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Topic: It is hard right now to talk about death.....
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ozonefiller
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posted July 04, 2003 09:19 AM
  
today is a one year aniversary for me and my family,while their are those today that will find joy and laughter, their will be those who will do otherwise. I didn't want to drop this on anybody's lap and I hope that you forgive me. One year ago today,my father passed away and it's very hard right now to talk about it. So, please don't be mad if I try to avoid discussing about ghost or things like that right now, in spite that I'm an eagle. So, was my Dad,once...IP: Logged |
Meili Zhiwei
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posted July 04, 2003 09:34 AM
Friend Ozone.My deepest condolences. Although it may not fill the void you presently see, think of the Chinese sage Zhuangzi. When his beloved wife died, he beat a drum in celebration. When asked to explain his actions he replied that, at first, he mourned his wife. Then he remembered that she had returned to her essence, to the Creator. Thus, only her true nature remained and she existed in a state of indescribable bliss. His joy was for her joy and replaced his pain. Also remember that there are many people walking this earth who are already dead, while many more that have died are yet living. This is a temporary separation. Your father was indeed blessed to have a son who is in constant rememberence of Love. Peace
Meili
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teva
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posted July 04, 2003 09:50 AM
yes don't be sad,
In some cultures they have a party when one passes away...
My dad died too about fifteen years ago, and i saw him when he had his heart attack, but instead of being traumatized, i took it for a blessing, like if he wanted me to be there to say bye see you soon (besides i had dreamed of it before and knew when to enter that room)/my big brother a cancer still has lots of difficulties getting over it
I think it made me a little man, but you know i had heavy karma with my dad...so rejoice and take those responsibilities and take care of your familly that's the messageIP: Logged |
hrj777
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posted July 04, 2003 10:03 AM
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lioneye68
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posted July 04, 2003 10:42 AM
Thanks for sharing that, Ozone. In time, the hurt will fade and you'll smile when you think of him. 
I've often said, death is always harder for those left behind than it is for the person who moves on.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted July 05, 2003 04:07 AM
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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
ozonefiller
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posted July 05, 2003 01:02 PM
Thank you,guys!IP: Logged |
silverbells
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posted July 05, 2003 02:04 PM
And a  for you and your family.
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...Loneliness makes you strong, only love makes you free-Michael Franks IP: Logged |
Lunargirl
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posted July 06, 2003 01:18 AM
Take your comforts where you can find them, and keep coming back to the core -- your dad taught you love, and he is surely still sending love to you.You can 'talk' or lurk here whenever you want, Ozonefiller. Make yourself at home, however you're feeling. Peace,
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RubyRedRam
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posted July 07, 2003 03:24 AM
I'm one year ahead of you on the grieving scale. Its my two year anniversary of my in-laws passing. The first year was the hardest, getting through all the 'firsts'. It doesn't get much easier, but you certainly get alot stronger and hopefully, it will bring everyone much closer together as it did us.  IP: Logged | |
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