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Topic: why do I feel another's pain so closely?
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Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: Michigan :)
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 17, 2003 02:00 PM
  
Hello...
Well, I'd like some insight, astrologically speaking, as to why I feel such a deep emotional affinity with the little boy who used to live with us. He lived with us from May 2000 (age 3) to August 2001 (age 4.5), and after being gone from our lives for a year, we reconnected in August 2002, and he, along with his two older brothers hwo also lived with us, now visit my mom and I every 2-3 weekends. He has been saying lately, the last few visits more insistently, that he doesn't want to go home, he wants to live with us, and that no one in his family loves him. Now, bear in mind, he is living with a formerly alcoholic & domestically abusive bio father, his two older bio brothers,age 8 and 9) who have never treated him well (they are a Leo and a Sag), his new step mother, her two older sons and her twin four year olds, all in a three bedroom trailer in a not so great neighborhood. Our family, mom and I, have always been very very nurturing towards him, gave him the TLC he missed out early on like baby food, and lots of rocking and reading stories. Still, he and I have always had this extra-special connection, as I underastand his sensative moods, and he comes to me to comfort.
I thinks it's more than circumstances that connects us, maybe other lifetimes or merely similarity of temperment, but I'd love some elses take.
His b-day is:
01/23/97 Detroit, MI 10:15 AMMy info is:
09/12/85 Grosse Pointe, MI 08:23 PM This sweet little soul is so important to me, and he always will be. I don't know how to help him feel more loved, as I know he'll never get it at his house (it's never really been his home), and have a gut feeling that he would flourish again if he came back to us, but don't know if that's what the Universe has in mind...why is it keeping us in his life to be the stability that makes him realize what he's missing?
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-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Newflake Posts: 8
From: ON Canada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 17, 2003 05:19 PM
I feel for your compassion...... ( I have compassion for your compassion?)
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but don't know if that's what the Universe has in mind...why is it keeping us in his life to be the stability that makes him realize what he's missing?
Maybe you are not there to teach him what he is missing, because he isn't missing it at all........ He has it in your family. Maybe there is more hope for him, because he has you/your family as a stable loving influence. I think he is fortunate that he knows you and I love that you both have a strong connection with each other. Nothing bad can come from that! As he grows, he may falter or go down the road his biological family has travelled, but I hope you know that he will have your family's influence forever in his heart, as a guiding light. As an attainable ideal, and a place he can always visit, knowing he is as welcome there, as one of your own. I applaud you. I am sad for him, but things will work out, you'll see. I know you know that, but it's nice to hear it too, isn't it?
Not an astrological opinion, but a valid emotional one.
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lioneye68
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posted November 17, 2003 06:08 PM
Well, I took a quick peek, and although I'm probably missing some major stuff, I did see that your Saturns are conjunct, so I think that's fairly significant. Also, he's a Pisces rising, so your sun lands in his 7th house. To him, you're everything he's not. The missing peice, so to speak. Not to mention the nice sun to sun trine. That's good too.IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: Michigan :)
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 17, 2003 06:19 PM
OOPSS! I meant to put his b-day is 1/23/97...Eek :0------------------
-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Knowflake Posts: 175
From: Michigan :)
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 21, 2003 02:04 PM
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