posted March 14, 2004 01:38 PM              

I compared charts at astro.com but couldnt find much... so i was wondering if anyone could tell me whats wrong here... is he really toxic...or am i the toxic one

His Data:
17th October 1983
6:25 pm
New Delhi, India http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=achart_z3nfile5UYQns-u1075074436.66716.22000.gif&res=100&va=

My Data:
25th December 1984
2:00 am
New Delhi, India http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=achart_z3nfile5UYQns-u1075074436.66677.21797.gif&res=100&va=
Beyond that... he seems to be having a whole tonn of problems with his family (cancer mom, scorpio dad)... and he's like flunking his way through college.

I cant bear to see him in such pain and i do my best to help wherever i can. He thanks me when i come through, but when i cant come through, he abuses me and degrades me,,, shouting and humiliating me even if we are in front of others.

Sometimes i feel as if i should break my friendship with him. But then when i see him go through all the hardships, i cant help but be supportive of him. I mean i like so helped him through major crises, loaned him money when he needed it most, ... but when i am not able to do anything for him he leaves me feeling like im nothing for him

posted March 14, 2004 02:14 PM              

Otherwise, you feel comfortable around each other. Perhaps he feels OVERLY familiar with you, therefore feels comfortable berating you.

You need to stop taking each other for granted.

But it could end in a dead heat, in other words, no one will come out a winner of the duel of the Saturns in Scorpio, and you both might need to just shake on it and walk away...

.gloria