posted June 04, 2004 01:55 PM            

Hmmm, if you love him, you`d best be prepared to love his Mother, heck the whole darn family w/that combo

Moody and loyal are the two things that jump to my mind.

juniperb

posted June 05, 2004 01:39 PM              

But, knowing that he has a Cancer sun and Mercury...Cancer rarely pursues in a direct, straight up fashion. They tend to do this sort of a sideways approach, two steps forward, one step sideways, two steps sideways, one step forward...They are terrified of the idea of rejection, so this is why they don't show their hand too easily. If he wants you, he'll keep coming around, acting all innocent like, but very sweet to you. If you've touched him on an emotional level, he won't be able to let go of you very easily. This can be a wonderful thing, or it can be a burden - depending on how you feel about him.

If you DO manage to take it to the next level, you will find him to be a very sensual, most gentle, attentive lover. He's the kind of man who will cook you dinner, run you a bath, then sweep you away into a dreamy world of physical pleasures. Never crass, or rough (unless you tell him to be)and always emotionally emmerced in the moment.

posted June 06, 2004 09:35 PM              

Cancer Sun and Mercury: he will be interested in psychology and understanding peoples motives deeply. He will love to talk about other people and know what they are up to (Venus in Gemini: curious). Venus in Gemini: he will be less possessive than a normal Cancer and will express love through communication and/or expect you to be a good communicator. Worst thing you can do is to be silent.
Moon in Aries: will add some kind of impulsiveness and action. The girl he "will meet" will have Gemini / Aries characteristics, i.e. should be active, entertaining, impulsive and passionate.

Cancer men can be very caring, but their way. Like mothers they have their own way to do things and think their way is the best and correct. They can also be as annoying as mothers sometimes. Cancer mood changes every 3rd day or so. One of their main aims in life is the pursuit of security and they won't feel at ease unless they have found it. If your Cancer is not in a stable situation he will probably stay on his own first.

My tip: if you can cope with mood changes and don't mind changing the way you do things, then go ahead.
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Hi Librasparkle,

posted June 07, 2004 07:52 AM              

Sun in Cancer, Moon in Aries
Cancer indicates that you are imaginative, receptive, fanciful, and possessive. Internally, you are somewhat reserved and shy. You are very easy-going and easily make friends with other people. You are extremely sensitive to psychological injury, and your reaction is to withdraw. You are susceptible to short-term pressure but tenacious on matters of principle. Sun in Cancer gives a tendency to floods of emotion. Outwardly, you appear slightly different from your real nature. People view you as an enthusiastic and impulsive, restless person. You are always changing your opinions and adopting new attitudes. In work and in love you always try to be the initiator or at least the leader. Although you are a passionate person and easily drawn into love affairs, virginity and family ties remain important concepts for you.

Mercury in Cancer
You often let your emotions tell you how to think, and you find it difficult to look at things objectively. But your mind is retentive, so that once you have learned something, you aren't likely to forget it. In fact you prefer ideas that you have known and understood a long time because they have become familiar. Certainly you can learn new things, but it isn't easy if they seem threatening or challenging.
It may be hard to drop your bad habits of thinking. Often you aren't aware of how or why you think as you do. Many of your beliefs and opinions come from your family, which is very important to you. As you get older, you may have some difficulty changing any wrong ideas that you learn now, so be sure that the beliefs you adopt really work for you and are of practical use in coping with the world.
When you are emotionally upset, your whole view of the world changes. At such times, don't take your outlook too seriously, because it will change again when you calm down.
Because you are naturally cautious in your views, you are not likely to get carried away by some new enthusiasm that later proves to have no real value. You are bored by fads and much more concerned with proven ideas.

Venus in Gemini
You like to meet many people and have as many friends as possible, for you love variety. The more people you know, the less bored you are, so you act quite friendly and open.
You express yourself in a lively way, and others will probably enjoy your humor and interesting wit. This position of Venus means that you will be interested in art and poetry when you are older. Although you like to know a lot of different people, you are not interested in getting close to them or involved in their lives. It may be hard for you to form a deep attachment to someone.

And how he is in love;
Mercury in Cancer
Although you have a fertile imagination, you share your fantasies only with your dearest and most trusted friends.
Don't be too cautious about sharing your feelings, however, because even a casual lover should know something of what is going on inside you.
Once you are truly involved with someone, however, your lover becomes everything to you. This may be the truest and most total form of devotion, but you should avoid being overprotective of your lover. As long as you both know that you are each other's firm refuge, that is enough for security and happiness.

Venus in Gemini
You enjoy delicacy and finesse in love, and you treasure the touch of an experienced and thoughtful lover. The softer and more ethereal the physical quality of love, the more you respond to it.
However, you also appreciate being told how much you are loved. Not everyone can express loving feelings so fluently, however, so do not feel rejected if your lover is not verbally affectionate.
Love at its best is a happy, sometimes complicated game of constantly changing stimuli, but underlying it is a much simpler emotional base of mutual friendship and companionship.

posted June 07, 2004 01:32 PM              

I'm a Cancer, born July 9th, 1963 at 12:45 P.M. That is all I know about my astro history. Maybe you could ask me some questions. I am not familiar about Houses, Positions etc.
Maybe a simple explanation about why all the other info is so important.

I have looked at books at the bookstore, and even "Astrology For Dummies" doesnt make sense to me. I just don't get it! What interests are supposed to suit me? Is'nt this a water sign?
What does that mean. I have always loved stareing at the moon.
Thank You All

posted June 08, 2004 02:06 AM              

The people are the planets (personalities)