posted February 12, 2004 09:02 PM              

Here are tips and advice on how to be a great kisser so your kisses are unforgettable!
Whether you've never had your first kiss or
have kissed and been kissed a million times
before, you'll find out:
• How to make that first kiss special!
• How to hold that special someone when you're kissing!
• Special kisses (tips and advice)
• French kissing -- how to do it right!

      Yes... here's all the kissing info you need!
How to kiss shyness goodbye!
We've all seen kissing in the movies -- the way
it's so perfect, and the way it just happens.

 But real life is different. You're with that
special someone at the movies. You want to
kiss. But does he? Is he shy?
 Maybe you'll tell him you want to kiss
him and end up rejected if he doesn't. Or
maybe he wants to kiss you but he's the
one who's shy. That's why kissing games
are so popular.

Spin the bottle

The reason "Spin the Bottle" and other
kissing games are so popular is that they let
you kiss someone without having to admit
that you like the person you're kissing. You're
kissing because you have to.

Kissing games are also a good way to try
different ways of kissing. In "Spin the Bottle,"
a group of guys and girls sit in a circle,
and take turns spinning a bottle. When the
bottle stops spinning you kiss the person it's
pointing to.

 But what if you're not playing a kissing game?
How can you tell he wants to kiss you? Here's how:

How to tell if
he wants to kiss you!
After you've kissed him once, you know he wants
to kiss you. But what if you two have never
kissed? The first kiss is the hardest.

 You could ask him to kiss you, but that takes
a lot of courage. But you can tell, without reading
his mind. Here are some ways. He could have
worked on the science project with someone else, but he asked you. He could have called somebody else to chat about the English assignment, but he called you.
He could have sat anywhere in the cafeteria, but
he sat next to you. It all means he likes to hang out with you.

And what about when you're with him. Does he
sit close to you? Does he smile and look happy when you're together? These are all signs that he likes you and might want to kiss you.

How to get him to kiss you
Sometimes people who are nervous send out
mixed signals. You might want him to kiss you, but
your nervous behavior might be saying "stay away."

First of all your posture should be open. Sit or
stand close to him. Face him. Look at him, not at the ground. Don't cross your arms or lean away; or, instead of "kiss me" you'll be saying "kiss off!"

Look into his eyes. Smile. Get close to him. If you're not holding hands yet, do it. Ask him to help you remove an earring, or undo the clasp of that gold chain you're wearing. To do that he's got to put both hands on your neck.

     
Now turn your head, and look in his eyes, and be quiet. Smile. If he says anything, just interrupt and whisper his name softly. He'll kiss you for sure!

How to kiss
When your lips meet, keep them slightly parted and press gently against his lips. Tilt your head
slightly to one side, so your noses won't get
in the way.

What do you do next? It depends. If it's just a
little kiss, a peck on the lips, move away but
(this is very important) don't move away all of
a sudden, as if you were disgusted by his kiss!
Just move away slowly, maybe while still holding hands, and looking in his eyes.

On the other hand, if you're French kissing, read on ...
French kissing
(or Frenching)

French kisses are kisses in which you also use your tongues. (That's why you part your lips slightly.)
So, after you've started kissing, the next step
is that either he will slip his tongue into your
mouth or you'll slip yours into his. Don't let your
tongue go limp but move it around his, or playfully
push his tongue out with yours, then let him
push your tongue back into your mouth, and so on.

Repeat this until you get tired of it (which you never will!) or until your annoying little brother starts taping you with the camcorder and threatening to tell your parents.
See www.how-to-beat-up-your-little-brother.com for details!

Kissing with glasses or braces
If either of you wears glasses, just take them off
before kissing.

If either has braces, the important thing not
to press too hard agains this lips. Otherwise the
braces will dig themselves into the inside of
his mouth. Ouch!

If you both have braces, don't worry! During
normal kissing your braces won't touch, so they
can't get tangled up with each other!

Kissing do's and dont's

A sure way to ruin a perfect kiss is with bad
breath. Carry around some mints or gum, and
have one a few moments before you kiss. Offer
him one too. Avoid spicy foods, garlic and
onions just before. Or at least make sure
you're both eating spicy food, so neither will
notice.
     
Non-smokers hate kissing a smoker! It's
as gross as kissing an ashtray!
You might be nervous, but don't giggle during or
after you kiss. The other person won't understand
it's nervous laughter. He'll think that you were
laughing at him!

Kissing and health
Can you "catch something" by kissing?
Yes you can -- anything from just a cold to
a pretty serious sexually transmitted
disease. Also, since the AIDS virus has been
found in the saliva of people with AIDS, it
could be transmitted by kissing someone who
has the disease, especially if you have any
cuts in your mouth.

There's no such thing as 100% safety. But
if someone has a cold or the flu, wait until
it's over. If you see he's got sores on his
mouth or lips, stay away! Also, if you have
cuts in your mouth, or he does this increses
your chance of passing on infection.

I don't want to make you paranoid, but just
to tell you there's no such thing as "safe kissing"
so keep that in mind.

Kissing and s-e-x
Kissing can be a lot of fun. Don't think that just
because you kiss a guy you have to do anything
more.

On the other hand, once you're kissing
passionatley, you might both feel like going further. The best way I know to avoid that is to kiss
him in a semi-public place. If you kiss him in
a movie theater or on your front porch, you know
it's not going to lead to sex right there!

On the other hand, if you're sitting on your bed when your parents aren't home, there's not really anything to stop you, so it's something you might want to avoid.

I'm not trying to tell you how to run your life, just
telling you what's worked for me.

posted February 12, 2004 10:04 PM            

quote:

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Also, since the AIDS virus has been
found in the saliva of people with AIDS, it
could be transmitted by kissing someone who
has the disease, especially if you have any
cuts in your mouth.

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posted February 13, 2004 01:07 PM            

To be perfectly blunt, semen escapes from the penis before orgasm. This is why the 'pulling out' method of birth control doesn't work.

Those who teach AIDS prevention urge that blowjobs be done with the penis in a condom.
I believe the risks of contracting AIDS this way are relatively low, but there are risks none the less.

Additionally, there are many other STDs that can be passed on through an unprotected blow job.

posted February 13, 2004 01:16 PM            

You took the words right out of my mouth. It is even more hazardous if you have any cuts in your mouth. That happens alot since various types of food causes oral abrasions along with vigorous brushing and the occasion biting your lip / inside of your mouth.

So, if you are making out with someone that has HIV and you have a cut in your lip / mouth, you are putting yourself at risk. This also include others diseases such as herpes. BE CAREFUL.

For the record..I am an excellent kisser hee hee

posted February 13, 2004 01:27 PM            

I also have a specially patented "bring them to your knees kiss". But if I told you, then it wouldn't be special. LOL.....I do have to be careful with it though, because in the past, when I would get kind of tipsy, I would break it out on a dude I would just thing was cute. Next thing you know, I'd get flowers and a note saying something like "I knew you and I had a special connection because you cannot kiss someone like you did without really wanting to be with them". I would think "Damn Pidaua....use the kiss for GOOD not EVIL" LOL (Please keep in mind I am being a little tongue in cheek...hee hee)

But, my kind of kissing may be terrible to someone that has little lips and a quick tongue. I really hate that "darting tongue" manuever. Bleh!!!! or the 'Round robin', where is just goes round and round and round..how boring.

posted February 13, 2004 01:46 PM            

Well, it is hard to describe, but I have learned that men LOVE when you look them in the eyes at first.

It's like this:

You smile, kind of flirt...lick your lips just a bit while looking him right in the eyes. An important note: even if you are taller than him, lean your head a bit, so that it appears you are kind of looking UP at him. Men love that look.

Then, keep kind of playing about, getting closer, but being a bit coy...then you sort of bite your lower lip (that tells him.."hey, I think she wants me..alot".

Then you get closer to his face, he pulls you to him and your lips touch..pull back just bit...look him deep in his eyes...take a deep breath (kind of like saying "Oh....I am a bit demure...but I really want to just swallow you whole..think Southern Belle meets LA dom). hee hee

Then he pulls you too him, you let his tongue in your mouth, you match his kiss, and you press your body against his (very important that one, because that lets him feel you..and that you want him), then your hands should move up his back....pulling him closer.

Now, this is the clencher...

You pull back just a bit...again...look him in the eyes again and this time YOU take the lead, kiss him back. Let your tongue explore his mouth, your tongue teases his....you nibble a bit on his tongue..bottom lip..then move down to his neck - no hickies, but you do just like of linger.. a little nibble..then back to his lips...smile tell him you find him sexy and you just can't help yourself

Also, when you are looking up at him...take this deep breath..kind of haltingly....like...oh baby I really need to catch my breath..hee hee

posted February 13, 2004 01:52 PM            

I have had some guys really try to push too hard too fast..like trying to kiss me too rough. My hand goes up rather fast to push them away. The thing that will kill it for me is when a guy can't kiss. I'm gone. Also, some of those most yummy kisses were given at parties or at a club to guys I had known for a long while and I was friends with. They knew the chance of getting me into bed was zero, but the kiss was worth it.

posted February 13, 2004 02:03 PM            

And sometimes your hand just kind of falls...right down their front....where the zipper is and the packaged goods. I am so bad. Is Venus in Aries? LOL....but of course - no wonder I am soooooooo...ummmmm. well...naughty.

posted February 13, 2004 02:16 PM            

Thanks for sharing Your Technique!

I too like to nibble, gently bite, suck the tongue a bit...

whew

Is it getting hot in here?

posted February 13, 2004 02:20 PM            

Venus in Aries always brings some interesting things into my life. I met Mr.Leo during this transit and right now it's sending a pleasant ray to my Sun, Moon, Venus and Ascendant.

So, how does Venus in Aries work in your life. Do you find that if you mate is not physical or passionate that it really stifles things for you? I find that to be the case with my Venus in Sag.

posted February 13, 2004 02:25 PM            

Do you find that your Sag kind of plays when he kisses too? I have kissed a few...well, maybe like 10, Sag dudes and I do find that they are playful when kissing as well. It goes from being this kind of tender kiss, to playful to seductive and back again. Maybe that is true with most fire signs. I found that the Virgo men I have kissed are more serious about it than other signs.

Now, I do remember this one AMAZING Aquarius I met on the road in Texas. WOW...I HAD to kiss him. It was just out of this world.