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Topic: Your Sun in your partner's houses and vise versa
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lioneye68 unregistered
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posted September 23, 2003 02:49 PM
I was cruisin' around the net (it's my lunch hour) and I came across some interpretations of how we effect one another based on Where our sun lands in our mate's chart, and vise versa...tres tres interesting....voici! quote: PLANETS IN HOUSES X's SUN THROUGH Y's HOUSES
WHERE PERSON X's SUN FALLS INTO PERSON Y's CHART is of paramount importance, and cannot be overemphasized, showing something of the ultimate gift, role, and emphasis that X is likely to play in Y's life. If X's Sun falls into Y's 1st house, this is good for Y's confidence, bringing him out of his shell, giving him carte blanche to be whatever he wants to be in life, "permission" to express himself freely. Very good for all kinds of relationships. If X's Sun falls into Y's 2nd house, the focus is on shared values, money, and possessions. X will generally be an expensive proposition for Y, but what X brings to Y's life may be well worth it - only Y can be the judge of that. If X's Sun falls into Y's 3rd house, it will generally be what I call "a big talking relationship," lots to talk about, shared ideas, short trips, books, new information, going here and there, cars and other vehicles, phone calls, more mental and sibling-like after any initial passion wears off. If X's Sun falls into Y's 4th house, X will tend to come to live with Y, they will manifest housing and real estate together, make a nest together, examine the dynamics of family relationships, and what makes for stability in life. Can be very good for marriage, this will tend to be a stable and reliable relationship long term, or at least Y will prefer it as such. X becomes a "rock" of Gibraltar to Y. If X's Sun falls into Y's 5th house, X is a lot of fun for Y and probably vice versa. 5th house is famous for love affairs. If Y wants to have children, especially many children, X is a candidate mate to bring Y one or more children. These two may enjoy hobbies, sports, artistic pursuits, special interests, or vacations together. Emphasis on the 5th house is about creativity, sponteneity, and celebrating the joys of life. If X's Sun falls into Y's 6th house, the emphasis for Y is on health, work/job, service to others, and the daily routine. X can make a good employee, support staff, headhunter, health professional or colleague for Y, but 6th house marriages can be focussed on job, health, and the daily grind without much fun. 6th house friendships may focus on the healing process, workplace dynamics, and life transitions. If X's Sun falls into Y's 7th house, one might expect this would be a great partnership or mate, however the interest may be short lived. The parties bring each other new viewpoints to consider. Taking a page from horary astrology, I've found that most of the time, with rare exception, X's Sun in Y's 7th house produces short-term relationship attractions, i.e. "the Sun burns out the 7th house" (horary). X is usually the one to withdraw and lose interest, or burn out, even exhibit something of a "scorched earth" policy in leaving a relationship, or just withdraw quietly and mysteriously so as not to cause a fuss, even though Y would welcome having X around longer. 7th house relationships tend to burn out quickly. Individual charts need to be examined for possible exceptions. If X's Sun falls into Y's 8th house, X brings deep psychological understanding and presence to Y's life. There can be property caretaking, taking care of business and estate issues, awareness of life and death matters, rejuvenation, renewal, and a sense of the deep richness of life. There are sexual overtones to the relationship that may or may not be acted out, are often kept at a level of subliminal awareness. If X's Sun falls into Y's 9th house, X brings philosophical and religious issues, high mindedness, long distance communications and travel, books and publishing, opportunities to learn and teach and do marketing. There is usually a broad tolerance of each other's viewpoints on a wide variety of subjects. Mid-life and later-life marriages are often 9th house. If X's Sun falls into Y's 10th house, the focus is on career openings and advancement for Y. X makes a good mentor, door opener, introducer, boss, teacher, publicist, and champion for Y. X is the more powerful and makes things happen in the world. Y tends to admire X. Because of the power disparity, normally the 10th is not the best house for marriage, which needs more of an equality to be fully successful. 10th house marriages may run aground when Y comes into his own power after being mentored by X for years. If X's Sun falls into Y's 11th house, the focus is on friendship and more impersonal connection. Perhaps the two parties met through a common organization they belong to. It's difficult to have much long term very close connection past good friendship with someone whose Sun falls into your 11th house. The two can help each other achieve their goals and dreams in life, and make key introductions. Later-life marriages are often 11th house, but early-life 11th house marriages seldom last as these need closer connection and more intimacy. In retrospect, there can be a feeling of ships passing in the night with 11th house relationships, never quite fully connecting, or only briefly connecting. If X's Sun falls into Y's 12th house, the focus is on metaphysics, psychology, spirituality, mysticism, intuitive development, the hidden undercurrents of life, causation, therapeutic process, and past lives. Sometimes there is also an emphasis on long term health care, and complementary medicine. It's rare to see anyone marry successfully into their 12th house unless there's a soul agreement for long term health care with one of the parties being chronically ill, or the parties mistake a feeling of familiarity that comes with shared past lives for a sign they should be together as mates - which is not necessarily true, is actually rarely true.
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trillian Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 23, 2003 08:06 PM
Very interesting, thank you lioneye! IP: Logged |
sthenri unregistered
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posted September 23, 2003 09:17 PM
Explains why I get along so well with Pisces, it lands in my 4th house, but a Pisces is not a rock, good at planning though, and excellent at being a long term friend. I agree that Aries is good in my 5th house, I don't know if someone's sun in your 8th house is good or not, it's vague.Thank you, Lioneye Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted September 23, 2003 10:16 PM
You know, it may explain why I lika the Virgos. They light up my 9th house, which is tenanted by the ruler of my ascendant, Jupiter, which happens to be in Virgo. So, if the ruler of the ascendant rules the chart, Jupiter's the boss in my chart, and he says..."Bring on the Virgos. We need to ponder the universe together" (P.S. Happy to enlighten )
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bauschd unregistered
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posted September 24, 2003 02:28 AM
Yeah, Pisces is in my fourth house, and I have so far lived and "made a nest" with two. They do keep me on the right track - that's for sure...So, I tried the reverse (except I don't know my current's ASC), so I went through them all. She seems most likely Virgo ASC, which places me in her 9th, which is pretty correct. However, if she was born from 1830 -1900, then she would also be in my 10th, which sounds kinda true so far, but 1740-1830 would only be in my 9th, which I think is preferable. My conclusion is a question. Is it possible to determine such "facts" from observing data? I think her mum has the time somewhere, so I could have an answer which would be very interesting. Thanks Lioneye! Dean. ------------------ Love and Light to aLL My numerology program according to "Star Signs" by LG. Magically Logical Magic is Logically Magical Logic (and vice versa)! IP: Logged |
proxieme unregistered
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posted September 24, 2003 06:40 AM
Jase's Sun is in my 3rd, and, yep, we talk and talk and talkandtalkandtalk (and my 3rd House Moon and his 3rd House Sun seem to like it).My Sun falls in his 4th...and we do seem to be nesting IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted September 24, 2003 03:00 PM
Excuse me while I indulge myself by taking this concept one step further, Mr. Jupiter is very happy to be in his own home, the 9th house, in fact so very happy that he wants to have a party, and the guests all have to be Virgos, because they're the only ones who can find it. (oh, and Venus in Leo 29deg is there to help host it as well, and possibly getting pulled into all the Virgo energy, hense the missing romantic link)Why oh why did it take me so long to arrive at this hypothosis? That just totally proves what they always say...It's so hard to be objective about your own chart!
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pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 24, 2003 03:23 PM
Hmmm, I wonder is that is why there is such a deep connection between myself and Mr. Leo. My sun falls into his 8th house. His Sun falls into my 11th house. My ex, the Virgo, had his Sun in my 12th house. It was a pretty intense relationship emotionally, but not in a bad way, just not in a way that would last the test of time. The funny thing is, my Sun was in his 8th house just like it is with Mr. Leo. In fact, many of my relationships have had either their sun in my 12th or my sun in their 8th. IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted September 24, 2003 03:29 PM
Interesting. I wonder why that is. A person would have to be a Leo to fall in my 8th house, and I haven't really had the pleasure. They would have to be Scorpio to land in my 12th house, and we all know how THAT would go. (crazy sex then sudden burnout)IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 24, 2003 03:54 PM
I think I must be attracted to or attract Taurus rising people or late Aries rising people. My Venus also tends to fall in their 7th or 8th house. For me, my 8th house is mostly Taurus and my 12th is almost all Virgo. How very odd, and yet I have dated many Virgos. Come to think of it, Mr. Leo's ASC and my ex Virgo's ASC both fall in my 8th house. And my moon fell in both of their 12th houses. Wow that is totally weird. I never really saw the deep 8th house 12th house pattern. What do you think about that? IP: Logged |
lioneye68 unregistered
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posted September 24, 2003 03:56 PM
Well, they're both water houses. Are they tenanted at all? I dunno, but there must be something to that. You're Virgo rising, so Mercury rules your chart. Where is it?IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 67 From: Back in AZ with Bear the Leo Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 24, 2003 04:10 PM
My 12th house is empty ( as is my 11, 10, and 9th but has my MC located in between 9th and 10th) My 8th house has Saturn in TaurusMr. Leo's 8th house is empty, his 12th house holds his Saturn in Taurus. My Mercury is in Capricorn in my 4th house as is my Sun. (His sun and merc are also in his 4th house). The ruler of his chart is Venus and is located in his second house and conjuncts my MC. My ruler is in his 9th house and is about 10 degrees from his MC. We both have empty 5th houses, but his moon falls in mine. Pretty cool. IP: Logged | |