posted February 14, 2004 11:22 AM              

This has been another lonely valentines day for me... and id really like to know when will i celebrate valentines with someone special for a change... if anyone can let me know something regarding me finding love id really appreciate it

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December 25th 1984... 2:00 am, New Delhi, India

posted February 14, 2004 08:05 PM              

.gloria

posted February 14, 2004 09:40 PM              

You see, I'm 19, and I've never ever been out with a woman... i dunno i guess id always find all women around too good to go out with me... i have a major major crush on a leo girl, she is like so totally like a greek goddess {like aphrodite or something and im like that ugly god hepheastion or vulcan who lives in the volcano} and to make matters more hard, she has a libra boyfriend, {now how do you expect me to compete with a libran with all their venusian charm and dimples???}

So anyway i just wanted to know that when love can enter my among my stars and if it does, how can i find her, what sign could she be... etc etc...{although its kinda hard to get over a greek goddess}

Any one with answers?????????????????

posted February 15, 2004 01:12 AM              

You are 19, so as an adult, have you things you always wanted to do, or gone places you always wanted to go?

.gloria

posted February 15, 2004 09:38 AM              

Find someone sexy, smart, and deep. there is more to life than the cookie, it's the filling that counts. Libras are not all dimples, they can have nasty tempers too, as a Cap you are even tempered and good in a crisis. I am sure a woman will appreciate you, but you have to wait, and like Smokey said:

"You better shop around
Be a man my son, understand my son, wait until you find a girl who is in love with you.
Don't be sold on the very first one,
Pretty girls are a dime a dozen,
You better find one that's got good loving,
My mama told me, you better SHOP around"

posted February 15, 2004 10:07 AM              

the 20th valentine's day of my life passed away without me having a soul mate. i'm adouble sag with a virgo ascendant. and just an hour back i lost the chance to ask a beautiful young girl a lift at the atm. that's life. and it sucks! nice to know you creative_charismatic_capr
bye

Neerav

posted February 15, 2004 10:12 AM              

I have not found anything concrete in Indian Astrology, ive tried making my chart in a site called www.astrospeak.com and it said that im a sagi sun with a capricorn moon... which is so wrong coz im a capricorn sun with an aquarius moon.

Secondly, about the moon telling me about my ideal woman concept, I dont know if aquarius women who are such exotic gypsies at heart would go for a wall flower like me.

I am just looking for an answer that could be hidden somewhere in my chart... i would get one made and all from various sites, but you need $$ and i dont have a credit card to make the purchases online and all... i dont want a very detailed report about the chart... just what it says about love in my life and all.

posted February 15, 2004 04:24 PM              

I think a Sag girl would be wonderful for you. But there's many different kinds of Sag's, so don't give up.

Two other possibilities as well, depending on the person of course, is Scorpio or Pisces.

That's my gut feeling looking at your planets.

.gloria

posted February 15, 2004 07:54 PM              

Take Care,
Try a Capricorn girl, if you have an Aqua moon,

posted February 15, 2004 09:21 PM              

I don't find that to be true, I have found love with a Taurus before and in fact I was never happier, or unhappier when we split up. NOTHING is perfect, not even God is perfect if he/she was then we wouldn't have winter. God knows that everything is never ending, and constantly changing. That's why we have souls. Your job as a Capricorn on this earth is to transcend the body and move towards understand the human heart and mind.

Right now you are attempting to understand the human heart without understanding the body, you must choose your partner, your partner will not choose you at this time. At the start is when you do the most work, at the bottom of the mountain the first step is the hardest but it was meant to be that way. You have to activate the man accepting woman reaction. You have to go out and seek your teacher and mentor.

Find the woman who you like being with who you most want to be LIKE, not just one who wants you. Do not take the easy route, later it will get easier. Find this woman and ask her out, if she asks you it won't work for you Cappy, you are meant to transcend and so you have to be the assertive one in the relationship and accept the woman.

Once you find your teacher, and seek her out, she will appear, because when the student is ready, the teacher APPEARS out of nowhere. Your job is to accept her body flaws and all, as long as you love her 90%, you have found what you need RIGHT NOW. Nothing is forever, you must climb that mountain one step, one plateau at a time.

Then, and only then will you find yourself worthy of a Goddess because you will know exactly how to love one.The only way to find yourself worthy is to be completely honest with yourself everyday, and honest with your own feelings. Do not hide what you are really thinking ever, or what you really want, when you DO That you are being dishonest and denying your ultimate goal. You are pushing it farther away and have to start all over again at the bottom.

Always accept what you can't change, and look at what you can, and attack that obstacle. You are the mountain goat, always nimble and always on the lookout for a way to HONESTLY ascend that mountain so you don't fall back, but do not be afraid, be motivated and that means keep MOVING no matter what.

You will need a guide on this journey and you must accept an equal, not a goddess at start or one who is UNDER you, but a real woman who can teach you the mysteries of love and the joys in the human heart and about sex. Then you will see what it's like to break a heart and mend one and you will ponder the incredible responsibility that comes with holding someone's heart in your hand, ultimately a human life.

Before you can tackle a LEO you must be very mature or else you will end up breaking your own heart and will become less motivated or break hers by being a romantic.

I knew a romantic boy once who wanted to die he was so much in love with a girl. Then next week, we were looking at the stars and he confessed he felt awful. I said why? And he said because I'm in love with another girl, how could I do that!!!!!!

I said you are romantic, and now you know what you are, you have to accept it and find a woman who is a romantic too, not just one who can overlook it. It's not a fault, it's part of you.

When you find your teacher, she will be part of you, so since you are a romantic, you will have to attract one, that's natural. DO NOT DENY IT or it will end tragically for you. Do not deny your nature. If you try to go on looks and dimples you will be dissapointed because the woman you attract will not interest you for long and then you will feel guilty or used. You must GIVE what you want to GET. If it's too much work then she's not for you, if you don't want it maybe it's for someone else? Do what's right for you.

In order to find that, WHO YOU ARE, you have to be brutally honest everyday with what you really want, desire, sexually in a woman.

Everyday,

posted February 16, 2004 07:03 AM              

I mean i get it and all, just a lil more clear would be good.

and these neptune transits of mine as you mentioned... when will they occur... i just wanna know when my stars have indicated when i could meet "the one" or someone close so that i dont let go of them

posted February 16, 2004 05:14 PM              

Bug off!

Natasha took the time to write to you from her heart. You came here to ask for advice, and it's free advice at that.

Go pay someone $110 an hour to tell you the truth you cannot face.

posted February 16, 2004 10:15 PM              

Creative Capricorn, I think that your mate could very well be a sensitive Scorpio or Pisces, if that's what you are looking for then go with your instincts. For all of us, I was trying to say, it's a tough journey because we have to feel our way, taking each step without knowing what the future will hold. As we get bolder we become more sure of ourselves. It's normal to feel conflicted now. Do not try to reinvent the wheel by yourself, you have support, and friends. Reach out, continously.

Does that help?

Scorpio and Capricorn have always traditionally been good together, as they are both deep and sensitive signs. Pisces might work, with a strong 8th house to guide her. If you feel a Scorpio is in your future, then talk to her. Both Scorpio and Capricorn have similar issues, about sex, guilt, family and socializing. Honestly I feel the best relationships I have seen/long lasting, were Cap man/Scorpio woman.