posted December 06, 2003 07:22 PM              

In other words, I've not read anything on how to systematically approach the asteroids in this way, through a compatibility analysis. Anyone found any resources online or anything?

I don't want to leave out Chiron in this either.

Thanks...

.gloria

posted December 07, 2003 02:08 PM              

Now don't worry so much about the fact that you are over forty and not married. Tho i do know peeps wonder about ya -- they worried about me too. I married at 47 -- now THERE's LATE!! And guess what?? It was a mistake. I do understand your concern -- as i woulda gone on and on wishing and hoping -- actually for something i was just NOT suited for anyway. Tho, after the marriage bit the dust, i no longer have the desire. I guess that was the purpose of MY marriage. To get rid of that silly idea that i "needed" to be married.

Seems you DO have planets in the 7th tho -- Did i see Neptune there? Well, all may not be roses. You may have to give more than you are prepared. You may be put into the role of "rescuer." Just be sure you do not marry someone u feel sorry for, as this will backfire right away.

I do know that sometimes we have to experience things, THEN decide if it's good for us or not. In hindsight, i think of the times i was asked and said no, the times i was asked and the he bailed out, the time i was asked and then he died. Well, something was ALWAYS in the way. In a way, tho, i wish the actual marriage had taken place a long time ago, so i would not have wasted so much life force dreaming about it.

HEHE -- so now that I am not interested at ALL -- now is probably about when someone special will come by. Ugh. Ewwwww -- did I write that? I have a "whatever" attitude now and for the past 4 years.

Still, tho -- i wish you success in your dream. I have spent many fixated hours doing composite charts, etc, etc.

Juno -- Mine is in Sagittarius and my H had Sag Asc. Seems like a good thing at the time.