posted December 09, 2003 10:32 PM              

Still interested in knowing any opinions on a Leo North Node in 4th House. Also have Leo in my 4th House, Singleton Leo in Uranus as Fire sign, & Par Fortune in Leo in 3rd House.

Thanks,

.gloria

posted December 11, 2003 02:29 PM              

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posted December 11, 2003 08:36 PM              

"Singleton Leo in Uranus"
Do you mean Uranus in Leo"?

"Par Fortune in Leo in 3rd House"
I'll get back to you on this one later.

posted December 11, 2003 10:42 PM              

Thanks for the posts...

The link to the P of F is one of the best I've read. I ask about the 4th house because at the end of another very long thread, someone told me that Leo being in my 4th hs makes for a "complex individual".

But have to take into consideration I also have Uranus in Leo and it is a fire sign Singleton, which is something else I'd never thought about.

But ALSO take into consideration that my Pars of Fortune is in Leo. The reason it's so important to me is because since I was very young, all I ever wanted was to be a part of a closenet, warm & supportive family. Everything turned out completely the opposite.

In other words, the 4th hs is ruled by Cancer. Leo rules the heart, it is also the one which "shines". I'm not able to "shine" in regards to home/family/emotional completeness. Take it one more step... 4th hs ruled by Cancer, Cancer rules the Moon and my moon is in Cancer.

And since Leo is a fire sign Singleton, being the only fire sign in my chart and in Uranus... it's no wonder upheavals have occured. Is anyone following me here?

I think I'm on to something SUPER important for my very sense of wholeness, for the theme I originally reached out to everyone here for... the significant other...

More feedback welcome...

.gloria

posted December 12, 2003 12:22 AM              

I think to me it's obvious you need to be with someone with a heavy fire accent in their chart. I think that an Aquarian may be attractive at first but you are already fulfilling that role in your life.

It's important to reach out to others, who are not who you are already.

Know what I mean?
we have to grow personally and find those who we are least likely to feel comfortable with to find our own personal truth. The truth is not the most comfortable option and it's hard to find. To be honest with oneself is the start..

posted December 12, 2003 01:18 AM              

I hear ya...

It's not so much an "attraction" to Aquarians in the sense of my feeling they might end up being "the one"... it's more like a soul connection or they just end up in my life under the most seemingly random of occurrences.

I was thinking maybe it's my South Node in Aquarius, the place where we've been, that results in that sense of "familiarity".

I mean, I'm figuring this out as I write... maybe I am comfortable with that since my home/family life is not all that. But I think you may be on to something there, being open to what I'm not already. Maybe once I really just accept & come to terms with the personal emotional voids in my life, I'll feel more comfortable with the unexplored human aspects. I feel like I'm getting to that point, if I'm not smack dab in the middle of it right now.

Like I always say, it's a fine line between accepting the things we cannot change, and having the strength to change what we can - the wisdom to know the difference...

Whenever I think of the other signs I've known, Caps are too straight-jacket for me. Pisces are too passive. Pure Aries invaribly stomp on my Cancer Moon. Taurus has felt the best so far. Pure Gemini's are great if I don't expect too much from it. Cancers have given me the worst trouble. Pure Leo's have too delicate an ego to handle my ways. Virgo's cannot stand embarassment in public. Libra's are totally in sync, but they tend to look elsewhere. I don't have the skills to "land" a man, and not sure I want to. Scorpio's become insanely insecure with me. And Sag's have been some of the funnest for me, but I haven't found the right planetary mix yet.

Natasha... I'm really not sure which I should reach out to more. What do you think?

.gloria

posted December 12, 2003 04:09 AM              

Please, if you don't mind... what is your birth data? It's not by accident that I can relate to everything you say to me, and that my guy friend is the one I've felt so comfortable with. He Taurus Sun, Aq Moon, Merc Gemini, Venus Aries... etc.

Isn't that similar to you? THERE ARE NO COINCIDENCES!!!

.gloria