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Topic: leo help
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purplezen
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posted November 22, 2003 10:38 PM
 
I am a virgo girl, and in june I had my heart shattered by my leo guy (we dated for 8 months), and I had not heard from him at all until the other day. I know he moved to a different state recently. On nov 18th, He sent me an email saying that he missed me, he feels bad about hurting me, and we should have talked things through, looks forward to hearing from me, and will write again soon... so I sent him an e-card back saying "I miss you too, it would be nice to talk to you on the phone again, my # is...". I know he received the e-card because I got a confirmation from the e-card website, but I haven't heard from him at all. I am wondering if I said something wrong that scared him or something, because I really wanted to hear from him, also he said he would write again soon, and it has been a few days...I know people get busy, but I hope he is not playing head games. Any advice would be appreciated. Do you think maybe he is thinking about what to say before he writes or something?
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lioneye68
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posted November 23, 2003 01:12 PM
I think he probably really misses you, but he also doesn't want to start leading you on. Perhaps he's seeing someone else, but you're still on his mind all the time. Maybe he's not sure what he wants, but he wants you to know that he's still thinking of you. He has regrets about the way things went, but he can't commit to making them all better by picking up where you guys left off. Maybe he needs some reassurence from you that you don't have any grand expectations, you would just like to keep in touch. You don't just STOP caring about someone when they leave your life. Leos have a hard time accepting relationship failures. They hate to think that everything that passed between the two people wasn't real and sincere, and as such, it should have been eternal. They don't cope well with emotional disappointments, and they feel guilty about disappointing others. Their feelings aren't changable like some signs, they tend to be pretty constant in how they feel about someone. I know I have a hard time letting go of failed relationships as well. IP: Logged |
Oxychick
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posted November 23, 2003 01:26 PM
Lioneye, you couldn't be more right about Leos hating the idea that they've disappointed someone they love or let them down in some way. (Of course, you would know better than I-I can only speak of the Leos I know and especially the one I was with for a few years).purplezen, your situation sounds very familiar to me! I wouldn't go nuts right now as it's only been a few days. It's likely he needs to process the situation, or maybe he was looking for reassurance that he hasn't hurt you so badly. Leos have a deep sense of loyalty and hate to think they've betrayed it (b/c they hate it when it happens to them). Just take it easy-maybe try to treat yourself or go out with a few friends. I hope you feel better soon  IP: Logged |
purplezen
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posted November 23, 2003 08:16 PM
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Carlo
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posted November 23, 2003 08:49 PM
The advice of this Virgo male: move on. Love,
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MaLiuk
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posted November 24, 2003 03:26 AM
Hi there, hun...how I wish I could make sense out of them. From what I know and experience through friends Leos mainly love people with whole their heart, they just tend to want to test them.. they don't want to smother people, but they don't want to loose them either. It's a vulnerable balance I'm afraid.. What I've also been through is the waiting-game, for some reason they tend to let the other wait for an answer (although you're probably better off *not* trying that on them). If he does care, and I think he does for *he* contacted you again, he'll reply.. eventually. Leos don't like wasting their time and it would be a waste if he didn't mean this, it would get the both of you into unnecessary trouble. Leos hate to fail on people, they want others to think good about them, so chances are that he wants to settle things again and that indeed he's trying to figure out what he wants. Guess you'll need to stand a bit strong in order to see through this... but don't think you're alone in this (I just got into something, don't know what just yet, with a Leo-man...like you noticed in my post, still as confusing as ever). I do hope things work out for you, dear, I really do.. once Leos love, they truly love. And people dare to wonder why we like them? *hugs*  Robyn. IP: Logged |
N
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posted November 24, 2003 09:07 AM
if there is one sign which the non-agressive virgo should keep away from at all cost whether in love, friendship or at work than it is LEO.
like it or not, virgo is the softiest target for the tricky leo's ego display and desire to rule.
as a simple test try to 'act' self centered. and then behave as if he would or is. assume him to be a completely negative person. and then u will come to know things u'hd never know. simply take months urself to reply and then say sorry without any emotions involved and yes 'WITHOUT GIVING ANY REASON. u will come to know from the leo's reaction that he wants u to be giving reason for almost everything. remember, assume him to be nagative. what is he is trying to create importance in u.*** i have seen 4 leos including my dad mess with virgo either in friendship, love or at workplace.
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pixelpixie
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posted November 24, 2003 10:00 AM
Honestly, N? You have absolutely no objectivity when it comes to Leos. You have said yourself, that you absolutely, unabashedly hate and abhor Leo's. Therefore, there is no way you can give true advice regarding Leos, in anything but a negative light. Based upon past reactions, my opinion of you is that if you are involved in a Leo topic thread, your advice falls right past my ears and lands directly on the floor. My opinion.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted November 24, 2003 11:00 AM
N, I thought your dad was an ARIES (?)I can't come to the defence of all the Leos in the world because some people have truly had bad experiences with them. And I won't deny that an immature Leo is so narcissistic and self serving that it's a wonder their own mothers love them. BUT that's the negative end of the scale. Some Leos are much more evolved and emotionally responsible. Those types of Leos, (although they still need to be reassured regularly that you think they're wonderful), are loyal, passionate, generous, affectionate, fun, and just really good sh*ts. They'll do almost anything for people they care about, from manual labor to monatary "gifts" to defending your honor when you're not around. (actually, even if you ARE around) And they don't expect a single thing in return for it... they do it just because that's what you do for your peeps. The trick is in figuring out where your Leo falls on that scale.  IP: Logged |
N
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posted November 24, 2003 01:21 PM
maybe most leos i've met so far have been on the -ve end of the scale. frankly, many females i have been attracted to have been leos. and otherwise also having a sag moon i always keep that faith that everthing going on in the world is for the good and no matter what the sign there must be equal number of jerks in all signs and equal number of angels.
YES. my dad is an aries. but an aries is what eh thinks he is. and he has always believed in indian astro according to which he is leo. i constantly see in him a leo ego. good and bad both.
so lioneye, we all h've trouble at times. and as i had posted in an earlier thread that my favourite astrologer himself said that elos are most likey bound to misutlilse the presence of pluto in sag and that when pluto is in aries sag are going to do the same he had convinced me that this was just one of the many kind of people the eagle eyed pluto was showing me. i won't appoligise. i get angered when leo comes into the picture and i see a straight their unbeatable and disguised approach of ruining other's mental peace.
u pixel, ur a sag. and so unless u experience urslef i can't say a thing to u. let the words bounce. it is reaching those it has to reach. besides why don't u see the practical clear cut advise of the virgo male carlo in this post. don't we both mean the same? its just that i have elobarated and expressed my rage (unneeded offcourse)and i've always thought there must eb some simbas out there. but sher khans have to be screwed. lol ------------------
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purplezen
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posted November 24, 2003 01:56 PM
update: I got an email from the leo today, and he said he will call me soon, and the reason that he hasn't called is because he feels uneasy about talking to me for some reason. I am not going to email back right away...probably tomorrow. I will let him sweat a little IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted November 24, 2003 11:02 PM
Purplezen, I bet he feels uneasy because he's worried you're going to point out how he has disappointed you and/or what his flaws are.
I love my Virgo's but I always know there's going to be a few shots at my ego if we've had a hiatus. Once they're done adminstering the guilt, it's on with the fun, so all you can do is get it out of the way. Swallow the jagged little pill, then it's aaaaaall better....It's all good though. I think it's important that Leos know they have to be accountable for how they effect others emotionally. Otherwise, they'll never become the benevolent leaders that they're meant to be. Leos NEED Virgos, if you ask me. It's my belief that if a Leo gets involved with a Virgo, they're on the path to evolution. And the Virgos THRIVE on playing a hand in that, so it's win-win.
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pixelpixie
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posted November 25, 2003 12:11 AM
Dear N~
I am not a Sag, actually. I am a Scorpio. I am not saying, on this particular thread that she is wrong/right to be confused about a Leo man. That is up to her, him, and how it will unfold. I was simply saying that yes, though others may have presented their thoughts in a negative way, it was through concern and advice, Your point of view is narrow minded, in my opinion. I am not necessarily trying to start something, or finish something, but I wanted to respond. The reason I say this is because you did admit that you expressed rage toward Leos in general. I think, on an astrology forum, it is just wrong to bash an entire sign based on paltry narrow- minded observations. One of my best friends is a Leo, He is an awesome individual, would do anything for anyone, in fact, his chart is stellar. He also has a Leo moon. I, myself have Leo rising. We all have our 'favourites', those signs we find we vibrate to really well. More power to that, but to so abhor an entire sign? That ostrasizes a whole lot of very good people. I think you are wrong. Understand that I am not easily offended, my tolerance is grand. But I do stick up for people, as well as myself. So consider this me sticking up for some of the best people I know.IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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posted November 25, 2003 12:34 AM
Yeah!
(  such a child, I am)
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