posted August 23, 2003 01:25 PM              

Im a female born May 8 1984 9 48 am queens ny

posted August 23, 2003 02:08 PM              

Being born in 1984, you have time on your side. Build yourself up, find your talents, your joys, meet friends, travel, get more education. Create a life for yourself that when that ideal someone comes along, he will love who you really are and you can create a wonderful life together.

posted August 24, 2003 04:22 AM              

Well.

It's possible to tell when it might be more fortituous to start a relationship however if you ask me there's three ingredients that are the most important.

A) You.
B) Them.
C) Effort.

If one of you puts in effort and the other doesn't it gets pretty nasty, if neither of you put in effort you wind up with a show-relationship.. however... if both of you honestly try to overcome your differences and niggles, thats' when good stuff happens.

All I can say is don't lose hope and keep an open mind...

In terms of finding that "magik moment".. its not possible, not without knowing who your partner will be in advance and checking BOTH your charts, heh.

posted August 30, 2003 03:08 PM              

Now I'm not saying that world revolves around finding that perfect man in my life (although it would be nice ). You know I live my life take care of everyday business like going to work paying bills, and I even hang with friends from time to time. But its jus that I'm human and no matter what I do I still feel incomplete

I just wish that right man would come into my life I can't wait no more lol

ut can some let me know when approximately a man will come into my life who is like a best friend to me who is sincere and who I can trust and who is in a resonable age range who i could have a decent relationship with

Thank you so much!

posted August 30, 2003 06:31 PM              

You don't have to wait for the right cow to come along to get the milk, you can fill up your heart with love anytime and share it.

Once you are strong enough, it's only fair to share the love with others who need it, not those who are good looking and stronger than you. The heart isn't judged by who it loves, it's judged by how much it's loved by others.

Look for others that are willing to accept and give love instead of your ideal mate and you will have what you need. Then you can work on what you want. There are some who look vulnerable but who are strong, and those who look strong but are weak, don't look with your eyes. Perceive with your mind. Ask a man what he thinks and feels.

When was the last time someone asked you what you thought or what you felt? Doesn't feel that great does it? Well, you can share love with those who look like they need it.

When you are giving you are taking too, so you can't say everyone takes and takes from you. Do you fall in love and that's it, you are through with that man? Do you long for a man who is hard to get? Who doesn't act like he wants to chase you but wants you right now, when he wants you, how he wants you? Everyone wants that, but first get what you need first. You don't have to marry him. Being a Taurus you need romance and excitement in your life, it's no crime to feel the way you do, it's your life. You have to make your own decisions, you can't wait for a man to come along and make one for you.

You will have many, many men in your life, and most will not ask you out. Take charge, and offer a man who needs love a choice, and tell him to take it day by day. See how it goes.

It's the day to day that's hard, but it's all about what's in the middle, not the highs and lows, eventually you will find someone will give you what you need, if you look hard for it.

Don't be a doormat either, if someone, anyone wants you to do this, hold that, you may think you are pleasing him but he is through with you because it works both ways. A man wants a woman who is hard to get, not a doormat. Be with a man, but don't be his whole life, and don't let him be your whole life either, don't remember everything he needs or wants and get it for him. Pretend to forget a few things.

Oh, and no messages on answering machines, and don't send greeting cards. You can tell if he wants you if his eyes dilate and he is touching himself, hands, head, ears.

Good Luck,
Love is all about you, it's inside of you, waiting to get out, just go with it.

posted August 31, 2003 02:05 AM              

Thanks for the response!
It's just so easy to say rather than to do...
most of the men around here either do drugs or are acoholics
And all of the good men are usually married in a relationship, have kids or just to old for me(30^)
Ya'll see where I'm coming from
This is why I feel so hopeless like the right man will never come along it's so sad
Why do I have to be alone
I hate being alone
I've been alone sine May 20 something
And this is what... Aug 31 going on Sept
I don't know why I always give my heart to the previous boyfriends I had and they all brake my heart some how why I'm a good person why can't I be with a good man who acts like me

Is there anything in my astrology chart thatgives me hope in love

posted August 31, 2003 01:30 PM              

There are people out there having noodle salads by lakes...just not anyone this car.
This is as good as it gets. Some of us were destined to love those who are imperfect to see that we can accept the imperfections in ourselves. There is never going to be a man good enough, only you are good enough. He also says, You make me want to be a better man. That's a great sentiment but it's just a sentiment not directed at anyone person. It's a feeling, that stays with you.

We can feel that way about puppies, and poetry, it doesn't come from one person. If you have passion like that, share it with others who are sentimental too, it's not being a better person, its' the sentiment behind it. There are men who are that way, usually with some Cancer or Virgo in their chart.

Say you accept and love yourself everyday and talk to men as friends, even if they are imperfect, see how they really are and be friends, that's all. Be loved and don't worry if it's a he, she or a dog. That's love, it doesn't do what you want it to. You can't control other people.

It's a tough lesson but being a Taurus you will want to see love around you, even if you are not in it because you have a lot of passion. You can join a local poetry group, take up painting, dance, there are lots of places men with passion hang out, and if you don't have it all the time at least flashes of it can make you happy for now. It is a cold world sometimes but there are people who feel the same as you do, you just have to find where they hang out.

There may be a poetry reading somewhere near you, go, make your own dates and be happy.

posted September 01, 2003 12:45 AM              

Being a Taurus woman, your sweet nature will not intimidate a man in the slightest. You couldn't intimidate a man if you tried, so don't be afraid.

A man who is single really has no good reason to say yes if he doesn't want to, or no just to spite you. He will go if he wants to and if he does then he will be touched by your offer. Share what you like to do.

Look for a man who likes animals, bring up your pets, if he likes pets he is okay.
That's my advice. If he is responsible enough to have a pet that says a lot about his character too. If he is really pushy right away about intimacy tell him you want to wait six weeks. By then you can tell what kind of person he is. If he is the pushy type he will leave before then.

You must get along well with Libras, other Taureans, Virgos, Pisceans, even Leos and Aries, and maybe an odd Aquarius with venus in pisces.
Men are like horses they need guidance about what you want, but always try with love and smiles. The energy and passion isn't about breaking the horse it's about riding it. So save your energy for dealing with the man after you get him.

Too often women are like dogs chasing cars, we want to chase but we are tired out by the time we get what we want. Make sure he doesn't want to play cat and mouse because that's a tease. Aquarius and Pisces mean can tease. Don't waste too much time and don't get too serious with one man for a while.

Good Luck, Don't forget that if he doesn't go out with you, he will be caught by another woman anyway, one who isn't half as romantic as you.
Think of him as a big brother with benefits, ask him out for ice cream, hold hands.

posted September 01, 2003 12:53 AM              

The shy ones are looking for LOVE. These are the ones you want. Don't be afraid, if you find a shy one, he will want to go slow, and will want to go for ice cream and hold hands too. You know what he wants, you don't have to tell him you are the same, you only have to show him that you are like him and like the same things as him.

If he likes a certain kind of magazine, buy it and read it in front of him. If he likes Vanila ice cream, buy two cones and surprise him. If he likes classic cars, hang around classic cars. Surprise him with what you know. Let your interest in him show by what you have learned from being around him.

posted September 01, 2003 06:13 AM              

I thank you both soooo much for the time you've both spent to respond back to me.

Yes I agree life in this world is very cold without love...and understanding...it's a lonely feeling

And I will try look for a shy man
lol my 1st boyfriend was tooo shy though (he had a cancer moon)
he was so shy when it came to our relaionship that it got onmy nerves and he was an aries we're still friends though I guess it just feels more comfortable that way.

Guess what I did have a conversation with one of my friends that I've known a little over a month....he's nice but I don't like the fact that he drinks acohol/beer every now and then he also smokes weed and that I really can't stand And the bad thing is he's one of them stubborn taurus men me I find my self to be easy going mayber because of my ascendant being in the water sign of cancer
I say he's stubborn because I try to get him to stop that smoking and drinking even though he does it on occassion.

My birthday is May 8 1984 9:48 am Queens NY
He's birthday is May 12 1979 Smithsville North Carolina
I think he has a virgo ascendant because he is tall (6"7) and he said that he over analyzes things I do think he has a sweat personality he is defineately someone who I can talk to.
We are supposed to be going out this week so... I'll let ya'll what goes from there
if him and I will remain friends or begin working on establishing a relationship

posted September 02, 2003 04:07 AM              

DEEPIYM,

I'am so happy for you and yes I do wish you luck with your prospective other I'm so happy that you we're able to finally succeed. You have now inspired me not to give up that in time I will be with the one for me. Thank you.

Again Good Luck!