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Topic: confused by communication with a Cappy?....
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Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: Michigan :)
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 08, 2003 04:58 PM
  
Hey all you fellow Knowflakes,
I am in a bit of dilemma, and while it is only a potential "friendship" right now, it has other romantic potential. So, there's this Cappy guy that I met on the bus to my job back on September 2. I was stressed at the time becasue I had already missed my new student ceremony at my university, and was heading home in defeat. Anyway, we talked, and I was quite intrigued by his manner and intelligent mind. I hoped, since we lived in the same general area, that perhaps I'd see him again. I did a few weeks later, and the vibe was definitely deepening. He asked for my number, and I gave it to him, but he never called it. When we met again, we talked easily, and a stranger on the bus asked if we were friends. The Cap turned to me and "Well, are we?". Of course, since I am a Virgo with strong Leo influences who doesn't take the term "friend" very lightly (I've been known to wait until I know someone a year before I invite them to my b-day celebration), I answered, "we're good aquaintances". I've seen him often since then, and while the vibe is still intense and playful, he casually made reference recently to a girlfriend. When querried longer about it, he claims to have only met this girl a month ago. I could have sworn there was a mutual attraction, mentally and physically going on, but now I'm confused. I spoke with him two days ago, and sorta asked why he took my number, since he never called me for any reason, and he said, "Well, you have my number, why didn't you call me?". That would have been so completely not my style, to be the agressor.
So, what I'm really asking is could someone look at our charts to help me figure out him and what's going on?
My info:
09/12/1985 Grosse Pointe, MI 8:23 PM
His info:
01/01/1984 Troy, MI 12:08 AM
Thanks  .P.S. I finally called his cell and left a message that said, "Hi this is Kat. Now you can't say I never call. Bye!" ------------------
-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted November 09, 2003 02:56 PM
I didn't look at your chart, because I don't think there's an established possibility of a romance here. You probably DO have some nice synastry aspects, judging by the fact that you're hitting it off. BUT you said he made referrence to a girlfreind, right? Sounds like someone needs to embrace endings before he starts embracing new beginnings. Personally, I wouldn't want to dabble with someone who has confessed to a girlfreind. Do you want to be the "other woman"? The relationship wrecker? And if you succeed in doing so, how will you ever trust him? It will be obvious that he's easily led astray, and you'll wonder if some other cutie is turing his head whenever you're not around. Just my opinion. Don't be "other girl" in a triangle. Never leads to anything good. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted November 09, 2003 06:01 PM
Caps are never that assertive. It's always necessary to make the calls, and be the assertive one. That's just the way they are. They are actually insecure underneath. I find that I have often let men ask me out while dating someone else, (not married) because it wasn't serious.Possibly he is insecure about relationships, as I was when younger. I would be more confrontational and ask him if he wants to be your boyfriend. If you don't want him to be then don't ask. It never hurts to ask and clear the air, that way you aren't left hanging with a what if... Natasha
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key
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posted November 09, 2003 06:24 PM
Well, I made every single first move with my Cap - right down to the marriage proposal. EVERY one, including meeting him. I agree with Lioneye - be careful if he has another girlfriend. Otherwise, it is ridiculous to wait around until you are noticed, asked out, etc. Why should the woman not make first moves? IP: Logged |
cristiname
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From: Earth. Welcome!
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 10, 2003 07:46 AM
I'm a Cap Sun-Ven and I do have this sorta latency ... i never make the first step, not even for things I want. It's like...I need to preserve my energy and rather stay inside my cocoon, by myself... interacting with others demands so much from me...; ) IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted November 10, 2003 11:02 PM
hmm, caps are tricky critters.IP: Logged | |
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