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Topic: Who's been your hardest break up?
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Nerwin
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posted May 25, 2003 03:41 AM
 
And who's been your hardest to get over?
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Oxychick
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posted May 25, 2003 09:07 AM
It took me a while to stop having feelings for a Leo ex of mine. He was a Leo Sun/Aries Moon/Libra Rising (Mars in Gemini and Venus in Cancer). I'm Aqua Sun/Leo Moon/Gemini Rising (Mars in Aquarius/Venus in Cappy). We carried on together for a couple of years and were friends for a little while beforehand. It didn't help that he would try to contact me every couple of months since, telling how much he's changed.  It was one of those breakups that came suddenly at a time when feelings were at their highest, so that made it tough. Who else? IP: Logged |
StarLover33
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posted May 25, 2003 11:14 AM
Was he born on Aug 3, 1977, by any chance?IP: Logged |
silverbells
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posted May 25, 2003 05:50 PM
A Gemini. I met him when I was 15 and we broke up when I was 15, with the result that I spent the rest of my teenage years heartbroken. First love and still thinking about him, but respecting his marriage and family. That experience started almost ten years ago OR MAYBE MORE. Still the best I've ever met.------------------
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Oxychick
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posted May 25, 2003 06:57 PM
Um, yes he was Starlover. Why do you ask??IP: Logged |
WychOfAvalon
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posted May 26, 2003 12:06 AM
my ex fiance... I'm an Aries and he's a Capricorn. We had a love/hate thing going on. Still do, really.Jerk. *sighs*
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Take my hand like I once took yours ..Look me in the eye like I once looked in yours ..Here we go again, speaking in strange codes ..Reading all the stars like an open book ..On the beach
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lioneye68
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posted May 26, 2003 12:15 AM
My first true love...a Cancer...He also happens to be the father of my daughter. We still see him all the time. But he's a much better friend than spouse. TRUST ME. But it took a very long time to get over our relationship falling apart. We were on the road to matrimony...Oh well. He ended up marrying a girl who's sun was in his moon sign (Virgo). Actually she's the reason we broke up...She's actually a nice person and I have no malice toward her. Heck, I pity her sometimes, being married to (Dude who's name I won't say).Like my new signature? ------------------
I wanna be a Lion. HEH! Everybody wanna pass as CATS. We all wanna be big big stars yeah, but...we got different reasons for that. IP: Logged |
lllog
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posted May 26, 2003 01:01 AM
My first Love. Still miss her 40 years later.Lanny IP: Logged |
juniperb
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posted May 26, 2003 07:14 AM
Mine too Lanny; a Taurus I`ve tangled with thru many lifetimes.
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StarLover33
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posted May 26, 2003 11:48 AM
What a coincidence, I happen to know a guy with that same birthdate. Very very handsome guy!I only noticed, since he had the same planets. IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted May 26, 2003 11:57 AM
How funny, Starlover! I grew to be attracted to him though. Is the guy you know a Libra rising too?IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted May 26, 2003 12:03 PM
A late Gemini with Ascendant and Venus in Cancer. I find Scorpios are really good at helping me break up with men once I've made my decision, or maybe they help me with the decision. There is always a Scorpio friend with me when I am trying to come to grips with the Big D. The Decision.and for the guilty slow breakup, Aquarius with Libra rising, and Venus in Cap. Natasha IP: Logged |
StarLover33
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posted May 26, 2003 12:23 PM
 Not sure of his birthtime, I've had a crush on him for a long long time, I can't have him since he's too old right now, but I pray for years come.  I'm a Pisces by the way.  Anyway, another coincidence was a new guy that I met yesterday, I really like him, and he happens to be a Leo/Aries as well. I thank god that he's my age. So now I hope he asks me on a date. Not a good sign that I'm posting this on "Who was your worst break up?" string. But I seriously CANCEL that. Especially for that first Leo/Aries.  IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted May 26, 2003 02:39 PM
How many of those you broke up with had the square or opposition between Neptune and Mars? Natasha
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Harpyr
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posted May 26, 2003 03:03 PM
Lioneye, I love the quote. It's probably my favorite Counting Crows line.My worst break was a tie between these-
Leo sun/Scorpio moon/Libra rising
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Libra sun/Leo moon/ Virgo rising. I don't have their charts handy at the moment to check mars/neptune placements..
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Nerwin
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posted May 26, 2003 04:41 PM
I don't know about my hardest break-up, but my easiest was definitely an aries. We had a six year relationship where we were madly in love at first, but then things fell apart, and when we ended it, i was over him before I even shut the phone.It's weird, but I have never thought of him since, (until now).IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted May 26, 2003 08:03 PM
My Easiest breakups (for me) were always with Earth signs-Taurus, Virgo and especially Cappies. Cappies always took it the hardest though.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted May 26, 2003 08:53 PM
Huh? Easiest break up...definately the Libra sun/ Sag rising freekaziod who was an imposter of a nice decent guy, but was really a world class ass*hole (sorry 'bout the profanity, but that's the effect he has on me...oh, I could rant about THAT guy for hours, but I do not wish to bore you all.)IP: Logged |
silverbells
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posted May 28, 2003 06:37 PM
 I'm a libra sun with Sag rising. what's the deal with that combination. Give me details!  IP: Logged |
Lunargirl
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posted May 29, 2003 12:45 AM
The worst was my first love, a Virgo with a CancerMoon, Venus in Virgo. We had a psychic connection, and were very close, although it was an impossible relationship, thus very romantic. I told him as we broke up for the last time that we had been together because he needed to be loved, and I needed to love someone. I believe that still; I had never had my heart cracked wide open before him, and so it was necessary. Much later I had a flash of a past life together where I had controlled his destiny, wrongly; it was right that in this life that we met as equals.He didn't have his birthtime, and for months I thought he was a Leo Moon -- no, he just had Jupiter and Mars in Leo, a real showman, so I'm afraid I was harder on him because I expected him to roar back, but he was a lunar child like me. We actually got together on Mother's Day of that year.  I haven't seen him in over ten years, but I don't really miss him; I carry him inside me always, and can still hear his wry commentary, his laugh, and see his fidgety hands. The heartbreak was terrible and prolonged, and I feel compassion for that grieving girl I was, then. But he was a good teacher, and I wish him well, always. Lunargirl IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted May 29, 2003 01:44 PM
I don't know if this would really be considered a break-up?! Well... yeah and no. I need help from a Virgo here! I was talking to a Virgo... things were going just a little to quick for me. I told him that I needed to be just friends. His response was ... am I rushing you? If so, I'll stop and are you getting that obligated feeling?! Huh?!... I'm confused! If anyone can help me understand exactly what was meant by that, I'd appreciate it! I "think" I know. However, it could be taken a couple of different ways IP: Logged |
Bendis
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posted May 29, 2003 02:46 PM
Both of my great love affairs, including the one I'm in now, were Pisces. ------------------
The unseen, the unknown, the mystery - this is what drives me; propels me forward on new journeys as dark corners of my mind are lit with the evergrowing bright light of my enlightened soul. - me IP: Logged |
lovely
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posted May 29, 2003 10:30 PM
lunagirl, your virgo man has a similar astro make up to my own. except i have virgo moon and cancer asc. and merc and mars in libra, not leo. ya know..ive never met anyone else with venus in virgo, but geeze im a fickle one when it comes to relationships. self esteem, receiving love, intimacy.. all issues for me. but i do tend to love SO fully, i become engulfed and fearful of losing myself--and then pull/push away as a defense. also lunagirl, i hear you in the psychic connection.. its so much more difficult when you *feel* the other person after a breakup. my hardest breakup was my first-a cancer, pisces moon, taurus asc. the second was cap. pisces asc. virgo moon. im still friends with both and we're talking 15+ years for the cancer and 10 years for the capricorn. they're both wonderful. i dont let go of love once ive found it--lol. lovely *edited for clarification IP: Logged |
Twin Lady
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posted May 30, 2003 01:01 AM
A tough question...more than one actually.My first husband (Virgo Sun, Cancer Moon, Virgo Ascendant)...we grew up together and he was my first everything, also we were together in a past life and left a lot of things unfinished, so this time around we have been tying up loose ends, so to speak. He's still in my life and has proven to be a very helpful friend. My second husband (Leo Sun, Virgo Moon, Virgo Ascendant). A very karmic relationship with lots of pain...and since we had two children together he too is still in my life, which makes it difficult sometimes. An ill-fated relationship with another Gemini who is actually only 3 days older than I. If there is such a thing as a twin-flame I believe he was mine. I never connected so much in every way with someone before or since. But the timing was all wrong and circumstances kept us apart. I haven't seen him in years, yet I still dream about him; and he's been on my mind lately because it's his birthday today (May 30)...sigh. IP: Logged |
lovely
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posted May 30, 2003 01:09 AM
hi twin lady, here is another place to discuss twin flames.
http://twinsouls.community.everyone.net
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