posted July 18, 2004 08:45 PM              

all very idealistic,
trust has to do with ideals,

posted July 18, 2004 09:18 PM              

Taurus' are trustworthy. All of them that I now are, Especially me!! I don't know if you can trust a Taurus of the bat because you have to get to know them first so you can see they are genuiely trustworrthy. As for Libras, you can tell of the bat that they are trustworthy. The have a freindly nature and are extremely nice.

posted July 20, 2004 10:36 AM            

I think that Leo's, along with Aries and Sagittarians, are not quite as trusting. The fire people feel that you must "prove" yourself worthy to be trusted.

Leo's often start off being very trustworthy and Aries very forthright and direct, Sagittarian's are often blindly optimistic and all three believe (when we are young) that others will be as open, direct and honest as they are.

That is another thing- don't confuse honesty with trusting. While I am honest, I do not always trust. I WAS that blind Sag that thought the best of everyone- until I started to get really taken advantage of financially, emotionally and spiritually (not physically- not with an 8th house Saturn).

So, after we get our hearts bruised a bit we start to 1) Make others prove their trustworthiness (Leo) 2) Are skeptical until they have earned our trust (Sag) or 3) Demand full open / directness and the trust is out the door (Aries).

posted July 20, 2004 06:21 PM              

yeah, I'm a very trusting person lol. I haven't been let down very much, so I guess even at the grand ole age of 29, I'm still a very trusting, open soul. There are worse things to be.

posted July 20, 2004 07:12 PM              

Well...

I'm probably one of the truest babe in the woods you'll ever meet. In the sense that I do not choose to be in the dark about anything, and am curious about everything - enjoy knowing how things work.

But I'm STILL TO THIS DAY incredibly trusting, except now I understand why more, and it's not a weakest anymore. But you're looking at a girl who when she was 19 years old, sold a $10,000 pure 18K gold Gucci necklace for $1,000 to a con artist.

If I were to take a jab, I'd say it's my Moon in Cancer, my Virgo influences, and my Neptune aspects.

posted July 21, 2004 01:30 AM              

Air signs: often very willing to trust, but quick to grow cynical if trust is broken; prone to act as if trust isn't a big deal to them, but trust is essential to mental rapport which is an air sign's essence. Air signs don't forgive easily because it's hard for them to forget

Fire signs: on the surface, trust isn't that big of deal; underneath, it's very important and broken trust can lead them to self-esteem issues and vengeful acts; because on the surface they don't act like trust means much to them, you often aren't aware of how much trust they have placed in you; also don't forgive easily, or at least not until they've spent their vengeful fire

Earth signs: natively very skeptical, and they see trust as something to be earned; place a lot of value of trust once it is given and sometimes will offer trust like a opening gambit if they want something from the other person; are profoundly hurt, but will forgive...in time. Prone to make the same mistakes trustwise and harbor deep resentments.

posted July 21, 2004 09:33 AM              

Water signs also do not always trust easily if they have been hurt too many times and if they have a significant planet in an air sign.

posted July 21, 2004 10:06 AM              

Sheaa

posted July 21, 2004 09:17 PM              

I do agree that Sagittarians are very trusting though, and Arians.

posted July 21, 2004 09:25 PM              

Is there a huge abyss between being trusting and being a sucker?

posted July 21, 2004 10:27 PM            

I think you would have to look at your 8th house to see about your issues with trusting over money. For me, I am very skeptical about lending money, or selling things. I never take things at face value in that regard and I have to research everything. (Saturn in the 8th and Pluto rising). I also think your Neptune aspects may be clouding your trust..but that doesn't mean you are a sucker at all. I think it is admirable and I wish I was more like that- but I am more of a cynic.

Gemini Nymph -

I think you are almost right about Fire Signs. Most of my fellow fire peeps, as well as I, don't exact revenge. Well not in the traditional sense. To me, Success, is the best form of revenge and I also believe what goes around comes around. Instead, I "cut" people from my life. If someone betrays me it is almost as if they had died, they are no longer a part of the picture. I can walk past them and look through them.

My Leo friend is the same way, as is my Sag Bro. I just don't expend the energy to get back at someone.

posted July 22, 2004 01:50 AM              

I have no Planets in my 8th - ruler of 8th is Jupiter - Jupiter is in Capricorn in the 9th House.

And just for research sake, Mr. L. only has his Leo in Saturn in the 8th

His Moon in Capricorn is in my 8th House.

My planets in HIS 8th are Venus, Uranus, Pluto & NN.

Our Composite is scary, in the 8th we have -
Sun
Moon
Mercury
and Saturn

posted July 22, 2004 08:09 AM              

Your Jupiterian side, the lucky side ought to come more alive under his infuence, he feels like a friend someone you can trust. You may also feel more energetic around him, and emotional.

What about your moon, where does it fall in his chart? I imagine there is a mercury connection? In that case he could inspire your writing.

I have found good relationships teach us how to trust correctly.