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posted October 26, 2004 05:46 PM            

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My sun is in Pisces and My moon in in Aqua and my Mercury in Aqua and my Venus is in Aqua so I have alot of Aquarius influence I have alot of ways like an Aquarius the Friendship thing Love that have to have that still have friends since 4th grade, have alot of humainitarian ways too if I keep going will be here all night. Though I have those influences I am a true dreamy emotinal sensitive intuituitive pisces, but what I am questioning is I can be very detatched like an Aqauarius from just about anyboy(including mom sometimes) But when I am in love I can't and I want to be. See I think alot of times we attract what we are. I always seem to attract and fall the hardest for Detatched guys. I mean I love my space to a degree don't need to do eveything with him,but they be more detatched then me. I mean true freedom loving guys. A clingy guy would just drive me crazy. Need a medium happy thing. Anybody know what ould be a good match for that problem not going to look for one just curious...

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posted October 26, 2004 07:27 PM            

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I am the same way in relationships and I have an Aqua moon as well. Being very Sagittarius (Sun, Ascendant, Mars and Jupiter in Sag)...I have independent tendencies to the max, so I understand where you are coming from. When I'm in a relationship - that person has to be all mine, no exceptions and no sharing. But I cannot tolerate clingy-ness either.

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posted October 26, 2004 08:39 PM              

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For whatever reason, clingy guys drive me bonkers too. Not sure why exactly, but maybe it has less to do with issues of "detachment", and more to do with needing to know my partner is strong.

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posted October 26, 2004 08:40 PM              

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UGGHHHhhh!! Same here.

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posted October 26, 2004 08:43 PM              

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I totally agree, AJ.

Clingy to me = needy. I want a man that doesn't NEED me, but WANTS me.

(which is just what I have)

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posted October 26, 2004 11:30 PM              

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Hear, hear... Clingy, needy tendencies set off all sorts of alarm bells in my very Aquarian brain and self... I literally feel like I'm suffocating beneath it all. Not a nice feeling. Aquarians and Aquarian influenced folk need their space, yes indeedy.

Mama Mia, it sounds like you are having an inner conflict with your brain and heart... my advice is to go with how you feel and don't fight it. Being so "detached" isn't always the greatest thing to be anyway.

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posted October 27, 2004 10:12 AM            

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Librasparkle I think that you have said it best, cause that is exactly how I feel.
Right now I am crying inside because I think things are over between me and my Aqua guy we are at a stand still. I just know that I am worth more then he is trying to give me. I know my worth and not gone except nothing less. At the same time he is very adiment about how he feels and what he wants too, but I know that we have a connection a deep one. So I was just trying to figure out for future references what sign would best fit me from my description above...

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