posted June 27, 2004 04:39 AM
Hi LRC -I have a Moon in Cancer Opposite Jupiter & Saturn Conjunct in Capricorn, which is tough too, but which also has its strengths.
The Houses they're in matters too. But here's something on Sun Opp Mars:::
"Sun aspecting Mars: - Competition.
You are the kind of person who likes action, excitement and adventure. Being easily bored you tend to be rather provocative.
Women with this aspect may have had a young or immature father, and in the more extreme cases there may even have been physical violence in childhood. Alternatively the woman with this aspect will have had a "buddy" relationship to the father and become involved with masculine pursuits.
Later in life there will be a tendency to be attracted to a very masculine type of man. It may be important for the woman to really respect and look up to the man - but there is often an attraction to rather immature males, who never quite got out of adolescence. Subsequently the man may have great difficulty living up to masculine archetypes which basically exist within the woman's character, and this will lead to conflicts or battles of power, until the woman accepts a more personally assertive role.
Men with this aspect are very concerned about their masculinity and take pride in their ability to compete in the world. Sexual performance and the ability to take on a classic male role in relation to a woman are essential elements in the character. This Tarzan syndrome has its drawbacks. Problems can arise because of lack of sensitivity to the emotional needs of the woman. The man's over-identification with the male role can be perceived as faintly comical by the woman who would probably set greater store by demonstrations of tenderness and affection. The woman tends to be the prize which the man wins and later guards and protects."