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jason from oz
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posted July 30, 2004 01:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
dec15 1973 melbourne australia 6.32 pm
basically i feel confused between my outrageous blunt comments and my disability to say and get what I want esp friends wise .I find seeking out people that excite me really hard .On one hand i feel like most people are boring with no enthusiasm but on the other hand i feel too careful and judgemental
I guess my good point is that im high energy individual(eccentric) creative and easy going? but find myself gritting my teeth, angry at not really getting what i want always making strenuous efforts for health friendship... for nothing
People always say how honest and blunt I am but i feel like underneath maybe im full of lies?? I mean I feel i only see most people to avoid boredom rather than desiring to see them!, but long for a world with no loneliness?? HELP

I just dont know exactly?

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Archer
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posted July 30, 2004 01:46 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha! i knew it would be a sagittarian. i don't know any sag out there who really understands him/her self. including myself!

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pixelpixie
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posted July 30, 2004 01:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Admittedly, that does seem to be a very Sagittarian trait.
Good for you, to be a multifaceted individual. Keep striving!
How goes the job search.. have you decided whether you will go elsewhere in your career?

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Archer
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posted July 30, 2004 02:04 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
its nice that u can atleast express ur self. many sag can't even do that. that includes me.

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astro junkie
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posted July 30, 2004 03:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jason -

Believe it or not, what you are experiencing, this sense of isolation and not truly connecting to anyone is an illusion, but the good news is, it's an illusion almost everyone else is experiencing too! Isn't that funny?

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Gemini Nymph
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posted July 30, 2004 11:50 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like I told Archer in another thread, Sagittarius is a sign that wants and needs socializing to be happy. Like Gemini, Sag's opposite on the Zodiac, Sag can and will socialize just to socialize, and you certainly are capable of doing this, since both your Sun (personality) and Mercury (communciation) are in Sag. Nothing wrong with that. But if you feel empty, then prehaps your personal needs aren't being meet on a deeper level. The challenge for Sags, which also like Gemini isn't inclined to be very introspective, is to get past the surface, where Sag prefers to dwell, and find out who and what you are.

Your moon is in Virgo, not the easiest placement for a moon. The moon rules your emotional make-up. A Virgo moon is highly sensitive, easily influenced (which means you can be easily encouraged as well as discouraged) and can be quite intuitive, but also is easily overwhlemed with strong emotions. Getting inside the inner workings of a Virgo moon person is like cracking a safe - Virgo, the timid, nit-picking, over-analyzing worry wort of the Zodiac, is prone to locking up emotions, especially messy and unpleasent ones. Virgo isn't secretive - it's just it strives to understand things on analytical level, and you can't do that with most emotions. So unfortunately Virgo is inclined to just flat-out repress those emotions. Not healthy - you must be careful to avoid doing this.

Your rising sign is Taurus, which can be helpful: Taurus is a fixed sign, which means it's more stable then either Sag or Virgo, which are both mutable signs. This gives you determination, patience and some staying power, and probably gives you a cautious, reserved quality to your "public face." Taurus's weaknesses, like Virgo, which are both earth signs, is it's suspectible to discouragement and depression when life doesn't go the way Taurus wants it to. Taurus, like Virgo, can get too rigid about things, and this many be conflicting with your Sag's need to be spontaneous and liberated. This is just going to take work to learn to live with.

Because of your highly sensitive Virgo moon, and the conflict between your Sag Sun and Taurus Rising sign, I would venture to suggest seeing a psychotherapist. Not that I think you're a sad sack (I've been to a few therapists myself), but because your given combination of these three foremost aspects in your chart suggests to me that exploring yourself and learning about your emotional needs might be best done (at least as a starting place) in a safe, secure environment and with the guidence of someone knowledgeable and who can help teach you living skills so you can better overcome some of this confusion and conflict you are experiencing. I particularly think this is a good idea for someone with a Virgo moon - Virgo usually is very aggreeable to psychotherapy, as it approaches emotional and personal issues in an analytical way (Virgo also values confidentiality, which a psychotherapist can provide and forums like this one unfortunately cannot). Understanding oneself is a journey, and we need to acquire right tools along the way. A psychotherapist's job is to help us with that. It's just a suggestion for you to kick over. Good luck.

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Yin
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posted July 30, 2004 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, Gemini Nymph, your insight is remarcably accurate (another Sag here) And I love reading your posts - you're so eloquent and easy to comprehend.
Thank you!

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sthenri
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posted July 30, 2004 12:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jason you like to take it easy, and so may attract people who bore you. It's normal, to try on relationships for a while. Do not get caught up in anything that bores you for very long, and keep relationships light,

Natasha
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aries-chick
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posted July 31, 2004 01:49 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Jason,

I can totally relate to what you're saying. I have an aries sun capricorn moon. I reckon maybe its the whole square thing that makes it harder to understand yourself and find the kind of friends you're looking for. Having you're moon in a squared sign brings two completely different energies together and it's a bit conflicting i think.

here's a link about sun square moon: http://groups.msn.com/Interpretations1/sunsquareopposmoon1.msnw

and this is what i found to be really accurate from it:

"The problem facing you is the movement from 'here' to 'there'. That abyss stares you in the face and will not go away, and apparently, try as you might, you still cannot cross over to the promised land. Being 'here' feels wrong, and you believe that you should be 'there', but how can it be achieved? The only way to gain your aims is through a radical transformation, so that the 'old you' remains on this side, and the 'new you' appears there to claim your ambition. This is the challenge confronting the hero at every stage of his quest, and each step forward on his path represents difficulties overcome on the journey towards the magnetic light that he senses and follows.

How may this be done? The honest answer has to be 'with difficulty' and with much hard work. Your promised land will not be gained without great persverance and stuggle, proving your capabilities, transcending any obstacles on the way and never accepting defeat."

Hope this helps

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jason from oz
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posted September 03, 2004 01:40 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks everyone for your replies very sweet!

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 03, 2004 01:58 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Jason,


I just saw this. Everyone's said a lot.. so I don't have much to say

Nice to meet you.

I love Saggies. I appreciate the bluntness

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Cassandra_Cameron
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posted September 03, 2004 04:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Dear Jason

Here's what i think sums you up.. lemme know if I'm accurate or not.

I see that you are fond of the splendours of nature, together with beauty in all its forms.
You arent mean; you delight in entertaining your friends, making an excellent host.
Do you love outdoor sports as well as animals of all kinds (especially dogs?)
You seem to love harmony around you and nothing distresses you more than to come in contact with those who go through life with a "chip on their shoulder"
Do you derive an income from two sources?
You are keenly attracted to the opposite sex, if not as lovers, they make good camrades, and very honorable and loyal in all relationships.
Perhaps you are inclinded to be "snobbish", attracting those of high social position or influence.
You probably are extremely fond of traveling and are likely to make life long friends while on your voyages.
You have big ideas and generally attract the necessary wealth to carry out your plans.
You have a great respect for intellectual people. Perhaps you might be drawn to people who are into literature, painting, music, and such things. Even if you do not accomplish any intellectual work yourself, you have considerable taste in such matters and fill your home with beautiful things.
Whether you try to make money or not, you are generally fortunate during your early years You might fain through marriage; by legacies and by gifts. However, it would be wise for you to make provisions for your advanced years.
You may have a tendency to indulge too much in good living, a weakness that you usually give into. Towards the end of life, you may get cancer and/or tumors in your intestine.

Wear the colors of mauve, violet, purple, all shades of blue, crimson, red , rose.

perhaps you should wear an amethyst, turquoise, garnet or other red stones (not a ruby)

If you feel this is accurate i can go further.

Love and peace

Cassandra

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