posted October 23, 2003 03:16 PM              

1. flirting with someone else in front of an Aries guy

2. being too pushy or aggressive in pursuit of an Aries man

we are new friends, he doesn't see a long-term future, though at the same time he can see himself falling for me if we tried the dating thing. i think he sounds confused, he says he's not and just wishes he could explain it better.

I'm a Cancer...just trying to understand

posted October 23, 2003 08:58 PM              

I think Aries warm up slowly and make good partners, they are hard workers too.

We don't know anything else about him so you will have to post some birthdata.
I wouldn't say about flirting because who knows what that means? Were you talking and laughing and or just talking? Is the Aries being out of line or were you really flirting on purpose?

posted October 24, 2003 04:00 AM              

The flirting situation happened when we were at a dance club and I couldn't tell how he felt towards me, and he was going to have breakfast the next morning with a girl he had just "taken a step back" from recently...and I'm sure I was more upset about that than I realized, but as we were leaving some guy said hi to the Aries man I was with and I was like, "he's cute, you should hook me up" and so he said okay and walked off. So that's the scene and he was not at all happy when I came out after him. I'm not sure if that was his deciding factor in thinking I'm not for him or what. He just says instincts tell him we aren't meant to be. But the more I read about Aries the more I see the whole ideal mate thing popping up and that they are always thinking there is the next best thing around the corner. He admits he feels that way too, but said he is trying to change that. I just really like this guy and don't know how to act since I am not at all the type to play hard to get.

posted November 03, 2003 04:03 AM              

female (me) born in Phoenix, AZ on June 22, 1974 at 5:05am

male (him) born in Gulfport, MS on March 21, 1976 at 11:13am

Not sure what to ask...just maybe how it looks. There is a thread in Soul Unions that describes in more detail the relationship, but basically as it stands now, we are just friends, his instincts tell him there is no long-term future for us, and to be quite honest, i have just recently stepped back from feeling more for him than just friends, which when we first started talking and met, i believe he also felt for me...then things changed.