posted July 06, 2004 11:15 AM              

Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to say anything bad about you, but you have an intense feel about you that reminds me more of scorpio.

posted July 06, 2004 11:26 AM              

Archer's ASC in Virgo, squaring his planets in Sag. could contribute to this. Just haveing ASC in Virgo could also make this so - the pessemistic part.

Archer, your birthchart and the energies within it are meant to be worked with. Don't just think youve been delt a bad hand and you are stuck with it. There are positives and negatives to everything. It is your choice on which way to go.

Astrology is meant to be looked at as something to help you become a better person. Don't just sit back and say this is me, I'm stuck with this. You can change, it can be hard, but it's up to you.

posted July 06, 2004 11:40 AM              

I can't tell you what exactly the "positive energies" are. But they are there. They always are, I know you can find them if you truly want to.

Until you get sick and tired of the negative, no one can help you. The biggest power always lies within.

posted July 06, 2004 09:05 PM            

Well, WAKE UP! Your ALIVE! Go out and feel it!

Heaps of LOVE (of course platonic),
Dean.

posted July 06, 2004 09:38 PM              

thanks for the huge response.

mars detriment thing and identity crisis sounds logical.

posted July 08, 2004 08:30 PM            

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The Narcissistic-Perfectionist-Aggressive Type (NPA)

This individual obviously has a concurrent combination of all three of the behavioral complexes: glory, perfection and power. We would expect the following qualities: narcissistic ambition, perfectionistic attention to detail and sense of duty, and the aggressive need for triumph through power. It is not difficult to surmise that this person would be outgoing, active, and sexually vigorous.

This individual, having aggressive qualities, "plays the game", splits his personality to a subdued state when dominated, and his love is based on his narcissistic qualities, on the dynamics of the dependency of subjugation, as well as on his sense of perfectionist duty.

This character would be the most susceptible to be incited to rages, since both his vanity based on narcissism and his pride based on omnipotence are subject to being wounded. This is the narcissistic-perfectionistic-aggressive super-rage, or NPA rage (see Plate 21). This often begins with some violation, reasonable or not, of the individual's sense of perfection, order or justice. That is, all rules should be followed exactly; everything should be exactly in its place. After a few milliseconds of seething, an explosive rage bursts forth, first having an aggressive-vindictive quality to it and being personally directed. Gradually it becomes directed to the horizon, and may finally end as a narcissistic rage of defense and withdrawal. After the rage subsides, this individual's sense of duty may require him to apologize. We believe, in fact, that this individual is the source of the explosive personality disorder of the psychiatric literature, and is described in the writings of Aristotle:

"Quick-tempered people get angry quickly and with the wrong person, or for the wrong reasons, or more than is right. But they soon get over being angry; indeed this is the best point about them. It is because they do not control their anger; they are so quick-tempered that they retort bluntly and then have done..."

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posted July 09, 2004 03:33 PM            

Here is more info: http://www.webspawner.com/users/narcissism/

posted July 10, 2004 12:04 AM            

I see that you are going through some major changes, many of us Saggies are at this time. The Transiting Pluto has also added power to your words as it has been in and out of your 3rd house of communications and has made a pass over your sun a few times. Mine will occur in the next few years.

You are probably already feeling these effect as you felt the total opposition of Saturn in Gemini just last year- we all did and it taught us so many lessons. Basically Archer, you experienced the Saturn Pluto opposition Sandwich- but you made it through.

You will only experience Pluto on your Sun once in your life time. We Saggies can expect lots of changes as Pluto clears away the old and replaces it with the new. Keep your chin up and look at the bright side, you are Jupiters Child and you will make it through this - but you will need to learn the lessons.

Love and Light

posted July 11, 2004 02:29 AM              

well yeah i'm optimistic about life deep down there. its just that the current aganonising times make me speak the -ve. btw, i have always believe in the bhagavad gita's saying...everything that happnes is for the good. so no remorse.