posted November 09, 2004 06:23 PM            

(Sorry guys, I'm not that great with charts!)

posted November 09, 2004 06:36 PM              

...I hope this helped!

posted November 10, 2004 06:19 PM              

(like you i have venus in aquarius, which is amplified by a venus-uranus trine, and dignified by a mutual reception between venus-uranus.)

your aspect kind of takes on more importance this way.

of the venus-uranus aspect it is said:
key phrases: unconventional relationship. free love. the valuing of freedom. honesty in feelings. unusual appearance. magnetic attraction. "First of all, people with Venus-Uranus squares or oppositions are often quite afraid of rejection, afraid of being hurt, and they act a little like venus in aquarius people - somewhat detached, aloof. They're very experimental when it comes to love, emotional things, sexual things."

and so having an aspect between these 2 planets, in addition to venus actually in the sign of aquarius, is likely to make you even more like this. i know i am.

posted November 11, 2004 01:25 AM              

Found this for you-- it's long but lots o info:

Venus square Uranus (Haydn Paul)

With square aspects, the tendency is for the individual to 'side' with one of the planets, and to partly reject and project the characteristics of the other planet onto other people. It is likely that the more dominating Uranian energy will condition you to the detriment of the Venus feeling nature.

This will be revealed in your insistence upon being emotionally free, and in your reluctance to commit yourself to any single relationship and share in any responsibility arising from that. Part of this wariness is derived from your awareness of a basically promiscuous attitude (whether practised or not), and that often compulsive fascination that can sweep you away on the tids of sudden intense affairs. It is an innate curiosity that tempts you towards those individuals who appear to offer a mystery, something unusual in their life; and you feel the desire to discover and explore their secrets. This does not always lead you into favourable situations, and often can create extra problems in your life; yet you cannot resist the lure of excitement. Once you have uncovered that particular secret, your interest may quickly decline, and you consider yourself to be open to the next fascination that comes along.

You will be socially active, searching for novelty, new people, and new interests, and will be especially attracted towards unconventional or artistically orientated groups. You have a natural reaction against convention and social traditions, often dismissing their validity in a quite flippant manner. You tend to see a mainstream, socially acceptable lifestyle as one to be avoided at all costs, and can have a low opinion of those who live that way. To you, it is a denial of individuality to submit to the social consensus, and you consider it important to promote the image of being different. Sometimes you can rebel for the sake of rebellion, to support a less mature image towards which you aspire. You rarely analyse your anti-tradition stance in clear intellectual terms, or express it in the form of a reasoned reaction against certain aspects of society; it is more of an instinctual reaction.

You find it hard to maintain intimate relationships, even when interested in doing so, because part of you is running away from accepting and giving love. Love makes you feel uneasy; you fear that it will inhibit your freedom; and your emotions tend to be repressed to some degree. In extreme cases, the emotions can be almost rigid with inhibition, with a fear of acknowledging and releasing them. Often you experience your affairs or relationships as superficially as possible, enabling you to fly like a butterfly to the next temporary stopping-place. Perseverance is not your strongest asset; and when situations arise requiring self-discipline in order to achieve personal aims, or to maintain a relationship through a difficult phase, you often display that lack of commitment, preferring the excitement of the unknown. You are emotionally fickle, and with that feeling of restless irritation on that level, you may attempt to ignore its presence as much as possible, choosing physical excitement and mental curiosity as your prime directions to follow. As Uranus will distort that feeling nature over time, perverse feelings may begin to form as a kind of twisted inner compensation for an emotional denial. This can lead to unusual and varied sexual behaviour, or the desire to experiment.

In several ways, you probably need to reclaim that Venus feeling part of your nature. Those emotions need to be released, to have freedom to breathe properly and to circulate through you. You have to feel those emotions, allow them to penetrate your inner depths, instead of limiting their emergence. Otherwise, over time, they will begin to poison you, affecting any relationships in a negative manner and ensuring that none truly satisfies. Being willing to open to vulnerability in your relationships is essential; to risk being hurt is a chance to take, but can lead to a greater maturation and understanding of the transformative and healing qualities that intimacy can offer.

Venus square Uranus (Robert Pelletier)

The square from Venus to Uranus shows that you tend to be fascinated by individuals who have unusual qualities. You remain infatuated until the person begins to be seriously interested in you. Then you find new ways to detach yourself from any permanent tue, because you enjoy being a free spirit. You are not really sure you can ever accept the responsability of belonging to one person. The fear of responsibility is unrealistic, but it is consistent with your figuratively promiscuous temperament. You defy convention and deliberately show your disdain for those who submit to it.

You refuse to compromise with tradition because to do so would mean that you had no individuality of your own. There is much confusion in your mind between love and friendship. you win friends easily but you aren't committed to them, except socially or superficially. Love, however, is more difficult, because of the demands involved and the limitations on your freedom. It is extremely impractical to expect others to make adjustments that allow you to preserve your freedom, while you contribute nothing in return. Even friendship requires that you meet others halfway.

You can enjoy exquisite thrills in the total fulfillment of a true love relationship. In a merely casual contact, however, 'If you settle for less, you will get less'.

If you apply the same attitudes to your professional interests, the results can be devastating. Promotion is unlikely unless you slow down your breakneck social pace, to show that you are sufficiently stable to accept greater responsability. You must also be more discreet in your private affairs, which you tend to flaunt carelessly.

Nervous irritability often results from this planetary combination, especially if you are immoderate and don't get sufficient rest.

posted November 11, 2004 05:16 PM            

(btw... my family and close friends call me crissy, too-- just thought i would share!)

But I think you answered my question, which I should have phrased more clearly. I was wondering what kind of effect the aspect would have on a planet that was under the rulership of the sign it was aspecting. (Still not very clear, but I think you got it!)