posted October 28, 2003 07:41 AM              

What effect does a man's Mars conjunct a woman's Sun usu. have in a relationship?

I've heard varying reports, but this is what I've noticed and I was wondering if ya'll could verify its applicability:

My husband and I have this aspect (loosely), and early on he said to me, "Y'know, this is the first relationship that I've felt like a man in rather than like just a goof-ball kid."
Is that a result of the loose Mars/Sun conjunction, the loose his Saturn/my Sun trine, or perhaps the super-tight my Moon/his Sun conjunction?

(Those are the only ones that jump out at me as maybe responsible - the mutual Venus/Moon conjuctions don't seem likely.)

Thankya, thankya,
Corri

posted October 28, 2003 08:38 AM              

The Mars/Sun is the aspect of mutual energy and respect. It is the aspect of support. If there is a Saturn/Jupiter aspect too, then you will have something that will last.
The Sun/Moon conjunction gave the final kick and this aspect is found within couples that will never leave each other no matter what. If I recall right, you have a wonderful Venus/Moon conjunction in Taurus? This aspect will make the bi-whell gentle. Sun/Saturn trine and sextile shows that you understand him as a serious person, not a 'kid' and that this bond will sustain, bringing out everuthing mature (Saturn) and masculine and warm (Mars) in your husband. As I said before and will do so again: a good chart of two fine and kind people, who love each other very much.

posted October 28, 2003 10:22 AM              

This aspect doesn't work well where one or the other partner wants to be in charge or control the other, however with real love and acceptance of each other's abilities and characteristics, it can be very positive.

Lanny

posted November 01, 2003 12:19 AM              

Got nothing to say about your question, but the heading sounds just like u and/or me, Ms. Scorpio Asc. Sorta tickled me.

posted November 02, 2003 02:44 PM              

*thrusts fist in air*

Pisces/Aqua/Scorp Powa!

zoka - Thankya That makes me feel all warm and fuzzy. And, yes, I can see what you've written manifest itself in our relationship.
*little voice calls: Don't forget the loooose Aqua Moon, Aqua Venus conjunction*

Lanny - Thank you. As always, your insight is wonderful, and gives me a bit to ruminate on.

posted November 02, 2003 07:49 PM              

I'm sure my Aries29.5 Moon will fit rite in!! Anybody else around here BORN with VOC moon?? Oh me, oh my!! I needed more complicaiton -- and i got em!!

posted December 01, 2003 04:45 PM            

My guy and I share this configuration with his Mars in Sagittarius not only conjuncting my Sun but it also conjuncts my Venus.

We have a major sexual attraction and an amazing sex life, but there is so much more. It is like there is nothing we can't accomplish together. From my point, I feel that he can get under my skin. He likes to argue a bit just to get the fireworks going.

He said he had an instant attraction to me, which made him defy his taurus rising can call me straight after seeing me to work with him. He has also said from the beginning and even 2 years later, that I completely intrigue him, get under his skin (once he called it "Tripping his Trigger") and that he could never tire of being with me. I thought it was nuts, but he hasn't shown any lack of interest on any count.

There are a few power struggle and jealousy issues. If he feels I am not paying attention to him, he can be a bit childish in getting that attention (maybe that is his Leo Sun talking).

At the same time, we can really understand the others ideas and we support each other passionately.

posted December 01, 2003 07:06 PM              

He said he had an instant attraction to me, which made him defy his taurus rising can call me straight after seeing me to work with him. He has also said from the beginning and even 2 years later, that I completely intrigue him, get under his skin (once he called it "Tripping his Trigger") and that he could never tire of being with me. I thought it was nuts, but he hasn't shown any lack of interest on any count.
I can't speak for Jase, but there was that first night/day...we met at a midnight showing of Rocky Horror, ate breakfast til 3 or 4 at Denny's, went to his friend's and watched Rocky Horror again, and stayed up talking for hours. I went home to get some sleep, and he called me that evening for coffee, and we've seen each other every day since when we weren't taking part in something pre-planned, and he's usually been the one to initiate it
And he did have to sit down because of dizziness after a few of our first kisses.
So it'd make sense, y'know?

There are a few power struggle and jealousy issues. If he feels I am not paying attention to him, he can be a bit childish in getting that attention (maybe that is his Leo Sun talking)
Maybe not - my Aqua Sun beau does the same. And there can be a definite tension there - can be quite nice, though.

At the same time, we can really understand the others ideas and we support each other passionately.
Sounds right