posted June 01, 2004 05:32 PM              

So which signs or aspects prefer YOU go to THEM?

posted June 01, 2004 06:00 PM            

Taurus - yes and no. They don't like rejection, so they will play it safe and drop hints. If they are very interested and have made up their mind about you - well, then you WILL be pursued..lol....(I have learned that hee hee).

Sag - maybe if you're playing a game of touch football or another type of sport, but we all get too spooked, especially the dudes. Then again, if you're hot, they'll gladly play along.

posted June 02, 2004 06:27 AM              

Libra men do not like brazen flirting.

If you want make the first move, go for it. I found I like the relationship much better if I'm straightforward at the start, and communication is better too. Less non verbal cues needed.

Cancers, Pisces, Scorpios, pretty much all the signs like to be contacted except maybe Capricorn, Sag and Leo. Leos like to feel they are making the first contact, but you can flirt to open things up pretty brazenly.

I like a brazen flirt!

posted June 02, 2004 08:53 AM              

I'm also thinking not so much in terms of "the first move", but in maintaining too.

If someone needs space, I usually give them more than than they bargain for and let them come to me. If it's meant to be...

posted June 02, 2004 12:56 PM            

With my ex-Leo - we spent time bantering, flirting and making little innuendo about it. But when the time came to make the move - the decision was ALL his. He just pulled me close, looked into my eyes and kissed me.

The other Leo I went out with did the same. We were just dancing - two stepping - when he leaned in and gave me a full on Leonine smooch. I was pretty startled - but I liked it.

The Pisces guy - well, he was not as determined, but we danced around the issue for months. Both being attracted to each other, but playing this weirdo kind of game.

Now, with Mr. Taurus...well, I was tricked into making the first move. That charmer kissed me a few times on my cheek. You know, those soft kisses close to where your jaw meets the ear. I was melting. Then he went to do it again, but I thought he was going to kiss me - so I turned my face and my lips met his. He smiled after and said 'And for the record, YOU made the first move'. LOL..I had been duped. He still teases me about that.

posted June 02, 2004 02:40 PM              

Yeah, you're right, it's probably a Venus thing. I have Venus in Virgo, but also have one of those aspects you mentioned which makes me more aggressive or responsive to it. I've got the Mars Sextile Uranus. What I know of that aspect is it makes one impatient, into hi-tech stuff, and fights with confusion.

So I'm trying to piece this together.

If someone else has a similar "passive" Venus, but no aggressive aspects, would that make me the one who makes the moves?

I'm just not used to that. I'm also not one to play by "the rules" and all that crap to the letter. I'll call once in a while, but keep it light. I'm NOT like, "what are you thinking"? every other day.

Pidua -

I'm meant AFTER the first encounter. Like AFTER the person has let you know they really like you. I'm not into a guy getting into my face and being really sloppy about introducing himself. I like directness, but also some mystery. What you said about Taurus is true.

posted June 02, 2004 02:43 PM              

So, in your own opinion, how do you personally think that a Venus in Cappie would like to be approached at first and how would they like to be pursued then after?

My same question also goes to Venus in Aqua too....

how do they like to be approached at first and how do they also like to be pursued then after?

If anybody else here wants to take a shot at replying to these two questions for me, then I would surely be interested in hearing all of your replies too.

Thanks for the assistance here!

posted June 02, 2004 05:45 PM            

Actually Mars and Uranus compliment each other without being offensive (a little kink)Mars shows the sex drive. With a sextile, things run pretty smoothly.

posted June 02, 2004 08:29 PM            

So...for Venus in Capricorn:
He imagines you to be like the Rock of Gibraltar - solid, reliable, and with a bit of interesting history. If you have family connections or have inherited vats of money or even just good breeding, he'll be totall immersed in you....He'll fall for you if you're serious about life, love, and work. He feels comfortable with cool conversations, and controlled affection, particularly in public. If he has Venus in Capricorn, he sees you as Mature and wise enough to never argue with him and always support him. In front of his collegues, or if he's out socializing to make contacts, you have to be squeaky clean and never flirt with another man. You are the flagship of his reputation, so you have little choice but to behave like one, as well as being the perfect wife, lover, PA, and diplomat. Then he'll give you all the attention, love, and smouldering passion that lurks beneath that practical composed smile. If you think you can be hte chic, confident, working wife of his dreams, you'll find him the most committed and perennial of men. He might think you're too fanatical about your work, too unemotional and uncaring, or too disciplined and willful, but that's when he's denying certain bytes in himselfand projecting them onto you. He's not easy to get close to, unless he has the Moon in a more sensitive sign like Pisces, Cancer, or Scorpio, and he's more likely to fall for your stylish sophisticated aura if you have planets in Capricorn, too. Then you can be sure of being bonded and never betrayed for life.

posted June 02, 2004 09:10 PM              

THANKS SO MUCH for that info there!

If you ever get half a chance to post in this thread again, I'd also love to hear what it says about what happens when a man has Venus in Aqua, as well as what it is like when he has the Moon in Leo too!

THANKS SO MUCH AGAIN!

Playful

posted June 02, 2004 09:42 PM              

Wasn't sure who's Venus you were referring to, so, my only Venus aspects are Sextile Neptune, and Conj Pluto.

posted June 03, 2004 12:17 AM            

Venus sextile Neptune is sensuous

posted June 03, 2004 01:32 PM              

As for the guy with Venus Square Jupiter - the 3 houses the 2 planets rule are 5th, 10th and Asc. (Taurus, Libra & Sag respectively).

As for the Houses the planets are in - Venus is in the 9th, Jupiter is in the 7th.

Why? ? ?

Thank you.

posted June 03, 2004 07:27 PM            

He imagines you to be the most independent, unusual woman, one who acts differently from everyone else. What he fees comfortable with is when you're frank, free, uncommitted and liberated enough to have one of those 'open' relationships. Of course it's best if he gets most of the freedom. But he admires and values you if you have your own space too. He sees you as slightly crazy, always unpredictable, and willing to go to any lengths to be a little bit unconventional. He wants a woman who won't ie him down, but also one who'll always be there as a friend when he needs one...The less emotional you are, the longer you'll keep him fascinatd. He wants to find out everything about you, so keep a few bits secret, and always appear to be detached, progressie, and willing to rationalize everything he does...Live your life and never try to live his for him. He can accuse you of being too principled and judgemental, but that's often a cover up for his own assumptions. However much he sees you as free, easy, and unconventional, though, he needs that liberty to be himself. If you have planets in Aquarius you'll probably find it easy. If you have planets in less experimental signs, like Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn, or Cancer, you'll find it difficult to live up to his rather wild, erratic sense of what a relationship is. In a way, he's also very idealistic about any relationship and that's why he finds it difficult to live within assumptions about one-to-one partnerships. but if you are original, exciting, and inspiring, you might find he's around a lot longer than you thought. That kind of freedom, does have it's bonuses, for both of you.