posted February 20, 2004 12:21 PM
lanny,
Thanks for the offer, and I may take you up on it later, but for now, I was really hoping for some personal insights from the Knowflakes here.
Usually, the computer printouts of a chart don't really tie any of these aspects into a coherent pattern with each other, so much as they just highlight each aspect without any explanation as to how that aspect effects this aspect, or how it effects that aspect, etc...
I am trying to really figure out how his parents and lovers might be able to effect his balance between "going overboard" on things and conversely also, "holding back" on things at the same time.
I mean, I guess we could possibly assume that he has issues with his parents that effect his ability to find peace between "reaching out" and "holding back?"
I think it could suggest a control issue he has between these two states that may have been set up in his childhood by his parents not balancing out the Jupiter "giving" and the Saturn "holding" well enough?
Or would I be all wrong on that?
And I guess that because of that inability on his parent's part to be more balanced in the "giving" and "disciplining" that way, he now has issues with his lovers about "giving out" to them and "holding back" from them too?
Or is all that all on the wrong track for me to speculate about for him?
Oh well, if anyone wants to please try to post in and speculate about any of how it all ties in together, it's all ok with me if you try to, lol.
Thanks so much anyway though!