posted September 04, 2003 05:23 PM              

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How Would You Like to Be Approached?

Seriously, what are ideally some qualities you want to see in a person that will open you up for them?

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posted September 04, 2003 05:26 PM              

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I would like someone who has a nice warm aura, but I have no way of really sensing that. So I would appreciate someone kind and was also a good conversationalist. A.K.A. a sweet charming type would be nice.

-StarLover

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posted September 04, 2003 05:51 PM            

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Someone who would sincerely ask me what I`m doing. Too many people assume and are focused on s-elf. That would capture my attention.

juniperb

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posted September 04, 2003 06:05 PM              

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compassion and awareness

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posted September 04, 2003 06:09 PM              

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A guy who said "hey sexy mama" but wasn't vulgar or lewd about it. He'd have to be cool enough to pull off that line though. He'd have to say it in that 60's/70's way. Not the Superfly/Shaft or Saturday Night Fever way; the other way; the clean- feeling way Said in that way, by a cute guy, that would definately get my attention. Of course, we could be anywhere except a club or bar because I wouldn't appreciate it to be said as an obvious pick-up line because that would make it lewd as well.

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posted September 04, 2003 06:15 PM              

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I love it when a man just looks at me for a while and then walks up to me. That is how I met my last two boyfriends. They looked at me and then waited for some more eye contact and then made their moves.

I tend to be very, very friendly so they were pleased when I was so open to know about them too.

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posted September 04, 2003 07:05 PM              

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"I like a girl with a head on her shoulders...I hate necks! That way, when we go to an expensive restaurant, every head turns...except hers, she has no neck!"

~ Jortuk, Czechoslovakian brother

What about vous, Love-Lady? How do you like to be approached? Do tell, show us your stripes

Love,
Carlo

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posted September 05, 2003 10:55 AM              

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I would like to be approached in happiness and inspiration.

A person can really be anything, and anyone. As long as they are happy with themselves, and share with me what turns them on about life. Sharing possibilities that motivate them to get out of bed in the morning to LIVE, is the greatest.

There are many people who have had hard times, difficult relationships, loss, and illnesses. Yet, they are strong enough to keep the twinkle in their eyes, a smile on their face, and keep the love in their heart.

Just sheer Radiance.

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posted September 05, 2003 12:31 PM              

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Secretly-Silently-Sensually

or

Quickly-Confidently-Charismatically

Can't decide...

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posted September 05, 2003 01:17 PM              

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.. does just the love in my heart bit count by itself?

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posted September 05, 2003 11:14 PM              

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Um...
Preferably, not.

I don't understand why, but guys frighten me. ;.;

Or.. over the internet (What I consider a 'safe' distance).

Kay, so I'm not supposed to laugh at myself.. but at least it relieves some anxiety

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posted September 06, 2003 12:39 AM              

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LL, you're too funny. So basically, it's all good then?

I like to be approached ...In a Plutonic manner, with wit and humor, and a little innuendo is always fun.
I'm embarressed by gushing compliments, and obvious "googley eye" syndrome (believe it or not)...and I have a hard time trusting a guy who seems to be drawn to me primarily in a physical way. I don't want THAT to be the main drive behind the "urge to merge".
I want to know that they're more descriminating than that. I'm not just a pretty face, you know.

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posted September 06, 2003 09:38 AM              

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Either casually or unconventionally.

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posted September 06, 2003 01:26 PM              

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for me , one way a girl could just open me up would be by being kind hearted & her eyes( eyes don't have to be beautiful) should make me just feel happy,her entire aura should instill a sense of happiness in me........(quite an impossible thing to happen)
anks

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posted September 06, 2003 01:34 PM              

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great signiature, anks!

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posted September 07, 2003 01:26 AM              

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in an honest, honourable way......by a guy who is sure of his feelings & has waited & taken some time to know me as a person....

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posted September 07, 2003 01:42 AM              

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By someone whose eye contact is alert, alive someone who sees me, and who listens with an alert awareness.

That just knocks me totally awake and focused back on them. Somebody who's really themsELF, and "home"!

Reminds me of a Kirsty McColl song...

"Now don't come the cowboy with me, Sonny Jim
I've known lots of those, and you're not one of them.
There's a light in your eyes, tells me somebody's In,
And you won't come the cowboy with me."

So if you want to get my attention, listen deeply.

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posted September 07, 2003 04:02 AM              

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thanks N_ewil........

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posted September 07, 2003 01:19 PM              

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Welcome Dwave!

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posted September 08, 2003 06:50 AM              

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"Hey goodlooking, whatya got cooking?"

Do not approach me. Stand there, odd, shy, nurdish yet cool, weird and sóóó interesting. The rest'll flow.

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posted September 08, 2003 11:28 AM              

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Same as GeminiAries.. just walk up and say hi, he must be witty and interesting to talk to, and genuinely interested in what i have to say

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