posted July 24, 2003 03:36 PM              

For me,
My eyes and body seem to be the most appreciated physical things.
All my life people have commented on my baby blues...I like them too. They work and stuff. Body, well that's an ongoing project of mine. It's hard friggin work, but it's better than the alternative.

Personality wise, I really think it's my whacky sense of humor, my laid-back style and my affectionate ways. I think people generally feel at ease around me.

But in the heat of passion, what seems to be recieved very well...I can't really say, I'd have to ask, but I suspect it's my confidence that's a turn-on. I'm an active participant, and quite generous too. I also LOVE to leave him hanging "on the verge" for extended periods of time, till he's just about half crazy, THEN...only when I'm satisfied that he's been sweetly tortured enough, will I "bring it home"
(PS this is especially effective if his hands are tied )

posted July 24, 2003 05:37 PM              

I would say my eyes, but most often with a lover it's my shoulders and back because I have pretty wide shoulders and a long back. Being a Taurus I have a nice neck and and well shaped body, Taurus is well known for being slow and sensual. I am slow and like to give a lot of pampering, special physical attention to my loved one. I am very affectionate. I am very concerned about how my lover feels and get concerned about his physical and emotional well being and so I tend to make everything just right ahead of time. Preparation is key.

I guess I am very affectionate in a soft but reassuring way. Cuddling is big and I try to make time afterwards for a lots of private non stress time. Your way sounds fun too but I can't say too much here without being crazy. I mean I like to try everything that's different at least once. And I like to flirt a lot before, during, and after, why stop? I don't like it when someone stops flirting with me, it's nice when it continues. I think I'm a big flirt.

Natasha

posted July 24, 2003 06:13 PM            

No, it actually makes me feel kind of like I am bragging or kind of vulnerable about my charm (LOL)....and I don't want to give away some trade secrets about my seduction techniques.

Ok here it goes:

I have been told that I have an amazing smile with nice full lips. My guy also loves the way I look at him and my "intense but soft brown eyes". All I have to do is give him that "look" and he knows what I want to do to him.

He is also turned on by the sound of my voice and when I speak in a throaty way, even over the phone, he gets..well, you know. He has the same effect on me.

He gets turned on when I get passionate about anything. I can be talking about business and next thing I know, we'll be leaving early. LOL...Also, for some reason, when I get on the fight and we get into a debate, slight argument, it fires us both up.

Other than that, I just don't want to say more. For some reason it just seems like I will lose some power if I spell it out. LOL I do know the effect I have on men, I just sometimes don't acknowledge it. I am always blown away when guys that I talk to who, I see only as friends, will tell me how attracted they are to me, or how intriguing I am to them.

I think more than anything, it's my smile and lips that get a mans attention. I was in Phoenix eating by myself in a restaurant when 20-something came up to be and just said "I don't mean to intrude, but I just wanted to say that you are absolutely gorgeous". I blushed and said thank you. It was sweet and kind of made me want to hide. LOL....don't know why, but I get like that.

I also know that looks are not everything and that they fade!

Physically:

I have very long nicely shaped legs and a flat stomach. I would say that I have an hourglass figure (but not in a full figure kind of way). One thing my ex really loved and most of the guys I have met, are my hands. I have graceful hands, with long tapered fingers and I always have my finger and toe nails painted.

posted July 24, 2003 09:09 PM              

Well, I'm asking you to. I think it would be interesting to see how each sign approaches seduction, and what it is about each of us that just "does it" for the opposite sex. (or same sex, as the case may be).

This is the thread where you can toot your own horn, even if all you can come up with is based on what your lover(s) have complimented you on in the past.

posted July 24, 2003 10:41 PM              

I know I find the LIbra personality very appealing, especially the ability to adapt to every mood and every change in the environment. Geminis can do this to, their bodies are so adaptable they are like a candle flame always changing and so fascinating. A Libra can adjust his body language to mirror yours in an instant and make you feel like the center of attention. Plus Libras seem to make a lot of eye contact which makes me feel very feminine and sort of weak in the knees. That says a lot about what I do too. I do a lot of eye contact.

How's that?

posted July 24, 2003 10:44 PM              

He seems to get really excited when I do anything confident. Like public speaking or taking charge in urgent situations, leading discussions. I don't know, it's like he's really proud of me and doesn't know how to express his emotion except physically. It's really kind of cute.

He likes it when I take control...grab the proverbial bull by the horns and just do it. In every day life and in the bedroom. He's always liked that. It's funny, but after twenty years we still use inuendo's and lover talk and snuggle on the couch to watch tv. I like it slow paced and relaxed, and yes, this taurus needs planning and prepartion too.

posted July 24, 2003 11:03 PM              

Natasha, you're so fond of your Libra that you're telling us what turns YOU on about HIM, instead of the other way around. That's so sweet and funny!

But, this is about you now, Honey. What about you makes HIM weak in the knees?

(oops... you already ponied up to that...above a few posts. btw, I can tell you're really in love w/ Mr. Libra. How long has it been for you guys?)

posted July 25, 2003 12:10 AM              

I'm short and curvy..and I laugh a helluva lot. 2 years of braces and I get lots of compliments on my smile. I have even facial features...and I blush very easily, as well as making my entire face light up. So I guess I have a way of making people feel like they're charming because I laugh and smile so easily.

posted July 25, 2003 12:46 PM              

I honestly have no clue what I do that turns my lovers on...

I kinda think each woman is different so it's not just "one set" of things...

Like each woman is a new mystery to be unlocked, a new puzzle to be solved...
A woman's sexuality can be difficult to unwrap, especially the more conservative ladies...

I'm just myself I guess... my mind's pretty much permanently located in the gutter... I won't speak of it, when an innuendo surfaces... just a glance and some good eye contact does the job, no need to ruin it by verbalizing.

I've noticed seduction with women, isn't AS physical as men... men would be easy, shake your ass in front of them and they're seduced, women are much more difficult. I think "not saying" a lot of things and leaving some mystery to your persona could be a big seducer for ladies.

posted July 25, 2003 01:29 PM              

So, basically, you're babe-a-lishis then?
That's appropriate.

(what is it with Leo's and body image obsession? We sure do like to constantly "raise the bar" for ourselves, eh?)

posted July 25, 2003 01:51 PM              

And about the people criticizing about this...
In my experience, it's because they're envious they don't have the Will-Power to stay healthy & in shape.

posted July 25, 2003 01:58 PM              

I am a Taurus and I still work out, and I am not the kind that's physically lazy but I walk around a lot too. Must be the Sag Mars conjunct Ascendant but I have trouble putting on weight. Yes the Libra likes a little extra, oh a while now, I don't want to feel that old. I am insecure about my passionate nature, it's was hard for me to find a man to accept that, others were too afraid.

posted July 25, 2003 03:04 PM              

Natasha, I suppose Mars conjunct your ascendant would make a person extremely action oriented, regardless of the sign, but in an energetic sign like Saggie, it would even more true. Are you kind of hyper, or like to keep busy?
When you said "oh, a while now", was that to answer my question of how long you've been with Mr. Libra?

posted July 28, 2003 02:18 PM              

Let me ask you something Lioneye...

You ever regret being a Leo at times?
...sometimes I am SO OUTGOING & loud I wish I could just stick my foot in my mouth

posted July 28, 2003 02:39 PM              

It really is a responsiblity sometimes, having a strong personality. The best way to approach it is to pick your battles carefully, and let other people have their own coup d'etat's when it doesn't matter to you all that much. And do it gracefully, not begrudgingly.

posted July 28, 2003 03:01 PM              

"Avoid them" You crack me up!

I go thru some serious stages of "avoidance" with people that have falllen out of favor with the court...lol

- I feel bad avoiding people that "can't handle" my personality, but hey, if they're weak and are always offended by me..."just being me" , then there's nothing I can do...