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Topic: On Approaching One's Crush
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ariestiger unregistered
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posted June 18, 2004 02:38 PM
Recently I've come across a question that no-one else can answer - except a Scorpio I have an absolutely mad, passionate, intense crush on. It is a work-related question, NOT personal - but fairly specific, and I can't think of any better person to answer it than him. Or, rather, put it this way - I would like his opinion, because he has most likely been in the same situation. I am NOT using this question as an excuse to contact him; I am genuinely interested in the way people do things. So why am I hesitating to email him? I am 30 years old, for Chrissake! Why am I behaving like an agonized, lovestruck teenager? Because I don't want to spoil things, I don't want him to think I'm an idiot, I don't want him wondering, why are you asking ME this question? I don't want it to appear as if I'm chasing him - I'm not! There is NO WAY I am going to email him or pursue him obsessively, etc. But I do want him to think the best of me. I'm aware I can come across as rather "businesslike" - "okay", but slightly distant - don't ask, it's the Virgo rising protection mechanism...Relax, Ariestiger, relax... Okay, I've decided. I AM going to contact him. If I hadn't contacted him in the first place, my career would never have taken off like it has recently. It was a lucky event, and I owe that to him. I've made the decision, so I can blame no-one else if things are messed up as a result. But, on the other hand, what am I nervous about? I'm sure he'll be cool with it - and - if not - well, that's just the way of things!God, it feels so much better writing this down - it's straightened my thoughts out... LOL AriesTiger IP: Logged |
astro junkie unregistered
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posted June 18, 2004 02:44 PM
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pixelpixie Newflake Posts: 8 From: ON Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 18, 2004 03:00 PM
Go get him , tiger!!! RRRRRRRRRRROOOOOOWWWWWWWRRRRRRR....
I mean that in a strictly business sense, of course! Good pep talk! IP: Logged |
batgirl unregistered
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posted June 18, 2004 06:49 PM
ah ha haha hahhahahhahhahahahhhahhahahha hahhhahahaha hahahhaapproaching one's crush. that's a good one i believe i've forgotten what that word means. if not, i should, quickly. stupid guy got married while i had a crush on him IP: Logged |
Archer unregistered
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posted June 22, 2004 07:35 AM
u get this strange feeling of there being a hole in your soul! my first and ever crush was a scorpio. when i proposed her i was almost half apart! lolall the best tiger
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Oxychick unregistered
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posted June 22, 2004 07:40 AM
I think crushes make the day a little more exciting. My first (or second) big crush ever was a Scorpio (I was maybe 13 or 14, he was a whole grade older ). We were friends and talked for hours every day on the phone. But alas, he did not feel the same way. When I ran into him at age 16, he followed me around like a little schoolboy. Heehee I say what the hey-go for it (unless this is a work situation, which has significant damage potential). IP: Logged | |