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Topic: Who's Been Your Best Lover? Part III
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Lost Leo
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posted June 11, 2003 06:04 PM
 
You know, talking sh*it... Rousting you, making fun of you, you know, like that  The violence thing, I dunno, I dated this Hot Gemini and she always used to surprise me with a shot to the gut, I think it was an infatuation she had with my abs or something but it was cool. It may be a competitive thing...
Or digging nails in as hard as possible, I dunno I guess I'm weird, not that I would want something like that all the time, but it's a nice manuever when the time is right... Now that I think about it, I came back to edit, it's like a aggression thing, I like the aggressive aspect of a woman that has no problem displaying the "fight" in her, maybe that's why I always end up with tomboys...  IP: Logged |
pidaua
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posted June 11, 2003 06:12 PM
Lost Leo, I can't believe you just said that. LOL My Leo says the same thing. In fact we greet each other with "Are you fighting it?" and respond with "always". We spend lots of time challenging each other and throwing little verbal curve balls at the other. It's great. I couldn't handle a guy that was milquetoast. I hear ya about the naughty sex activities. I think Leo's get a bit turned on with the dirty talk and the well placed "Oh, Fuc* me harder". LOL....I am blushing now. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 11, 2003 06:24 PM
That is too darn funny Pidaua!!!!  LMAO!Yeah, tried that dirty talk on the last Virgo....went over like a lead balloon. Didn't LIKE being told what to do. Didn't LIKE the "dirty sex".
Oh, get the heck over yourself!
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Lost Leo
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posted June 11, 2003 06:42 PM
Yeah, my Virgo bestfriend told me once that his Aquarius woman was bored with their sex life, to do it somewhere other than the bed and in the missionary. He was baffled and didn't know what to do, no imagination, he didn't have a grasp on what sex truly is and still doesn't to this day...Actaully, when he told me that I was like, I can't believe you just told me that, that's terrible, how embarassing I would never share that... IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 11, 2003 06:58 PM
He was probably looking for some pointers from you, Leo. Did you give him any? Virgo's like to gather information when they don't quite know what else to do. They may not do anything with it, other than assimilate it, though. Yeah, why would someone walk up to their buddy and say, "Man I sure suck in bed. My girlfriend said we have to make it better or she won't boink me anymore. Got any ideas for me?" (knowing Virgo's he'd probably take issue with all the suggestions anyway) IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted June 11, 2003 07:53 PM
I gave him some technique tips, but he looked at me with the most puzzled and somewhat disgusted face...?!!?This is the guy that when I told him about my girlfriend and her roommate's open discussion on the shape, look, & texture of their men's penis's, said, "Girls talk like that?" Inside I'm like, oh come on! How much do we males talk about female anatomy man!
Wake up! I know for a fact penis description is like the favorite topic of discussion in the sororities houses around my school... Ah, the virgins, the know not any better, lol IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 11, 2003 08:48 PM
Ah, yes, but thankfully, they do like to perfect everything they do, so they have potential to be amazing...with the right partner and stuff.(we have to be careful, or someones gonna rip into us Leos again IP: Logged |
Tommy_Cat
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posted June 12, 2003 01:35 AM
Someone's always rippin on us Leos! LOLLet me tell you something about Aries girls. Fighting is a form of foreplay with them, I kid you not. I lived with one for a year or so, and my good Lord, we had some loud and obnoxious arguements. She would physically attack me!! I'd pin her down to make her cool it, and we'd just stare each other down. Then I'd let her up and she'd be all over me!! The sex would always be so hot after a fight. It was wild! But, it got exhausting. I guess it was too much for my Libra ascendant to keep it up for long.
Wild though. Very wild. Yeah, if you like violence...check it out. Just be sure you're man enough, or she'll just end up beatin the crap outa ya!!
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pidaua
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posted June 12, 2003 10:59 AM
Tommy_cat, That was too funny! I think that it's one thing to challenge someone and play verbally, but to attack someone is just not cool. My Leo and I like to play, but there is no hitting or punching, maybe a little rear ending slapping, but nothing that would cause harm. Lioneye,
Yeah, Virgo's can be quite different in regards to sex. They will analyze everything, but they do NOT like to be told..."Hmmm, honey, I really like when you touch me like this". They take that as a total criticism of their lovemaking and can then turn ice cold. My Ex-Virgo took it to the extreme and it broke my heart. I would make a comment about something like "Can you please remember to put more sugar in the bowl when you use it up? He would freeze me out for months, just stewing over the "critical remark". I told him "Hey, you criticize me all the time and yet I am still here, loving you and making your damn dinner for you!!" You know....those arrows can be sharp. We are friends now, but there are occasions when his analyzing and nit-picking make me want to scream.
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lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 11:34 AM
Aint it the truth, my fire sister! They can dish it out like no other, but they sure can't take it. I think it's because they're so self-conscious and consciencous (sp?) that they just can't allow the possibility that they were in error. It's always someone elses fault, because OF COURSE they know better. IP: Logged |
pidaua
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posted June 12, 2003 11:40 AM
Hey Lioneye,
Does your Virgo have a sensitive digestive tract? Like he has to eat certain things and stay away from others as they give him a bit of the "rumbles"? When he gets really upset does he also get a case of the tummy aches?
My Ex (and most of the Virgo's that I know) spend lots of time tinkering around with things. They LOVE to build, analyze, take a part, anything really. They also LOVE to improve the one they are with. I have a Virgo rising, so I can be quite analytical, but not as much as a Sun Virgo. I do love having Virgo friends and co-workers because they offer so much in the way of analytical skills. ALSO, they have a great sense of humor and can let loose every now and again. My ex and I would turn up the music and dance around the house on Sat nights - Disco night. LOL IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 12:21 PM
Oh yeah. The last Virgo (I just moved out in February after 5 years together) was soooo finicky about his food, it's a wonder he ate at all! We were so different in our tastes...I love to experiement and invent yummy combinations...fusion food is what I call it. He wouldn't eat anything that seemed unconventional, or wasn't presented in the traditional (same ol same ol) way. Terribly frustrating for an enthusiastic and creative cook...he use to hurt my feelings ALL the time by refusing to even try something that I made. He wouldn't even humor me! We had so many arguements about food it was just stupid. He use to say he had an upset stomache all the time, but I tended to think he was just using it as an excuse to not do things he didn't want to do, like go out and stuff. He really was quite the wet blanket sometimes. And I hear you on the turning to ice thing. The slightest offence and he would go into shut-down mode, and give me the cold shoulder for days on end. He would be courteous and civilized, just very ...cold. No affection, no joking, laughing, no real conversations either, just generic stuff. So lame. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 12:33 PM
The new Virgo is alot more like me in his food tastes... the spicier the better, and he's a great cook too! The old Virgo didn't cook a scrap, he wouldn't even BBQ! Was afraid of it! What a wuss. N-Virgo seems to have a pretty strong constitution, although he does have some pretty strong dislikes. He doesn't like berries of any kind, or jam, or even strawberry shortcake and things that have berry "meat" in them. Strange, hey? Oh, well... I can handle a few odd likes/dislikes after the other Virgo. Nothing could compare to that level of narrowmindedness in food. IP: Logged |
pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
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posted June 12, 2003 01:17 PM
Lioneye, That's too funny!! Yeah, my ex Virgo loved peanuts, but HATED nuts in any kind of food, especially peanut butter. He was always having tummy aches, but he was a good sport about trying things. He is from the Northeast and I am from Southern California. I grew up on Mexican, Spanish, and German food, but with lots of spice. He hailed from Land of the Blandos as I like to call it. But, he was great at grilling, ate most of my cooking and even put up with Chorizo and eggs. That is something one has to develop a taste for. Well, it sounds like your new Virgo may have many other influences that cause him to be more open to new things. See, that is why I said you really don't have to be with your trine as much as there has to be common aspects and interests. I think a Virgo and a Leo can get along well. You both like the finer things in life, hate messiness and like some order. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 01:47 PM
Well, I have to admit, I'm a bit discouraged by the fact that he's a Virgo. But that Leo ascendant, WOW! It makes such a difference. The other Virgo had a Cappy ascendant, which just compounded all the Virgo-ness. (plus Mars in Scorp, which caused alot of stress between us)...but his moon was in Leo. I guess that's why I wasted 5 years on his sorry as$.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 02:09 PM
Hey, Lost Leo...did you see TomCat's post? What do you think about that?IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted June 12, 2003 02:18 PM
Yeah, I saw it... and I think it's GREAT!But he's a wuss for not being able to keep up! lol No woman will outdo nor tire me! I'll make damn sure of that! And if for some freak reason, she does one night... You best believe the next morning I'll be at a gut-wrenching pace on the treadmill with an extreme incline to ensure her domination/destruction next time! That's really the only reason I ever do cardio workouts, I don't have any real fat to burn off... Yep, hardcore cardio workouts serve only as intense sex-training sessions for me, you know, at every quarter-mile, increasing pace & difficulty until after a couple miles you're fiercely barrelling up steep hill while sprinting, pushing your body to maximum output! IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 02:24 PM
LL, you are D-A-N-G-E-R-O-U-S! (FZZZZZZZZZZ, sizzling)  IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted June 12, 2003 02:27 PM
Is that good thing or bad? I hoping good... IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 02:33 PM
I'm hoping so too.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 02:52 PM
"No woman will outdo nor tire me! I'll make damn sure of that!"Ah, but I bet another Leo could give you a run for your money, especially if you go around making statements like THAT! Watch it, LL. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted June 12, 2003 03:12 PM
So far the discussion has been on virgos and leos in bed, but what about the rest? Forget the book what about real experience?Experience is beautiful as Jimi Hendrix would say. What is it with Aquarius? What do they like to do? Do they just lay there, I mean be real and honest, many women have wanted to know. What do Aquarius men and women want in bed? Same with Capricorn and Sag? Back massages don't count, we are talking about sex here, which is the bedrock of any relationship. Let's hear it...
Sag men to me like a lot of sex, a lot of physical touching, affection, rubbing, you name it. I found it hard to keep up, and if you are a man you better keep it up if you know what I mean or else you are out of there (this is what I have heard). That's a lot of pressure, do men really like that? Natasha IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted June 12, 2003 03:32 PM
I agree Natasha. I posted from the book in hopes it would open some up and say... yeah, that's right because.... or no, because.... IP: Logged |
pidaua
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From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo
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posted June 12, 2003 03:39 PM
Natasha, I can only speak from the Sag female point of view. Basically, sex is really important and if a lover can't keep up, then they're gone. (Provided they didn't get into an accident or something....  ) Anyway, I can go through major periods of not having sex, because I am VERY picky about my mate. But, once I choose, they better be ready because I like it often. My first real boyfriend (first for everything) was a Sag. Wow, let me tell you 18 years old and boy were the hormones going wild. We did it ALL the time and for hours. It was intense. I saw him at our last high school reunion. Man, there is nothing worse than a Sag that let's himself go. He has really plumped up, gotten bald and well, he's not the in shape hottie, football player he was years ago. Now as for the other signs, this is the third part of the thread. I think lots of other dudes and chicks had been detailed in the first two. IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted June 12, 2003 03:41 PM
Some people are just really private about this stuff, and they probably think it's in poor taste to discuss it in a public forum.
We should just be grateful that they're not jumping in just to tell us we all should be ashamed of ourselves. (thanks, to all who feel this way and are biting your tounges...bless your non-judgemental souls...but you're lurking anyway...caught ya! IP: Logged | |
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