posted October 16, 2004 02:46 PM              

Don't worry, we won't throw tomatoes at you ...

But we may consider blood transplants if you have enough to go around ...

posted October 16, 2004 04:43 PM              

I know what you mean. Maybe this has to do with this feeling of wanting to understand everyone's motives, including my own. Normally, I would have gotten into trouble by now. The ONLY reason why I haven't is Mr. L's friendship. And he knows that part of me better than maybe anyone in the world, ever.

And obviously, no one here is opposed to going through learning experiences, but I think it's coming in unexpected packages, and that's why we're like ...

posted October 16, 2004 06:16 PM              

I had a good experience with an Aqua, and a Virgo, and a Scorpio, all males, women are quite controlling of me these days so I am looking for a buddy who isn't controlling, but not a slob, I know I am getting closer.

My sister Sag and her husband, a Scorpio, Libra Moon, Aqua Mars, Scorpio Venus, Sag rising are very, very happy with their second child, talking to him makes me believe in men again, since he loves me like a real sister, very supportive person.

posted October 16, 2004 07:19 PM              

"... You know the day destroys the night
Night divides the day
Tried to run
Tried to hide
Break on through to the other side
Break on through to the other side
Break on through to the other side, yeah

We chased our pleasures here
Dug our treasures there
But can you still recall
The time we cried
Break on through to the other side
Break on through to the other side

Yeah!
C’mon, yeah

Everybody loves my baby
Everybody loves my baby
She get
She get
She get
She get high

I found an island in your arms
Country in your eyes
Arms that chain us
Eyes that lie
Break on through to the other side
Break on through to the other side
Break on through, oww!
Oh, yeah!

Made the scene
Week to week
Day to day
Hour to hour
The gate is straight
Deep and wide
Break on through to the other side ..."

posted October 16, 2004 09:34 PM              

Seriously. Where IS everyone. NO ONE is having a good time in their life lately?

posted October 17, 2004 12:58 AM              

Me too!!

Pix -
I DO know what you mean more than you think. The only difference between me and you is, you took the vows. Either way, we all feel encaged somehow. If you are a 24/7 girl like me, I KNOW ...

Now - why are all of us so horny? How fast can you all get to a central location? I'll splurge on the room ...

posted October 17, 2004 11:41 AM              

So is my best pal who's visiting friends out of town and just emailed me to say she's having agrand time.

posted October 17, 2004 12:19 PM              

The oldtimers are the only ones with any sense of humor left ...

posted October 17, 2004 01:06 PM              

He's SUPER horny too and since he's a guy, you can tell.

What my husband has a hard time understanding is that IF you want me to WANT to have sex with you... You HAVE to give me attention that is NOT sexually related.

I get very tired of (and quite upset sometimes) him constantly trying to F me. Why can't he just hug me... kiss me without taking it THERE. I slept on the couch last night because of this. I woke up to him fondling me in my sleep. This is a huge violation to me. He KNOWS it upsets me... it's like he's molesting me.

So, generally, I'm happy in love... but then he goes and pulls THAT crap, and I can't stand the sight of him.

For THIS Sunday, I wish he would leave to go watch football... but unfortunatly, he's not. He's watching it here... so, he's confined to the bedroom TV.

posted October 18, 2004 06:54 AM              

Based on what Linda says (and as virgo-aries quotes), you can't truly love with restraint. it isnt easy to let go, it might even be scary, but what greater thing is there than to surrender yourself to the person you love? you shouldn't fear what you love, you have to let go of your caution and trust the other person.

if your other half senses that you are holding back, they will hold back too, because they sense you don't trust them and are afraid, and that makes them afraid.
i sensed this in my guy, and i thought it was just him, but i didn't realise it was me making him act that way in the first place, with my caution, and my holding back from him. in typical capricorn fashion, i had reached a rut, and i refused to progress any further. not any more.

therefore the other thing i've learned of late, is that every action has a reaction. you may dislike something your other half does concerning you in your relationship, but sometimes you should think of what you may be doing that could cause them to act that way.

perhaps libra, being the sign of marriage and unions, and with all the planets that have been visiting this sign recently, is teaching us many lessons about life and love, and we're all just learning them the hard way.

posted October 18, 2004 02:00 PM              

I see a potential new entreprenuer in you. Perhaps you can improve on some of the prototypes.

posted October 18, 2004 02:19 PM            

You crack me up....gotta love the smile it brings to my face...Me, a (Virgo prude) sex toys saleswoman? Are you sure I wouldn't have to give demos? LOL...really, they don't want to see how they work?...No? Darn!
You made my day, thanks dear Knowflake.

posted October 18, 2004 02:30 PM              

I am sure you would rack up those sales.
As for hot Libras, they are wonderful for the first time, but I would choose the Gemini moon for more sensitivity, and the Taurus moon for more hotness. The first time it's best to think of sex as an intimacy game, to see how close you can be. It doesn't have to work out, but you can try.

Tell one of them that you want to play a game, where he has to close his eyes and you get to touch him where you want-but he can say stop anytime. Promise to go for only five minutes and see how he likes it.

It's not sex, but it's fun and it builds trust,
A libra with a taurus moon? you are lucky.

posted October 19, 2004 07:14 PM            

Ok, so the Libra-Gemini, he's great to talk with, and his sense of humor and logic really make me think, in a good way, and I think he's more concious of when I'm nearby, but I can't tell cause he's so darn distractable and light-mannered. He's the kind I'd love to just hang out with, but I really wouldn't know how to phrase that without making it sounds like a blunt 'come-on', which it wouldn't be, at least not yet. He's someone I could imagine meeting up with to build a snowman, or go to an arcade. I can't tell if he notices me as a female in the appreicative, possible attraction sense or not.
Now, on the other hand, the Libra-Taurus has just this basic aura of sensuality, even if he is pretty laidback. I get the feeling that he generally avoids me, conversation-wise, and I don't know whether it's that he can't stand my semi-loud talkative impulsivity, doesn't have any opinion whatsoever, is uncomfortable around me cause he is either attracted to me, or realizes there's some attraction from me to him...He seems to talk to everyone else but me, I mean, briefly, but it's noticable. I did compliment him on his recent good haircut, but I kinda didn't use his name, just said it his direction, and had to repeat myself when he realized I was talking to him, then I felt the need to appologize for not saying his name before speaking. Eeek! The intent was good, but it was so awkward.

So anyhow, I get totally different vibes from both the Libran men, and as a progressed Libra sun, it makes me crazier. I'm not exactly comfortable enough in my own skin to try that very appealing game, Natasha...I only wish I was. I guess I have this paranoid fear of being labeled "easy" or "one with low standards" by flirting or being the aggressor.

posted October 20, 2004 02:47 PM              

Not if you initiate a conversation,
after all it's only a conversation today,
plus if you asking for attention, you are are asking, not giving.
The ones who are always quiet, always giving are the ones seen as easy-because they can be tested. Their desires are unclear.
If you make your desires and plans very clear, you are considered less easy, and more self assured.

But you don't have to act like you desire the guy, you only have to act like you enjoy his conversation.

A very simple nod of the head or other signal to him, says you are approachable, friendly and and open to conversation. He will approach you, but men are always looking for signals that are friendly.

If you say, I'm getting a drink of water,
do you want one?
That's friendly not a come-on!
But most men especially Libras will always look for a signal first, they are looking to pursue but always polite.

Taurus moon sensuality is legendary.
I am too imaginative,