posted September 06, 2003 11:14 AM              

I have long been an admirer of Linda, so I think this site is a wonderful one. Thank you so much for allowing me to join. I live in Brazil, but my parents came from Portugal.

When thing I would like to know is about my new relationship. It is hurting me...
Do you think it is a good combination?

I am a Cancer (sun sign) with a Cancer (moon) and Gemini (rising)
Date: June, 26, 1968 at 6h25
City: São Paulo
Country: Brazil.

My boyfriend is Capricorn (sun sign), with an Aquarius (moon) and Capricorn (rising)
Date: January, 09, 1962 at 6h15
City: Santos
Country: Brazil.

Thanks alot,
Lisa

posted September 06, 2003 11:52 AM              

Bear in mind there's no error margin or anything certain where you can say "oh yeah, 98% match...they'll work out"... ANY relationship takes effort.. but i'm sure you know that.

I'd like to be able to help and i may take a look but i'm likely to miss things as i'm still learning...but if i can't.. i hope it works out for you, coming from another cancer moon

posted September 06, 2003 11:58 AM              

You are right, I am suffering a lot because I need the kind of attention you talked and he is very cold and distant most of the times... It seems like he doesn´t like me sometimes...

Well, let us take a time and see what happens...

Warmest hugs from Brazil.

posted September 06, 2003 01:15 PM              

he can be a great support when ur down,

but there will be tremendous attraction between the both of u,as ur both opposite signs,two totally opposite & therefore attracted to each other,also because of his aqua moon he can be very stubborn when it comes to his feelings,so, u'll have to deal with him tactfully ,which, i think u can,don't be impatient
& as linda always says if u want ur relationship to work ,put & effort & also love is one thing that can conquer everything.

posted September 06, 2003 01:38 PM              

Thank you for your words, truly! I agree with you and I will work on it.

Warmest hugs from Brazil.

posted September 06, 2003 07:15 PM              

To add to what N_wEvil says about Moons, I'm a CancerMoon who has an AquaMoon partner.

Sometimes it's like living with Mr. Spock, from Star Trek. His GeminiSun is conjunct my Moon, so that makes up for a lot, plus I'm an AriesSun, so that's also different from your situation, and yet...

I find that I have had to learn how to _tell_ a partner what I want, because otherwise they really don't know what's going on with me emotionally -- I had to "educate" my CancerMoon into doing that, because Cancer energy is a mastermind at both expressing, and hiding emotions. Now I find it's just easier if I tell somebody what I need. I have no problem with asking for a hug if I need one, which is good, because an AquaMoon might not notice I need one!

They can't read our minds, even if we wish they would.

Usually a Sun-Sun opposition is good in a comparison.

Good luck!

posted September 07, 2003 11:44 AM              

Thank you so much for your reply. I agree with you. My partner doesn´t notice many things about me and I think I will have to re-educate my feelings and tell him what I really need....

Warmest hugs from Brazil.
Lisa