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financechick
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posted August 13, 2003 09:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have been on this board quite a long time and I have got to tell you that I find you to be extremely RUDE and you show an extreme LACK of understanding for other people and their feelings.

I am so SORRY that my life obviously isn't as WONDERFUL as yours is.

If all you think I do is complain then why not just ignore my post instead of interjecting your opinion.

You do nothing to help the situation, only to further prove my feelings that people in general show a lack of understanding and EMPATHY.

I do believe that THIS shall be my last post here for a long time.

Thanks a lot Bissie...you're such a wonderful person a such a joy to be around.

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NikiSpeedy
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posted August 14, 2003 12:20 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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N_wEvil
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posted August 14, 2003 06:08 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bad vibes d00d.

I can understand your frustrations but the kicking this communities' had over the past month needs a little healing.. just a suggestion

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silverbells
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posted August 14, 2003 07:03 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Get some love in your groove, just get hip to forgive-Michael Franks

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silverbells
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posted August 14, 2003 07:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
And where are you going??? You stay here.

AND

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No need to fear negativity because Love is the greatest weapon and Love is the greatest shield-Me

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silverbells
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posted August 14, 2003 07:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Stop trying to leave us, please. Anyway, when you ignore negativity (passively not aggresively) it cannot survive in your presence. So buck up, don't add to your soon-to-be gone blues by entertaining the small"n".

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anafaery
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posted August 14, 2003 08:00 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well, trying to a fence sitter here... but out of 15 or 20 odd posts in support of you, dont let one person upset you. we cant have everyone agree with us or love us. thats just life. you have many people who care about you here fc, and to leave because of one is punishing the multitude of others who care.

grace under pressure... happens to the best of us.

why i can name at LEAST 12,438 people that *hate* me!

not making fun, trying to get a smile from you

~dontcarewhohatesmefaery

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where i end and you begin there's a gap in between there's a gap where we meet where i end and you begin
and i'm sorry for us the dinosaurs roam the earth the sky turns green where i end and you begin

i am up in the clouds i am up in the clouds and i can't and i can't come down

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N_wEvil
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posted August 14, 2003 08:09 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
go on then

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anafaery
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posted August 14, 2003 08:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
shush you

~nomoneywherehermouthisfaery

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where i end and you begin there's a gap in between there's a gap where we meet where i end and you begin
and i'm sorry for us the dinosaurs roam the earth the sky turns green where i end and you begin

i am up in the clouds i am up in the clouds and i can't and i can't come down

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anafaery
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posted August 14, 2003 08:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
id better make that 12,439

aw im sorry

~sawwyfaery

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where i end and you begin there's a gap in between there's a gap where we meet where i end and you begin
and i'm sorry for us the dinosaurs roam the earth the sky turns green where i end and you begin

i am up in the clouds i am up in the clouds and i can't and i can't come down

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anafaery
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posted August 14, 2003 08:45 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey lets all have a group hug

isnt that a cute smilie, i have been dying to use it

~huggyfaery

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where i end and you begin there's a gap in between there's a gap where we meet where i end and you begin
and i'm sorry for us the dinosaurs roam the earth the sky turns green where i end and you begin

i am up in the clouds i am up in the clouds and i can't and i can't come down

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N_wEvil
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posted August 14, 2003 09:18 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Sylven
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posted August 14, 2003 11:10 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Deleted!

What a waste of energy!

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Carlo
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posted August 14, 2003 12:38 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
true dat kitty...

which sign is most critical? right!

and which takes criticism worst? right!

it's just the Leo/Virgo way...Virgs see anything out of whack, no matter how slight or insignificant, and we involuntarily smack it back into alignment, usually with our tongues by vocalizing what we see, often coldly and antiseptically, yet not usually meant to hurt, since we are considered the most polite sign (usually!)

Leos, no matter how evolved, inside reject all criticism of themselves, since no criticism can apply to the ruler, right? You know you rule and those who even peep otherwise should be taken to the gallows, yes they really should. That's if you actually are a real live queen, not just a Leo Queen

so words or threads between us two signs can get real hurtful real fast, and it isn't easy. Yet we do have to power to reread our posts and to edit them. Sometimes even Leos could do some editing, and we Virgos certainly do a lot of it. C'mon Bissie, we all want you to be happy here too, please just apologize or edit, huh? and you both stick around, and just please make the nicer effort. It is our time of year girls, the fabulous Summer, so get wit it...and it's going to be a lovely weekend...

THU AUG 14 [Note: Venus is speeding up and moving closer to a conjunction with the Sun. This happens exactly on August 18. With each passing day, the Sun-Venus union gains strength -- helping you in romance, the arts, social affairs and attracting material resources.] This is a catch-up and finishing-up type of day with the Moon not only in Pisces (last sign of the zodiac), but void-of-course from 3:30AM PDT until 1:01AM PDT tomorrow. Complete old business you have begun during the last four weeks or several months. Learn the fine art of bringing activities to a conclusion on a high note. Clean up your emotional act and eliminate negative behavior patterns that have been holding you back from worldly success. Major planetary alignments disappear for a couple of days, so you don't have to worry about excessive cosmic disturbances turning you into a defenseless punching bag. Movies, music, poetry, film work and photography appeal to your aesthetic side under Pisces Moon. Dance to golden oldies tonight.

FRI AUG 15 You are pretty much riding high and in the clear over the next 48 hours. Utilize these two days to really accomplish everything on your to-do list. Aries Moon arrives at 1:01AM PDT -- strengthening your personal will, leadership capacity, and independence. Don't let others boss you around. Keep in mind that one of the intrinsic meanings of Aries Moon is to simply begin something. Think of a seed that sprouts in the soil and inaugurates the process known as germination. This is the fire of life in action. Imagine yourself as that seed today and think about what you can become in the next four weeks. A Venus-Chiron contra-parallel (3:07AM PDT) may function to bring you and your beloved into a closer and more sacred union. Watch out for depressing thoughts or old fears arising during the Moon-Saturn square (6:28PM PDT). Later on, you can join friends for a night on the town. Let your hair down and have a blast.

SAT AUG 16 Here's another day when you have the power and the celestial choir are on the sidelines cheering you on. The Moon remains in fiery, dynamic Aries all day and makes flowing alignments to Pluto (10:34AM PDT), Venus (10:56PM PDT) and the Sun (11:50PM PDT). Since it's a Saturday, you probably have a lot more free time than during the workweek. Make the most of your opportunities. The one hitch might occur close to a Sun-Pluto contra-parallel (3:51PM PDT). This is the one time when you are most likely to stumble into old behavior patterns or negative ways of thinking. If gardening appeals to you, focus more on weeding and pest elimination. Leave planting for tomorrow afternoon, Monday and Tuesday when the Moon is exalted in Taurus. Romance is in the air tonight -- courtesy of the harmonious Moon-Venus link. If you are currently unmated, a late-night study session or reading blitz may prove fulfilling as Mercury moves 72 degrees to Saturn (12:01AM PDT tomorrow).

SUN AUG 17 You may experience some sensual desires and erotic impulses this morning as Venus is contra-parallel Mars (4:21AM PDT). Old fears may also be surfacing due to a Sun-Saturn 45-degree pattern (5:45AM PDT) and the same tie between Venus and Saturn (12:54PM PDT). Keep working to eliminate your blocks and frustrations as the Moon conjuncts Pallas in Aries (9:08AM PDT). Brainstorms can offer you sudden illumination in the morning hours. Note that the Moon is void from 7:37AM PDT until 11:53AM PDT when the Moon enters earthy Taurus. After this latter time, be enthusiastic about gardening, cooking, baking and domestic concerns. Romantic prospects are looking up as the Sun-Venus union finally arrives tomorrow. A potent 135-degree link between Jupiter and Chiron (8:5PM PDT) gives your intellect and intuition a super-workout tonight. Immerse yourself in the secret teachings of ancient civilizations, Pythagorean numerology, Rosicrucian philosophy and the wisdom of the Far East. Meditate for clarity and peace of mind.

MON AUG 18 Don't let anyone or anything spoil this terrific day. Venus catches up with the Sun and both celestial bodies merge at 26 degrees of Leo (11:06AM PDT). [Venus and the Sun will not have another union until June 8, 2004 when they merge at 18 degrees Gemini while Venus is retrograde.] Today's union is known astronomically as the Superior Conjunction of Sun and Venus. The Earth, Sun and Venus are lined up in the solar system -- with Venus moving fast and on the far side of the Sun. We might consider this a "Full Venus." Be open to receiving more love in your life -- not just from a significant other, but from many people. Be a lover and giver of life yourself. Realize your greater potential as an artist, social activist, entrepreneur and income-producer. You are clicking on all cylinders and the Moon in Taurus is experiencing its monthly exaltation in the first earth sign of the zodiac. The solar-venusian rapport remains strong for at least 4-5 days while both bodies are within a 1 degree orb. Mother Nature is also calling you and it's fine to get your hands dirty in the soil -- planting root crops, flowers and herbs.

TUE AUG 19 Since there are so many days and times filled with adverse planetary patterns, yesterday's superlative opportunities should remind you to take full advantage of the good vibrations when they happen. Here's another chance for you to shine as the Sun parallels Jupiter (2:56AM PDT). This contact is a forerunner for the Sun-Jupiter union in the zodiac that occurs on August 22. Take the great leap forward in educational matters, literary pursuits and advanced learning programs. This is reinforced by a Moon-Mercury trine (10:33AM PDT). Expect a crisis or increasing tension during the Last Quarter Sun-Moon Phase (5:49PM PDT) -- activating 27 degrees of Leo and Taurus. Vault over obstacles in your path with finesse and determination. A sisterhood sharing or gathering with female figures in your immediate circle is favored as Venus sextiles Vesta (11:13PM PDT). The Moon in Taurus is void from 9:30PM PDT until 12:42AM PDT when Gemini Moon begins.

Love,
Carlo

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Bissie
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posted August 14, 2003 12:51 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
aww, I just saw this....sorry, Finacechick, I was just being honest, we already disscussed honesty in another thread, right Stan?
I feel sorry for you, you started complaining about your life in the beginning of this year and I was very compassionate with you, I did a long astro reading for you, if you remember, which took me a couple of hours to complete and I told you so nice thing to look forward in your life, seems you just dont want to learn.
I can share my opinion what is one of your problems - you are self-centered. All your posts from the begining are about you and your problems, you never commented other`s posts, never consoled and never said a nice word to other members who also shared their problems, you only talk about you. If you are like that in the real life - I can understad your problems. Of course - I may be mistaken, and I am sorry if I hurt you.
well, enough said about it. You need maybe a therapy, to give you a peace of mind.....just my two cents...I dont mind you venting your problems on here, I just would like to see you at least once happy and say something cheerful. I`ll leave it with that. Good luck to you.

P.S. ohhhh Carlo

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Aphrodite
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posted August 14, 2003 01:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I concur with Bissie's post above

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financechick
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posted August 14, 2003 01:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bissie,

your assessment of me couldn't be further from the truth, that's why you inital comment on my other thread infurriated me so much.

I am the furthest thing from self centered. I volunteer a lot of my time with different organizations here in town, I raise money for diabetes, lukemia, I volunteer with moveable feast (which makes meals for HIV and AIDS patients who are house bound). I have volunteered with save our streams among many other charity organizations. I was even going to help a freinds sister get her GED until she decided that's not what she wanted.

I have very few people in my life whom I can talk about my problems with. From their perspective, my life is perfect....but it is very far from perfect. It seems that the more I do for people, the more I get dumped on.

I have contributed to various threads over the years where others were down in the dumps. I do not post as frequently as I used to do to job obligations (among other things).

I really honestly thought that this was a place where I could come and vent and get some support. For the most part, it's true, but I just don't feel like dealing with people who only serve to know me down further (that means you Bissie).

I can guarantee that this will be my last post on this board.


I hope you find some emplathy for other people, you know, most people's lives aren't as perfect as yours.

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NikiSpeedy
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posted August 14, 2003 05:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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posted August 14, 2003 08:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Financechick
On the other string I mentioned that I took a quick look at your chart and noticed Pluto conjunct your NN. Did you see that post? As you only replied/reacted to Bissie's post. I know Bissie very well - she's not a bad person - in fact totally the opposite and would always help anyone whenever she can. Yes she's a straight talker and ya know what....sometimes that's exactly what we all need - even though our intitial reaction may be "well that wasn't very nice". I've come to know Bissie over the past few years and actually met her when she visited London this year. I have to say she is an exceptional and very supportive friend. You may be thinking "oh yea" as you read this...but please believe me...she is

Can you relate to what I said re Pluto transits and your natal chart? I was trying to help you work though this difficult time you're obviously going though. Question for you....why did you reply/react to Bissie's post and not mine?
Sue

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anafaery
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posted August 14, 2003 09:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i gotta reiterate this

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to leave because of one is punishing the multitude of others who care.

i have seen LOADS of support for you, and i gave my own too. one thing that i have found useful in my life is to accept the fact that there are people that will always be critical of my life, and me myself. it doesnt bother me. i know that theres tons of people in the world that i dont particularily understand either, but what can ya do? you gotta tune out the hurt, and accept that people will have their *own* opinions, and they might not agree with everything that i do or am.

it sounds like people have cared enough to be honest with you to try to *help* you be the best person you can be, that you will be happy someday. nobody is saying anything specifically with malicious intent to hurt you. they are coming from a caring place, in the hopes that you might value the constructive criticism. we cant live in a fantasy land.

if someone says something about me, i try not to take offense but honestly analyze what they have said, to see if it has any merit. if it doesnt and they have simply misunderstood me, well thats fine and i chalk it up to the vagaries of a very diverse human community. if it does make sense and i can see that they might be right, i accept it and try to work on it, because its all about being a better person.

its like how i describe saturn. hes our celestial father, and his message is one of lessons. he doesnt give us these lessons to destroy us, but rather to make us stronger and better people. our daddy in the sky *will* and *does* make our rewards manifest when we accept the lesson. but how would a parent feel, if time and time again he tries to teach us valuable life skills, and we sleep in study hall? we go out, make the same mistakes, over and over, and come crying back to him because life is so unfair, when really its our own fault for refusing to accept and master the lessons? if i were papa saturn, id get pist too. the lessons will only get harder and harder, as papa loses patience and uses more and more stern methods in the hopes that one day we might get it through our thick skull and move on a better person.

its all about self esteem.

maybe instead of doing all the charity work, do some charity work for your*self*. take that time and fall in love with yourself, do things for *you*, pamper yourself and treat yourself. pretend that you have a new lover, and that lover is *you*. take yourself out for dates, buy yourself some pretty things, make yourself a romantic dinner. honestly, i still make myself romantic dinners, as someone around here can attest. *points at wevil* treat yourself like you would a date, it sounds funny and silly but it does wonders! heck you can even have great dinner conversations, if you have a glass of wine or two

i think it would do some good, it will do good for EVERYONE to do that at certain times in their lives. i did it, and it was a damn good thing i did, cause im happy now. in general, im not perfect, but yea, generally im a lot happier now, and i dont get so upset if people dont like me or accept me, because *I* do, and thats what counts when all is said and done.

therapy might be something for you too. not that i think that you need intense emotional therapy to be a worthwhile person, thats NOT it at all. the thing is that therapy is something that you do for YOU and YOU alone! you dont go for anyone else, you go for YOU and that makes all the difference. the therapist is there for YOU. s/hes not there for her/him. also massage therapy too, to pamper our physical body as well. the emotional body and physical body are very closely in sync. its a gift we can give ourselves.

leaving because people give you insight as to certain things strikes me as a bit petulant. nobody here seems unwilling to understand, but perhaps they are getting a little bit tired, like papa saturn.

course i dont know anything, im a relative newcomer here. just hoped that what i have to share might help. *shrugs* its really none of my business, although i did involve myself by posting in the original thread, so i see fit to see it through.

i do wanna say that you are cared about... even i care, and i barely know you. i feel i would like to help you, because i have felt exactly like you for the first half of my life. i hope you dont mistake what im saying for UNconstructive criticism, as it honestly isnt, it comes from a place of Love for all my fellow humans and a genuine desire for us all to be happy and the best people we can be.

~anafaery

ps the group hug offer is still valid, although the server that hosts my all too cool smilie is down so the pic isnt showing

hugs to anyone and all who desire!

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where i end and you begin there's a gap in between there's a gap where we meet where i end and you begin
and i'm sorry for us the dinosaurs roam the earth the sky turns green where i end and you begin

i am up in the clouds i am up in the clouds and i can't and i can't come down

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silverbells
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posted August 14, 2003 10:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
{{{{HUGS}}}}
AND
Special hug for financechick{{{{{HUG}}}}}

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Lunargirl
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posted August 14, 2003 11:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When people just can't get along, another angel cries itself to sleep in Heaven.

Lunargirl

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