces” that make organisms develop in certain directions and not in others.

The opposite point, the South Node, shows the place where you feel comfortable. Too comfortable. If you stay there, you get into a rut. And worse. Your life can stagnate. That effect is heightened if there are planets making a conjunction to the South Node. (Note: Your ex's Moon conjuncts his South Node - so he feels emotionally safe there)

Picture the South Node as your roots and the North Node as your leaves and branches. You have to grow in the direction of the leaves. If you spend too much time on your South Node roots, you get root rot.

Important Point: When you finally learn to express your North Node, the positive traits of your South Node sign shine through. We tend to cling to our South Node sign, but if we do, we are seldom happy with the result. Ironically, it is only when we concentrate on our North Node sign that we get what we want from our South Node placement. Usually, only the North Node is included in the horoscope. There really isn’t any need to show the South Node because we always know where it is, exactly opposite the North Node. The Sign position of your nodes shows the main battle you have to deal with. The House position shows which area of your life that struggle will take place.

North Node in Libra: Partnership is one of the keys for you. Your South Node is in Aries, so your tendency is to do things on your own. You may start that way, but you will usually need the help of someone else to finish things off. And that Aries temper! You have to learn to handle conflicts in a peaceful manner (Libra). Blowing up (Aries) will most likely blow your chances for succeeding. So will that Aries tendency to charge ahead first and look later.

Can you relate the above to your ex and his behaviour?

posted April 19, 2003 07:34 AM              

As for the topic, great Cat! I am not sure yet about how I am feeling with different Moon positions. I mean as the Moon is in Sag 6 degrees it is perfectly Trining my Venus in Leo 6! Sóhóóó, but I was confused, thought it was in Sag already yesterday. Felt really shibby (our language for feeling jolly ), and now I also know that a lot of times when the Moon was in Scorpio something special happened (third house).
I don't know, I'd have to think about it as it really depends on the transits. I remember one time just before new years Mars was opposite my Saturn and some other awefully choking aspects were going on. The moon then was also in Scorpio and boy did I feel unshibby. When it came in Sag and MArs was backing off as well my whole self came back. Like the strangler had left the building!

posted April 19, 2003 01:26 PM            

Yes Moon in the 12th tends to give you that Garbo "I vant to be alone" feeling.

Huggle for you......