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Topic: What causes sexual conflict?
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sthenri
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posted October 28, 2004 08:11 PM
 
What causes sexual conflict,
you know saying yes and then saing no?
Which signs are more likely to intiate contact and then suddenly back offGood example
"He didn't know and was nearly past caring. Trembling hands reached
under her sweater. Her skin felt silky and warm. He reached upward,
cupping her ......s. Her passion drove him to reckless abandon. He lifted her off the
floor, his voice ragged with desire. "Bedroom," he muttered between
raspy breaths. "With kids around, we need privacy." The words cut through Katrina like a cold wash. What was she doing?
She hadn't meant for this to happen. How did it happen? "No!" Her head jerked backwards, hair flying. She pushed at his chest, battled free of his embrace. He instantly released her. "You promised not to touch me!" Okay, so why would someone be in this position if they didn't want to be touched? Is this scene a little too common for you too? Natasha
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Gemini Nymph
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posted October 28, 2004 08:39 PM
VIRGO and AQUARIUSlol. That above sounds like heavy-duty Virgo influence. Virgo is *intensely* curious about sex - that figures, as it is an earth sense and thus drawn to the sensual aspect of life. But it is often in conflict with Virgo's sense of self-control and need to protect its sense of dignity, which in the Virgo mind begins with the body. Because it is a mutable sign it lacks a certain degree of discipline and internal restrait that may make it impulsive at times, and resulting in Virgo suddenly reeling back in embarrassment or shock when it comes to the realization was what its doing. Because Virgo is easily influenced by whatever else is in the chart, how a Virgo person actually acts under this conflicting tendency differs wildly. That above sounds like someone who has other mutable, and therefore also impulsive, signs, and probably some fire (likely culprit: Sag). But Virgo reacts sharply and instinctually when it feels it's done something improper, that would result in a reaction much like that man's, which can be utterly confusing and seemingly contradictory to others. IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph
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posted October 28, 2004 08:53 PM
I should add to clarify, that Virgo's tendency to have desires or curiousity that conflicts with its sense of values or principles is typically Mercurial - Gemini is the same, but in an air sign way. For Virgo, this conflict when often be concerning the body and sensual matter (especially sex), and for Gemini more cerebral matters (which can also inclide sex, although it makes a Gem person more interested in talking about sex then actually having sex...which can lead to all kinds of trouble...as I know :P ). Mercurial signs are notorius, for lack of a better words, for hypocrisy. And I mean that in the simple, genuine sense of the words, which in Greek means "False Face": both Gem and Vir can put on a false face to the world about what they want you to think they're about, while things underneath might be very different. Most often, Mercurial types to do this to hide urges or desires that either they don't understand, or are afraid are too intense and can't be controlled save to hide them and reppress them. Try not to judge us Mercurial types too harshly for this - while not all are hypocritical, those that are mostly aren't at all malicious or intentionally deceptive; it's just that mecurial influence makes us very nervous, sensitive creatures and that can make it very hard for us to understand ourselves a lot of the time. IP: Logged |
virgotaurustaurus
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posted October 28, 2004 09:20 PM
that screams virgo to meeeee! i would know haha  IP: Logged |
libra78
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posted October 29, 2004 02:41 AM
I agree... virgo asc and saturn here
second threadin which I have said this in the past 2 mins...)IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted October 29, 2004 07:31 AM
So a Saturn conjunct Ascendant could be this way? Virgo Ascendant? I can be conflicted sometimes, I think that's my 8th house moon which feels like being demanding for no reason, maybe that's why I attract conflicted types? Could this be a Scorpio? I have met Scorpios, Pisces, Libras, Virgos, all had a hard time communicating. Natasha
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posted October 29, 2004 05:19 PM
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sassygrrrl
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posted October 29, 2004 05:31 PM
I would say Saturn aspecting one of the sexual planets (Venus, Mars, Pluto) and/or the Ascendant. Also Saturn in the 8th House or Saturn aspecting planets in the 8th...or aspecting the planet ruling the 8th. ...And maybe check the 5th House too as it rules over love affairs. IP: Logged |
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posted October 29, 2004 05:42 PM
man, i relate to this too !  i have sun, venus, pluto and Juno all Virgo in the 3rd house... does this contribute to anything? IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted October 29, 2004 06:11 PM
Moonshine, do you mean conflicted?
Venus in Virgo/5th house was my ex,I have Saturn in Taurus sextile Venus, and trine Pluto, but no hard aspects,
Personally if someone gets physical and then says don't touch me, I am hurt/puzzled. Natasha
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lioneye68
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posted October 29, 2004 11:00 PM
I've been known to pull this on guys...I've chalked it up to my Saturn trine Venus, moon in Aqua oppose oppose mars in Leo, and Saturn in the 5th. It's like I'm going with it, and loving it and falling deeper and deeper into extacy, then.... WHAMMO...the possible negative circumstances come dancing into my head, and I'm compelled to put the brakes on, much to my other, much more lusty side's chagrin. The voice of reason and hesitancy wins out more often than not, and I've never regretted it. I find you'll regret the things you HAVE done against your own better judgement, more than you regret the things you HAVEN'T done. But, with Saggie rising, and a stellium in Leo in the 8th, believe me, I've gotten myself into precarious situations far too many times. If I didn't have some built in brakes, geez...it's just good that I have them. IP: Logged | |
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