posted September 03, 2003 11:17 AM            

I am not a Leo, but I have been with one for two years. If you all played games, you will be the one that has to say "sorry" first. Be honest and say "I don't want to play those games anymore, you mean everything to me and I miss my playful - handsome Leo".

When Leo's are hurt, they will "go into their cave" as I call it. They will also freeze you out until you have learned your lesson. In the same respect, ignoring them will bring them out as well. I used to tell my Leo when his was in his cave "One of these days, I won't be outside with that damn box of Scooby Snacks". LOL...he laughed, but he knew that I was serious.

We still have our ups and downs, and as another fire girl (I'm a sag) I understand just how passionate, emotional and pissy this kind of a relationship can be, but it's worth it.

I don't know the details or what made him freeze up. I am hoping you didn't cross that line and embarrass him infront of others or talk major smack behind his back. That never works, neither does the "overly flirting with another man".

posted September 03, 2003 02:58 PM              

I must say though that Pid handled the Aries Chick/Scorp dude thing quite appropriately... I wanted to tell the poor thing she's getting played, but couldn't... leave it to those Archers!

posted September 03, 2003 04:45 PM              

Aries gets afraid and nervous and then tense and then blows up. If you say to your friend, you are making me afraid, and tense and I don't like the way you are making me feel right now, you can get into what you feel and think instead of who did what. Ask your friend what he thinks and feels instead of getting into the future too deep right now. Dwell on the emotions today, and forgive yourself and accept yourself.

You can't forgive or accept anyone until you have done this for yourself, forgiven yourself for being a part of it. You have to forgive him to for being part of it before you can move on, really forgive in your heart. When that happens ask him to truly forgive you so you can both move on. Otherwise it will feel like a rollercoaster to him.

Aries are very jealous which is a no no, it's not love to be jealous in your mind. Instead Tell him all about what you are feeling and ask him how he would feel if you did the same to another guy? What would he think? He'll get the picture. At the start this always happens with Aries, make sure to keep stock phrases handy. Would I do that to you? What were you thinking? What are you feeling right now? Do you know how you make me feel, nervous angry, and upset? Please don't do that to me again.

Don't get played either because the Aries emotions can be easily worked on. The solution is self control and NO jealousy. Either forgive or not but you can wreck your own self esteem that way, worse than just ending a relationship.

Next time, breathe, calm down and accept yourself for having these feelings. Then turn to your friend/mate and ask questions.

Good Luck, it's not all that bad, lots of women have a temper. If you accept that inside of you, you can face it. In this society women are taught anger is unacceptable as an emotion, but it exists. You can't ignore it. That's why there is karate.

posted September 03, 2003 07:09 PM            

How are you????? I've missed talking to you cutey!!!! Thanks for the compliment.

Jasmine,

First off, Leo's ALWAYS check out the opposite sex. It's a Leo thing!!! I always laugh and tease my Leo (Well, I am not sure if he will be mine for long...such a long story, maybe I will post it later). At any rate, Leo's appreciate beauty, much like other signs, but they are not the most ummmmmm, well subtle about it. Something about those males lions almost getting whiplash when a honey walks by.

I think you really damaged his ego and probably scared him. Now you have to ask yourself if you can forgive him for cheating and if he can forgive your body slam so soon after he confessed his love for you. Leo's get terribly wounded when they get the nerve to fall. I am not placing all the blame on you, you had every right to question him on that thing.

posted September 04, 2003 06:48 AM              

But Jasmine, it is natural to feel attracted to people, and to check them out is a natural response to that attraction. You can't fault him for that. If you truly feel that he betrayed you, then perhaps it is time to move on? Pidaua is right, you are only 17 and have so much to look forward to.

posted September 04, 2003 01:59 PM              

Let me just say it is impossible for us Lions NOT to look... That's why I INSIST on sunglasses everywhere I go when with a lady... Just saves us both the trouble
Yetserday was the first day of school and WHEW, my neck hurts this morning... god I love my university, girls are dressed for clubbing; wearing high-ass heals & next to nothing cause of the weather... was amazing! I nearly exploded when I went to the gym

I feel like Hartnett during "40 days" once you don't want it... it's everywhere!

Anyways, I only have one thig to say to Jas...

posted August 25, 2005 09:51 PM              

But I also realised we were REALLY, Terribly, too much alike.

We were both egocentric, both wanted what we wanted- separate from the other, and, honestly, we were both REALLY immature.

Even though he was 13 years Older than me at the time.

We were really ravenous types, very firey once we got going, but also both easily dissapointed/ disillusioned. Though, aries seems to hide it better, later on. Leos hardly ever let themselves live it down.

Maybe just look at where y'all are clashing, too similar, too sensitive, some lacking a sense of ease and not enjoying the childishness while you can?

It's entirely possible!