posted October 21, 2004 09:01 PM              

Something prompted me to ask,

posted October 22, 2004 12:43 AM            

Yeah things are going well. Thank you for so much of your advice. It helps me understand where he is coming from and how to deal with someone that is so different from me.

His job is still harsh- too many drunk soldiers going off base, getting drunk and then starting fights on base. Since he is an MP, he and his colleagues deal with a ton of crap and violent people. But, he is handling it and now I know how to understand him a bit better. Today - Sushi and plum wine set the tone for him to talk about what happened.

posted October 22, 2004 07:24 AM              

Me? I am dealing with high drama mother, tired of having my life sucked away by her problems. I missed a friends birthday party this week, but I 'm not going through another week of this. I told her I will call the police if my car isn't back by Sat. morning, she doesn't believe I will do it.
My sister is playing mediator.

I don't think either recognize the seriousness of my request, I am not asking anymore. One issue with my mother is what a pig she is, literally. She doesn't take care of herself, and spends every ounce of energy trying to attract a man to take care of her problems. She just lives so..trashy? She's had her breast enlarged and she never wears underwear and announces this to every man she meets.

Other than that, the gemini showed me once again what a terrible friend he is, and I told him I didn't want to hear from him again for any reason.

Work is good, painting is good, more abstracts these days. There are better people to rely on, I feel I am tying up loose ends.

Thanks,

posted October 22, 2004 04:45 PM            

I am sorry to hear about your mother. It has to be hard to be pulled in that direction, when someone we care about doesn't take the time to take care of themselves.

She sounds like she is in serious need of attention and doesn't care what form it is. I think you are doing the right thing having your sister mediate and you sticking to your guns.

My mom and I went through a weird spell too, but I am thankful she has pulled out of it.

The Taurus and I...well, we will have some major bumps here and there.. he has Saturn and Venus in Cancer- Transiting Saturn just left his natal Saturn but will retrograde over it again.

Well, the Gemini- I hate to say it, but yeah, you do need to cut him out of your life. You have too much going for you to be treated the way you are by him.

I think as women we do sometimes take too much and in return we are taken for granted.

Please keep me updated.

You are in my thoughts