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LeYeL
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posted September 06, 2004 03:52 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My first post was in another forum and there was no takers

Although I have looked at the synastry interpretations with many books and readings on various pages of the net, I am hoping for a more intuitive approach from any members here that have the time or would care to help me.

Following is a partial repost.

I was hoping that I could get some insight on the synastry between 2 charts. I am a bit too close to the situation to view it clearly. This is very difficult to ask for help. I have some knowledge and am self taught. I am more confident with Tarot, but the same thing applies there I think.. reading for yourself is just not a smart thing to do.. too invested in what one wants to see LOL.

Anyway, thank you in advance and pleased to meet you all.

April 30/55
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LeylaLeFay
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posted September 07, 2004 06:34 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see why you had no takers.

You need to go to astro.com and run up a free wheel for both of these charts. Then post them both directly into the message. (Go to the lindaland Q and A to find out how.)

Otherwise you've made it too much trouble.

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astro junkie
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posted September 07, 2004 12:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LeYeL -

It's not really that at all - and it's OK because you are new, but if you try to be more specific with what you are trying to find out, the more specific the better because then some of us will remember oh! If I look at such-and-such, I might see the answer to her question.

But the more vague the question, the more work it may seem like because a whole reading may take 20 pages! It's more fun to be specific too, because then other people may see a situation they can really relate to.

.gloria

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LeYeL
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posted September 07, 2004 04:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you LeylaLeFay and Astro Junkie.

I have looked at the synastry and composite and used a ton of books and online interpretations.
Basically what I was looking for was an intuitive approach from another.

I just wrote a bunch of stuff I deleted LOL
In typing the deleted stuff I realized I can't change anything and trying to understand the relationship through astrological means is just me still hoping for something that just isn't going to happen.

This relationship took years to develop online. Finally this spring/summer we met and spent 8 days together. Prior to the meeting, I would say he was my best friend, with decided sexual overtones that came and went. The trust level I had with him was one of the deepest I have ever had in my life with another. I am a widow and I didn't have the same level of trust with my husband even. Trust is a huge issue with me, and something that I am still working on.

I know I idealized him in many ways, and that has since diminished totally. He is just a man I allowed myself to fall in love with over time who now apparently has changed his feelings towards me. Chalk it up to a *I really should have known better* experience and try and get on with my life.

I am bitter and very hurt by the way this all went and SO damn angry at myself. We still have contact but he found himself all in love/lust with an old college friend in record time aprox a month after our visit.

Now he saves his phone money to talk to her and his time is extremely limited with me. In reality I was eliminated and that is that. End of debasing story LOL.

I am very aware of my own shortcomings and see the pattern of being attracted to emotionally distant men. For that reason I avoided letting myself have feelings for him for many years. He has this quality 200% as well as all that yummy Mars, Uranus Plutonian stuff. The deeper the better.. the strong silent types with all that repressed messy emotional energy.

I have the birth data of the other, and she feeds into his chart just peachy. He is Cap rising and she is a Cap.. Emotionally Repressed met his Ice queen, with her Moon, Sun and Merc in his 1st house. I am sure they will be very happy together.

Now I am left to try and be a better person and let go of my rage and jealousy, and I am not doing so well with that all at this time. I feel like I have been involved in a hit and run and I have only myself to blame.

We do make our own reality and draw the people we need, to grow and experience more of our potential. I just figured I didn't need anymore of my faith shattered. I figured I was past that, obviously not.

At this time, I am very focused on selling my home and some property I have to downsize in preparation for my future. Old age is thundering towards me. I am taking care of me and have let my dreams of sharing my life with another go, without becoming bitter and more cynical. In a nutshell maybe that is what I needed from all this. I am alone, and have to rely on me and that is that. That I have come to terms with, the bitter and cynical is more problematic LOL

I am very raw and hope that any comments that might come from any of you regarding my little tale of woe and opening up here like this will take that into consideration.

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astro junkie
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posted September 07, 2004 05:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Like - I'm glad you got all that out - we tend to do stuff like that around here sometimes. One day your Sign is the best, the next day, your Sign is the worst. It's a bouncy ride.

But two things you might want to try for the fun of it, is either go rent the video or get a book on one of the old Disney classics. Like Snow White, or Sleeping Beauty.

Another thing you can do is realize there are more beautiful women out there than men to fit the bill. So. Just imagine that all this is in the "stage" or scenery and ask yourself what you should do to step outside of the stage.

I'm not into competition with other women unless it's friendly. I'm perfectly aware that I am rare, but it's just why it's so difficult. A lot of men need to be re-trained when they meet me.

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LeYeL
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posted September 07, 2004 05:54 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Astro Junkie I think your reply rocked. The Sleeping Beauty, Snow White movie suggestion made me chuckle because I have thought about this a lot. My cynical front is what I am most comfortable with but dealing with the my shadow nature, romance, being vulnerable and trusting is not a place where I am very versatile. So any prince charming I am attracted to will mirror this bigtime. He fit the bill bang on didn't he!

I don't compete with other women. I am more than worthy, I have real strengths and wisdom in many areas. The deal is he chooses to find what he is searching for in another. There is nothing I can do about that, except hopefully learn from my mistakes.

I do relate very much to the stage and scenery comment.

Thank you so much for responding, and reading all my purging.. writing about me is not something I ever do and it was very difficult and embarrassing. You are very kind and I appreciate that very much.

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astro junkie
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posted September 07, 2004 08:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good! I'm glad it made you feel silly too.


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LeylaLeFay
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posted September 08, 2004 12:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well darn.

From what I've seen the people on this board don't take the "psychic" approach to astrology. They try to make a science of it.

I'm probably one of the only people here who does "intuative" astrology readings and cards.

But I can't when someone pours out information. It's best to go in with a blank slate.

When you're doing psychic work, the less information the better. Other wise you lose your objectivity!

If you walk in to see a reader, and the reader starts playing 20 questions, you could be dealing with a fraud who's going to tailor their "intuative" impressions to the information you've already given them.

I know I would be suspicious. "If you're so darn psychic, you should know what I'm here to ask."

Not that I'm calling astro-junky a fraud of course. I'm just saying I can't work under a situation where I know the details.

When someone sits down at my table I tell them there are only three replys they can give me "Yes." "No." and "Keep Going" (If I've hit on a topic they're really interested in.)

I am constantly having to "shush" people. I'm a reader not a therapist.

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astro junkie
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posted September 08, 2004 12:44 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
... and your Web address is? ...

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LeYeL
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posted September 08, 2004 05:01 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LeylaLeFay,
No one really asked me questions.. I just unloaded and now I am really thinking maybe it was the wrong thing to do. I have read for many people *Tarot* and to shush a person is not my style. I don't know why, maybe because it is late and I am tired, I feel vaguely irritated by your reply. Everyone has their own style and I certainly would not presume to tell another what/how they should approach it all. If a person wants to talk I let them, and if they then think they have told me what I wanted to know, then that is their own thing. I have enough confidence in my abilities to not have to prove anything. But I do thank you for your views.

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LeylaLeFay
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posted September 08, 2004 08:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Astro- I do have a website, but it is nothing to do with readings. Did you mean my E-mail address?

Leyel- I was disappointed that I didn't get to give you a reading. It has nothing to do with "proving" anything. It's just easier for me.

But there are plenty of people who think we read facial expression and body language.

It's not like I shove a ball gag in their mouths or anything. I just explain that I don't want to be influenced by anything they've told me before hand.

There's plenty of time for talking after the reading. Usually by that time I'm curious for the details anyway.

Haven't you noticed it's a struggle to read for close friends? And when you're too close to the situation?

I assumed it was that way for everyone. But I might be wrong.

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