posted November 03, 2004 03:27 AM              

If he is, then it's HIS problem girlfriend ... Someone who values constant stability and predictability would certainly drive me crazy too. In fact, it would be the deal breaker because it shows his is not flexible.

He needs someone who's going to go with HIS program, as in, "get with the program".-

He's got incredible sex appeal, but the Mutability of his Sun will move him forward - CONTINUALLY.

posted November 03, 2004 08:50 AM              

You have Moon and Asc in Scorpio which is squared to Aquarius.

This pretty much mean that even though the attraction is there, you won't like them as much as another Gemini would.

You might find the same uneasiness with a Leo...

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I almost have the same feeling you do against a Leo. I am an Aries and they are suppose to get along very well with Leo. But because my Moon is in Taurus and my Asc is in Scorpio, both of which are squared to Leo, I really don't like them. Neither do I have all that affinity with Aquarius.

I hope this makes sense.

posted November 03, 2004 11:17 AM              

So when dealing with a control freak that rationalizes their control freakiness better than a politician can rationalize a budget deficit (a littel post-election humor there for ya), you have to look at would challenge their control most: in Aquas' cases, it's other fixed signs in significant placement. ANY other fixed sign moon (Taurus, Scorpio, Leo) isn't going to get along with Aquas terribly well, without a lot of support from other aspects. Also, any Mars in a fixed sign, including Aqua, will cause serious trouble (and I know this because my Mars is in Aqua). Watch out for Jupiter and Saturn placements too (yours aren't bad).

I tend to have trouble with Aqua sun myself, but get along better with Aqua moons, as the control streak is played out on a different level and is often muted or suppressed. But with my preponderence of mutable signs, I simply cannot allow myself to be subjected to some of the more controlling types that walk this planet. As I said before, I have a tendency to attack (oops, lol, I meant attract) Aquas who later stalk me when I decide I don't what to be romantically involved with them - to me that's the pinnacle of scary control issues.

Now that your other personal signs are in earth or water signs suggest why you feel particularly hurt by an Aqua's action - they proably operate on a more cerebral level and rationalize their action in a way that's far apart from how you recieve them and interpret them interiorly. In otherwords, you'r interiorly incompatible with an Aqua. Unless an Aqua has a lot of personal signs in either water or earth, they probably aen't going to understand that about you. So on the surface, they may think you on the same level, but really, you're not.

posted November 03, 2004 05:25 PM              

I know what you mean, but, let's ask what the Scorpio's DO think of Pisces, because for whatever reason, like my blind spot in Aries in the 12th - I don't see it.

But I would be careful to rationalize that as their motive, as we try not to generalize things too much. If you are having a bad day, that's understandable.

Look -

I'm be perfectly honest with you. I did not even CARE who the next Big P was all afternoon yesterday, up until about 3:30pm the day after. I virtually did not watch or hear any news. There are some things I do see younger people reaching a conclusion about too soon. One of them was this election. It was already decided long ago, don'tcha know? The Big P is a conglomeration of all the people who got him there, but only as strong as all the others he's able to truly inspire.