posted July 03, 2003 01:11 PM              

Moon: I know what you mean... I do this "sugar candy coating" thing "at first". Well, that gets a little tired after a while.

Everyone thinks I'm Ms. Jolly happy.. at first HA!

I've always said I'm not a smart *ss ... I'm just tactfully challenged at times

It's just that when we notice something we have a B.S. free way of putting it.

Doesn't really bother me that much. I've always been serious when I've told people that either you like me or you can't stand me... doesn't bother me either way. I won't be losing any sleep over it...
How about you?

posted July 03, 2003 01:38 PM            

Thank you for your kind remarks. I am happy to be the substitute (then again, you may just find yourself warming up to me enough that you'll seek out my opinion. LOL...) Hey!! It could happen.

Yeah, I had the Karma thing happen and ended up with the wrong guy and got my heart broken and a few bruises to boot. HE was a Gemini and wanted things on his own terms. He had no problem flirting with other women, to the point of one time disappearing for a bit at a bar. I dumped him on the spot, he cried, wanted me back. It rurned into a huge fight, with his wacko family involved (we were engaged and I was meeting his family for the first time). Needless to say, his dad was hitting on me, his mother was drunk, I was like "Oh my God, this is totally not right". He pushed me hard and I flew into the back of a car and seriously bruised some ribs. He picked me up and has his fist raised to deliver a blow when a stranger jumped in and tore him off me.

I left that day and I NEVER looked back and I NEVER dated another Gemini again.

posted July 03, 2003 02:03 PM              

I've NEVER push, hit, thrown ANY woman EVER!
I don't know what kind of man would feel manly, doing that...

posted July 03, 2003 03:07 PM            

Well, like I said, that was the last time I ever went out with a Gemini guy. I think that they can be prone to violent outbursts (even some men with a strong Gemini moon) not to mention it drives some men nuts when they are faced with a woman that cannot be owned or possessed.

I have also known some women to be pretty crazy. My Sagittarian friend has a Leo ex and she used to routinely attack him (that is not to say that Leo women are prone to that type of outburst).

I have gotten into two shouting matches with my Leo, but we have never lifted a hand to each other. I could never see him hurting a woman or an animal. He is just not made that way...thank God. Now we do slap each other's butts from time to time.....

and the only real smacking we ever to is of the lip kind and well, you get the picture.

posted July 03, 2003 06:59 PM            

Thanks Lioneye, I strive to be comical.. Really, there is nothing I love more than to make people laugh. Maybe cuz I am the clown of the zodiac.

posted July 07, 2003 01:20 AM              

Lost Leo, things aren't going too well w/ scorp working buddy. All of a sudden, he's aloof. I'm trying not to overanalyze things because it is nearing the end of the semester, but things feel awkward all of a sudden. He's a difficult one to figure out. He hasn't had a relationship in 3 years, says it's safer to just be alone. He likes it that way.

Do guys really mean it when they say that? People are always asking him to go out (movies, bars, dinner, etc...) and he never goes. I know i've made somewhat of an impression because he's sharing deep, personal information w/ me and he's gone out with me a few times to have a beer or lunch. Scorpios don't usually waste time if they're attracted to someone, though. So far, there's no physical contact, which to my knowledge is not normal for a scorpio male. Of course, he does have pisces asc., cancer moon and sag venus. What a complicated fellow.

Anyway, how are things w/ your work friend? Have you decided to take the risk yet? Let me know.

posted July 07, 2003 02:34 PM              

As for me, I'm comfortable with where I am... I've decided NOT to look for a woman right now, it makes me happier.

And of course once I say that, and tell a couple women... That one beautiful new young lady gets thrown in my lap over 4th of July!

DAMMIT!

Anyways, they way I look at it, with my X-Scorp, we were friends for over a year before we finally hooked up. I could always sense an attraction... she insisted on getting a photograph of me & her like a week after we met... I think she started using her Scorpio/Pluto Black Magic on it, to make "us" happen, lol... j/k

But I figure w/ my new Scorp at work I should just take my time, Scorps won't be pushed into anything!!!
I figure if she wants me she'll come to me, and with our shared passion for snowboarding I'm sure we'll end up taking trips to the mountains together next winter. Then I can really get to know her, long car rides offer great in-depth conversations

It's our responsibilty to seduce them though, they aren't gonna come a knockin on their own.

posted July 07, 2003 02:51 PM            

Before I knew it, (I think he had me under a spell), he asked for my number and I gave it to him. He's already called 4 times, but he's not clingy. Ohhh, how do I get myself into this kind of mess.

See, what a weekend with friends, beer a live band and seafood will do to a Sag-girl!!

posted July 07, 2003 03:02 PM              

"At every interaction you should make them laugh while appearing mysteriously exciting and sexy"

Is there any other way?

I wasn't aware that your ladyfriend at work was a scorp. You really are fond of scorpio ladies, aren't you? Don't necessarily expect her to make too many moves. We like aggressive, confident MEN who know how to go after something/someone. Always appear self-assured. Oh, I forgot I was talking to a leo, my apologies! You should be telling me that!

Anyway, even though people tell me i'm forceful and aggressive, I still hold back an awful lot (that's a scary thought, imagine if I didn't repress some of that ****) until I know it's safe to tread upon. You probably already know this but i'm going to tell you anyway! Scorpios like strong men who can make up their minds and we like to be pursued. Who's the new, pretty 4th of July lady? Please tell.

long drives, I totally agree it's one of the best ways to get to know someone.