posted January 29, 2004 11:06 AM
Hello there, I am undergoing a lot of stress right now surrounding a Scorpio, moon in pisces Venus in Scorpio, ascendant Gemini, mercury Sag, and Mars Cap. uranus is conjunct her ascendant and her moon is in the 10th. Her venus, sun, and mercury are conjunct in the 6th, and her Mars is square Jupiter and Neptune in Libra. Her Saturn is Virgo square her Mercury and Moon, and her north node and midheaven is pisces in the 10th.She is very stressed right now over money, and over committing her time to 2 Sags, and one Aqua. Both Sags have cost her a lot of money lately and she just got back from babysitting for one Sag for 3 weeks for no pay. Now she has no savings and she was too embarassed to ask for any money. Now she has borrowed money from me causing me a lot of stress.
Last week part of my hair turned even more white than usual over this. She is in crisis mode and that is usually how she deals with life.
Her Uranus is in Cancer, not a great position, and that is opposite her Mars and square her Jupiter and Neptune. Her place of residence changes constantly due to her work and she is very stressed about that and her health worsens.
My own health since I have been involved with her again has gone from bad to worse, I had a pre-cancerous condition 7 years ago which came back in May and I took experiemental drugs and herbs and I have been fine. I moved into a new place and I have doing well since my separation from the Libra. My ex the Libra had problems taking care of himself since he cannot walk or exercise-he is an emotional eater and his back and knees are constantly going out.
I thought I had escaped from everything and my life was back on track until this week. It makes me very stressed to realize how little I have gained and even though my new house is okay, I feel very stressed over money and funds that are overcommitted to others, who overcommit to others, who are basically selfish.
The Sag who went on vacation has had two botox and laser surgeries and has two volvos. Sure she has two children, but she also has a husband and in laws that contribute. I do not have a closet full of clothes or a new car (same car for 12 years) but I feel that my interests are being ignored.
I have called the Sag to complain and vent but she is not answering the phone. She says it stresses her out too much to talk to me. But what am to do? The other Sag is having a nervous breakdown and the Aqua is her adopted son. Yes she adopted a son at the worst possible time in her life and now she doesn't have the money to feed him, school him, or take care of him and he is stressed too.
His mother had abandoned him, and my heart goes out but it causes me even more stress. I am tired of feeling like social services.
Even more stressful is that I do counsel others, who are in domestic abuse situations so I have to be calm, and I am drawing and I need to be calm there too. I don't know how to go forward with the Scorpio anymore, since she wants to stay with me for a time until she is back on her feet. The problem is she never is.
I think she ought to go live with the Sag, but the Sag has nothing but an heated basement and she tried living there and got very sick. I am insisting that the Sag fix up the basement for her and heat it what do you think, who ought to do what?
The Scorpio cannot find full time work in her profession out here, so I have suggested working anywhere but she is too old to be hired at most jobs she says, she is 53.
Ideas??? I am tired of doing so much mental work. It's not just the money it's the stress of being in crisis mode. On top of this the Scorpio's car broke down and I paid for the repairs but this has caused me to feel she does not respect me at all and it makes me angry which is a toxic emotion.
She swears this is not true and she has paid me back before, but I am always stressed for a while. I do not want to get sick again but how?
Thank you,
Taurus/Cancer Moon/8th house
Natasha