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sthenri
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posted November 11, 2004 12:31 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone here have Venus in Cancer, or know someone who does to shed some light on the subject of control? Does Venus in Cancer like some control over people, at work or at home, and how much freedom does this placement allow his or her friends/lover?

What does Venus in Cancer do with friends/lover, and is it true that venus in cancer prefers someone who is in a lower social standing, or who is submissive?

Thank you,
Natasha
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Gemini Nymph
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posted November 11, 2004 02:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm, my Cancerian friends aren't like that at all, and I know at least two have Cancer Venus. But then again, I'm very selective of who I'm friends with.

But every Cancer guy I *dated* or courted was. Especially my ex-finacee, whose Venus was in Cacner and who wanted me to convert to his religion with no consideration for my misgivings about his religion or my own personal choice. He did things like bring over his missionary materials (he had been on a mission) to "share" his faith with me, gave me copies of his church's holy books, and had me over to his youth minister's house for an alledgedly drop-in casual introduction which actually was a 1 1/2 half hour "Why you should join our church" lecture, during which I bearly was able to get a word in, which of course infuriated the Gemini in me to no end. And if I investigated his religion in any way not "sanctioned" by him, he got angry and accused me of very strange things. Oh yes, and then there was the whining, pleading, crying and other forms of emotional manipulation that Cancerians are famous for.

I should add that this same ex was easily intimidated by peole of higher social standing too, and envied them privately to the point I swear his internal organs were probably a vivid green. Hence, he preferred someone like me - poor, a bit of a social outcast and whom he thought he could pity.

I do know that two of my Cancer-Scorp pal's friends are Cancers with Cancer Venus, and they're always trying to control people. My pal can thwart them off with ease and grace (she has a lot of Gem in her), but I keep a civil distance from them myself.

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posted November 11, 2004 07:10 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
whoa interesting what gem said because the only venus cancer i know has the sun/mars there. scorp asc. tau moon. he is staunch in his religious beliefs, very traditional catholic. he bends on certain issues such as birth control, but when he married he was very admant about his wife converting, going to church every week, honoring catholic traditions etc.

he is definately a typical cancer home body. his wife is a nit picky stressed out virgo, he appears to be the laid back one, but it turns out this is mostly a front to people not living with him *she is my friend also* and complains endlessly about how opinionated he is and how difficult he is to live with. he is extremely controlling and wants everything on his own terms. they have a 3 mon old baby and he won't allow any nanny or family member to babysit, because he doesn't trust anyone. he says "we're just paranoid first time parents". meanwhile his wife is basically in tears everytime i talk to her due to lack of sleep. the responsibility is almost solely on her.

all that being said, this man is quality. old fashioned beliefs aside, he has an enormous charitable heart. is senstive, loves animals and children, rarely raises his voice and is a good solid honest friend. but i wouldn't want to marry him.

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posted November 11, 2004 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Taurus has Venus in Cancer

I don't know that I would say that he is controlling per se. I do think that when he was younger he was probably harder to deal with. He has said that he always took the approach "Do as I want or your gone".

That has not been the case with me - in fact he gives me a long leash..sometimes I even trip over it.

He does have his staunch beliefs and he is not as openminded as he thinks he is -but that could be his Taurus Sun / Taurus Ascendant in the 1st house.

He also has Saturn in Cancer conjuncting his Venus - forming a T-square with his Jupiter in Aries (12th house) and Pluto in Libra (5th house).

He DOES NOT like to admit when he is wrong. He does not like to take the blame...that is something that I have notice. He just kind of skirts over issues, sometimes I wonder if it because he doesn't see it as a big deal- those issues... his Taoist beliefs have taught him not to sweat the small things.

My Venus in Sagittarius does not always understand his Venus in Cancer - which also squares my Aries moon (Hah!! My Venus squares his Virgo moon, so the energy at least balances out). I do love it though- his Venus in Cancer. Combine that with his Taurus Sun and he provides this stable -all consumming yet non-intimidating love that I can't seem to get enough of.

Don't get me wrong - we DO have our battles...he likes to think it is because I am highstrung - but in a way I know he likes it and I also know that he is responsible for at least 50% of our skirmishes. LOL

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posted November 11, 2004 10:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My step bro has venus in cancer. He's a leo. OMG talk about issues... I don't know if it's the venus or something else but that boy's got all kindsa issues, and yes I'd say control issues to.

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posted November 11, 2004 11:27 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Mr. Taurus has Venus in Cancer too. I wouldn't call him controlling. Actually, as far as the home and family are concerned, he seems to prefer to take the back seat and allow me to make the majority of the judgment calls.

Also, my Cancer Dad has Venus in Cancer, and is FAR from controlling.

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posted November 12, 2004 08:36 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Cancer may not be controlling, but it's a stick in the mud, very traditional, no change.

This one even told me he has trouble with changes of any kind, and he doesn't take my jokes about sex, family very well.

With my Mars in Sag opp Mercury in Gemini, one of the results is a big mouth that like to joke often. I really can't control what I say sometimes, but most people think it's funny.

Not Venus in Cancer, I just get this disapproving stare. So that's probably why I feel judged a bit.
And my Sun in the 6th can't stand it.

I could see why a Virgo would be attracted to Venus in Cancer, it's the coolness.

But Pidua, do you feel happy with your Mr. Taurus in regards to your social situation? You did have to leave you job and move, are you satisfied with that outcome?

Natasha
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posted November 12, 2004 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Natasha,

Yeah, I'm happy with Mr. Taurus - not so happy with this town, but it's growing on me.

He didn't insist that I move, he wanted me to be with him, but the first plan was for me to move to Idaho. Things fell through with my mom and he said "You can live with me, I would love to have you with me".

He had always wanted me to move in with him, but he didn't want to push the issue (we had already had our charts done and he understoond the whole hell bent freedom thing).


He is willing to move closer to Tucson once our lease expires so that I can be closer to the biotech industry. As of now, I am a good 70-90 miles from the nearest biotech employer and there is NOTHING in this town regarding scientific advancements. It's been the hardest place for me to find a job with my background...BUT...since I am also a fashionista (hee hee) I am going to apply today to a nice Department store's Ladies Apparral dept... I think it would be fun to be around all the cool clothes...and who knows maybe someday I will become a fashion "buyer" for a large company.

Ahhh..isn't that so Sag...start small but see the HUGE picture.

Anyway..Venus in Cancer - Mr. Taurus didn't chose this area, the Army did. He hates it just as much as me and it does get on both of our nerves.

But here is a perfect example of Venus in Cancer - this morning at 4am Mr. Taurus is stalking about in his uniform "WHERE is my money?"

I said "What money baby"

Mr. T "The money in my jeans? I put it there last night when I got home from work".

Me "Hmmm, why did you even put money in your jeans if we weren't going anywhere"

Bull boy "It's a HABIT!!..NOW what did I do with it? I can't find it.. It could NOT have just disappeared"

Me..hearing a bit of an accusatory tone in his voice and starting to get somewhat peeved... "Well, maybe you dropped it or maybe you DIDN't put it in your jeans". I get up, go to the front room and he is just standing there looking upset... I start to look under the couch (He is amused as all I have on are a pair of cotton bikini panties from Victoria Secret)..he smiles..I glare..

I say "Nope..not in the couch or under the couch, did it fall out while you were on the computer"

Steam comes out his nose "NO...I didn't lose it there I already checked..It could NOT have gotten lost in the house!!!"

Finally I turn to him "Well, you are SO Irresponsible!! How many times have you lost money? How about that $20.00 bill two weeks ago that fell out of your pocket while you walked from your car to the front door? Now you are up to $35.00 lost in thin air".

Now he's stunned "I DIDN'T LOSE IT..I found it in my car, where you thought it was so there".

Fine.. I go back to bed, he leaves - ...

It's 5am..I can't sleep so I think..Hmm....Bull boy...sometimes doesn't remember the little things (even if it's money)..he came home in his PT clothes..we had some fun..he unpacked his work back, took out his uniform AH HAH!!! He must have taken the money out, put it in a pair of jeans, took a shower and put on a DIFFERENT pair of jeans....

So, I pop up out of bed, open the drawer, stick my hand in the jeans pocket..LO and BEHOLD...Two 5 dollar bills and 5 ones!!!

I called him, left him a message and he calls back:

"Hi Baby...I love you...ummmm, I guess I must have put them in the wrong jeans..hee hee...I love you.."

I start to crack up, I mean I can't be mad at that, sometimes he really just makes me laugh because he is disorganized and I think "WTF..this dude is a Taurus - he's supposed to be the most fixed, stable dude around and should KNOW money"

We did get a good laugh about it, talked for another 30 minutes - flirted and he says "Um, can I just say, it was really sexy seeing you look around the couch with only your panties on..I sort of forgot about the money and thought..."

I said "I know what you thought, but you only had about 15 minutes to get to work..LOL"

BUT...he never said sorry.

I think Venus in Cancer and her issues are more expressed to the people they are close to, intimately- because Mr. T's family does not see the cuddle bear that I do. Nor does he exercise his control with them. He does let me know what he wants and what he thinks- whether this is just Taurus or Venus in Cancer -since the aspect is in sextile I woudl think it is ingrained into his entire personality.

As far as career - I know he DOES NOT want me traveling like I did at my last job. He is VERY set in his ways about that and has said "I do NOT want a wife that is gone 2-5 days a week, that is not conducive to a healthy marriage".

In other words, if I chose that path, our relationship will suffer.

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posted November 12, 2004 02:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does that bother you, that you have to wait for the move? And it's not really up to you, it's up to his work to decide when and where you both move to? At the same time are you happy working in fashion, truly? It can be easy to burn out on that, as I have done buying for stores before, and clothes quickly became less interesting that way.

I am just curious if you ever feel unfulfilled, at any time, and do you talk to Mr. Taurus about that, or talk to others? Do you think he's open to talking?

Do you feel he wants you home a lot because of a trust issue, or is it just traditional values? And what happens if you can't be home 2-5 days a week? Is that what you visualized for your future?

See I have a similar issue, with moving, I meet men who would like me to move of course, but my entire career is built on a location, and I was with a man for 8 years who supported my career, with good results. His career always did okay because it wasn't growing, mine was. I feel if I move, I throw away everything my ex and I did for 8 years.

Plus moving, making new friends is tough when the only person I know is an intimate friend, meeting men friends especially is awkward. Do you have any men friends now who you see away from Mr. Taurus? For business that's all I know, and it helps me feel more secure, there just aren't enough women in business anywhere, especially in smaller towns.

Also do you find that Venus in Cancer is not very good with change, as in everytime there is a change in lifestyle, it becomes stressful.

To be honest, it sounds like you are the soother, the nurturer in the relationship, the one who makes everything okay. I think your skills at negotiation are excellent.

I do not think my Sag/Gemini polarity results in a very diplomatic mouth, in fact I end up making more upsets, the more time I am home. I am one of those women, men usually want out of the house, not in since I am clearly always doing something, not sitting still.

But I am attracted deeply to Venus in Cancer too, not love, I wouldn't call it that, but a deep empathy, so much it's almost as painful as desire. I have a hard time telling the difference, and that makes me feel confused and unfocused. My romantic imagination gets tangled with those who are impossible, and I know that.

This makes Venus in Cancer pretty mad, especially seeing my indecision. I would say, that you are a much more efficient helpmate than I, and the Venus in Cancer is practical above all.

You are both well suited, personally I wouldn't help anyone look for anything they lost themselves, so I'm not much help domestically.
I can make the money, but I usually need help finding it in my jeans too.

Natasha


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posted November 12, 2004 02:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Woooeeeee!!

I'm glad I've not been pounced on by a V in C ...

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posted November 12, 2004 03:02 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I did get the "how many question" from a Venus in Cancer, as you can see from my thread in soul unions. Venus in Cancer likes to probe, and it's a little unsettling to me. I'm not sure how to feel about it or if it's good for me. I do like Cancer Ascendant and Cancer Moon very much but it took me years to totally trust those positions.

Natasha

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posted November 12, 2004 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Natasha...

LOL..lots of questions

1) I don't resent moving. I am very mobile and I seem to move every 2-5 years, even if it's local. Most often it is from one state to another.

2) I knew what I was getting into with the Army and Mr. T, also when he gets out in 2006 he will go into law enforcement. That will also cause some restrictions. I am used to it as my father was former Army, then a police officer and finally retired as a special agent.

3) Trust issues - nah, he just likes me here. I think it is a Taurus thing, he knows I won't cheat on him, but I can see his point about being "physically" available in a relationship. I was already married to a man where I traveled at least 1-2 weeks a month. I was always on the road and it is NOT conducive to a strong relationship unless it is temporary. We both want kids and would like to start within a year, if I am always traveling that will make it hard...

Besides..I have been there done that- had the high powered job where I made loads of money and came / went as I pleased. Sure there is a part of me that misses that, but I also know that I love this type of lifestyle more than the other. Before I met Mr. Taurus I was already looking into a life in Idaho where I would run a shop / salon with my mom. I knew that there would be struggles and it wouldn't be "sexy - or high powered" but I don't need that in my life, I need family. It could be the Saturn transit squaring my Aries moon - but I have learned so much about family versus career.

4) Being unfulfilled - Sure there are times when I feel "stir crazy" or "restricted" I guess in a way that may be unfulfilled. I do talk to Mr. Taurus about it. He is wonderful that way because he lets me get it out. He talks me through it and we look at options, what is causing it..etc... In reality I am lot more unstable than he is. There is a part of him that worries that I have one foot out the door or that I am a commitment phobe. In reality, I love him with all my heart and can't imagine being anywhere else. What bothers me is that I NEED to do something - work - it makes me happy. It does NOT make me happy that this stinking town doesn't have the bio opportunities - but maybe it is a lesson for me to learn - do I want to be in that lab again?

5) Fashion - yeah, I grew up with a fashion maven granny and my mom is a cosmotologist. Clothes, makeup, hair..it's all a part of me - I don't know that I would make it a career- I know retail is hard, my mom used to do it before she went back into hair and before her divorce to my father. Even if it is part time- it will get me OUT there..So that I can feel productive and still look at other opportunities. I don't see myself being into total research again. It is SO boring to be locked in a lab, doing nothing but the same titration, looking at petri dishes..etc.. all day long -with NO ONE to talk to. I did see a position with the University of AZ for an Academic Advisor for the Biology department. I did submit a resume / application and will see how that turns out. I would like to work with students in this field to help them determine what they would like to major in or where they would like to go with their careers.

6) Men friends: Most of my males friends live out of state- but I am not worried about meeting new ones at work. I usually have male friends as it is and Mr. T has many males friends who I talk to when we all get together. He doesn't get all that jealous- he has female friends as well. There is just a line that I cannot cross with my flirting..LOL...and I have been known to flirt.

Also..remember - I'm a Sag..I meet people all the times, finding friends has never been hard, but letting people get close is hard. Since I have moved around so much- probably 15 times in my life from California, to Oregon, back to Cali then on to Maryland, and now Arizona - I have made, lost and kept friends on a yearly basis.

I find it exciting to rediscover myself- to shake things up and see what happens. Mr T, well even though he has lot of friends, they are more like aquaintences. He more or less loves to spend time with just me.

I think it is my 4th house Sun that enjoys being domestic in a manner. Yesterday Mr. T and I were laying in bed just shooting the breeze. I said something about going into the dept store today. He said "Good..then you will have a job and have more time out of the house".

I said "What the heck does that mean?"

He said "You need to be out there, I know you. Even though you do lots around here, and you are damn good at it, you start to feel upset about being domestic, then you feel like you are not being productive and that is when you usually freak out at me".

Yep..he was right. I do like being domestic, but I also feel weird about it because I also love to work. Having a part time jobmay just be what the Dr. ordered

Well...I have an interview in 45 minutes, so I need to primp...

Talk to you soon....and Natasha, what is happening with your Venus in Cancer? You sound like you are in the middle of a major decision. I think I am missing some details...

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posted November 12, 2004 05:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just got away from one. Water is a little to deep for me. Too insistant on discussing subjects that I find off limits (it didn't help that my Saturn is exactly opposite) Pushy and jealous of my other commitments. He also played by a double edge sword, he did as he pleased when he pleased (not a problem with me) and had unfounded fits. When I made a special effort to explain he would try to force issues. I ended up totally shutting down and became unmovable (and unmoved) blame it on Moon and Venus in Taures. His thing was "I'm so great why arn't you falling all over yourself to be with me like everyone else?" His big mistake was critisizing my ex, nobody does that but me (and we never discussed the ex, he went out of his way to research him) telling me things like "after seeing him, you should be kissing the ground I walk on" yeah right.

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posted November 12, 2004 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HI LLL!!! How are you????

I can see a bit of that in Mr. Taurus - the need to discuss things that I would rather let go or things I do not feel comfortable about discussing. He likes to dig deep..very deep and there are times it just stifles me.

BUT...I guess that Mars in Pisces and my Scorpio planets deal with it - I also dig deep into people, just never really had it turned on me

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posted November 12, 2004 09:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lalinda, that just hit the nail on the head for me. That is exactly what my challenge is right now,
The Venus in Cancer is probing me, and not very delicately, and I can't stand being probed!

I feel like I am being shook up a little and it worries me. I also have strong Taurus, Sun and Saturn, and an 8th house Cancer moon myself so I am well aware of how to probe and why sometimes it's a mistake. Too much sensitivity can make me probe back in a not nice way. Now he thinks I am bitchy and emotional.

Right now, he is asking me the same question, three times in a row, as in did you hear me yet?
part of communication is listening to what' s not there, I get him loud and clear about what he wants, more intimacy.

The thing is I want to be intimate, that is transparent about what's in my head and heart on a daily basis with someone I can trust and be close to. I am not sure he sees me as relationship material yet, as in I have no proposal for anything, and my ex proposed in six weeks.

So being a fire driven Taurus, I am worthy, and waiting, but impatiently. Yes the water is deep, and I almost drowned a few times. I can see that the water is just reflecting back my own insecurities, but I would like a firmer foundation.

Venus in Taurus would relate well to that, I also do not like my ex criticized, as he was the first man I ever loved. There is a part of Venus in Cancer that does need to feel worthy, as in important. Plus I get the play by my rules or else thing, which is really a Taurus problem.


Taurean women like to see the fidelity, not hear about it, or it doesn't exist. So I have no complaints so far, just complaints about my point of view. But my point of view won't change. I don't see the reason to test me, or probe me, so I shut down too, and say things like, I can't trust you any further, I just need to be alone for a while.

That doesn't help me at all, as I seem good enough, but I am still alone.

So far Venus in Virgo, or Taurus are the only placements that understand me, that and maybe Venus in Sag, and Leo.
But again, there is an attraction, that's the missing piece Pidua, there is this empathy.

Maybe I am imagining it? Sometimes I think so. His personality is so tricky with Pisces rising, even though it's conjunct Saturn. I can trust him no doubt, he is the salt of the earth in his community, and was physically faithful to his ex for 8 years, although he strayed in his mind quite a bit and there were a few strippers, a lap dance, and some magazines (yes he told me everything).

BUT I cannot reciprocate with information, I have had much more sexual experience than him, and this bothers him greatly. He feels I only want or need a fling with him, as he is too screwed up or inexperienced to be with me. I get the feeling he has been drinking a lot to hide his insecurity about this and just obsessing too much. And yes there is no way he can doubt how much experience I have, as I am loud and proud. My experience has been loving, not casual. I do have a few ex's but we are friends and I respect his, so I expect him to respect mine.

What he truly wants is such a mystery to himself, that I think he has forgotten what he wanted from me in the first place. He needs guidance usually, and normally I would give it, but I am seriously disturbed by the feelings I still have for my ex, a Venus in Virgo, who is thoughtful and considerate, lately.

Plus he has a stellium in Libra, and his rising is conjunct my seventh house. My ex and I had a serious connection, with his Saturn in Capricorn in the 8th. Only he has more of a fatherly attitude towards me, and less physical interest in me. That makes me feel like I want him even more, but it's not really what he wanted. He is looking for more, like Libras do. More out of life, before settling down again.

So I am stuck with all these warm fuzzy committed feelings, I usually dont' have brought on by the Venus in Cancer, and I am kind of floating on them. My ex makes me melt still, but that could be in my mind too.

I do know I have serious issues with Venus in Water signs, they are moody, and resentful and we do fight. I feel emotionally abandoned when there is fighting of any kind, what I can't figure out is the Venus in Cancer trying to fight with me, or is he genuine about working out these issues? I have tried all sorts of trust games with him, recommended by my therapist, but she feels he wants to play and not fill my needs. But to be honest I forget exactly what I said that led to that conversation. I only feel strangely uneasy, like I have either met my match, or should run.

HIs Venus is a singleton, as well, in the 5th house, and that is interpreted as being a playboy. He does like to put on parties, but he swears he's not the partying all night type. His Sun is in the 4th which is a huge draw for me, but I get an unfriendly vibe from him about domestic life sometimes, that I do not get from other men.
He doesn't have any ex's around, which is unusual, the last one is living in Bali, on money he gave her to go. Is this a good thing?

I think we both have trust issues, that is one of us about to leave anytime, and I don't know how to handle that at all. I am used to being trusted. Why now? Well, I won't be back in his part of town again for a long time, and it's winter.

Winter means I usually flirt and date a lot more than usual, and the dating is always more serious. Traditionally I always hook up with someone long term at this time of year, and I can feel some interest there. If the venus in cancer is going to make a move it has to be now. That means I have to help, if I want him, and I don't know if I want him or not. Or even know if he's quality.

If anyone wants to look at his chart for that, let me know. Even if he's not the One for me, I would like to know if he's a true friend or not, or someone I want to hang around and trust. Not all men turn into boyfriends, some are just to talk to. But I need to know if he has issues or not.

Natasha

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posted November 13, 2004 01:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Pidaua
Sthenri,
Another thing to remember is that Saturn is transiting Cancer, so these guys are being tested, a lot of Karma with Cancer. With your Moon there you two probably have a better connection than I had.
Another thing to watch for is emotional blackmail, I would't be anxious to share any secrets with someone who could someday use it against me, threaten to tell, or make me feel bad about it. Thats a power play besides who wants to open up old wounds anyway? All of this is very indicative of how water responds/reacts (negativly). On the other hand they can be sweet, funny, and very supportive.

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posted November 13, 2004 04:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks lalalinda, I have felt the separations caused in part by Saturn transiting my moon. I have separated from quite a few people and changed my identity a bit. Probably I am attracting a certain right now until it's over.

I am trying to stay positive and talk to fresh/new people these days. This Venus in Cancer, seems clueless, so I will have to contend with him.

Natasha

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posted November 14, 2004 12:29 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi...
i have a venus in cancer...
trust me its hard on me..lol..

it makes me(a gem) clingy!!! n possesive, insecure n lunar mood swings oof...but my leo frnd puts me in my place alright..i hate myself when i dip into those yucky moods..then if the master magician mercury feels like rescuin me then great m back to being aloof n detached..or else ugh..sulking gem is not a good sight even for 5 min..lol..

but it keeps me loyal in love n easy to get into commitments n keep them balancing my gem bad points.so its not all bad..

personally i keep a little away from sun cancer males..only because i m scared of hurting them n i know how it hurts ..
love
sana

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posted November 14, 2004 12:43 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sara,I think you mean men who cry in public, or when it's done to embarass or hurt you, am I correct? Or was he really crying?

I'd hate to walk out on someone crying, I suppose that's why I am so easily manipulated by it.

Natasha
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posted November 14, 2004 01:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
exellent understanding of Venus in Cancer Sana. You have a good head on your shoulders and your understanding already of astrology is impressive. You're going to be a great astrologer!

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posted November 14, 2004 02:23 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks a lot LLL...i love astrology...mayb the only interest of mine that hasnt bored me at all...
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